“Emotionally Damaged” Woman Holds Student Back!
Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
I don’t know about you, but I’m really enjoying this week’s “mail bag” series.
I don’t get a chance to do these very often, and I’ll be blunt: this is only a smattering of the girl-getting wisdom and teaching that you’ll find inside my Coaching Program. You should really check it out.
In today’s installment, let’s look at a student who seems to be “stuck” on some chick and he’s trying to fix some real or purported “damage”…
I’m not old, fat, or ugly. I’m a student and lead singer of a band. I never had a problem getting girls, BUT the one girl I do want is more confusing than anything – and I’m at my wits end.
I’ve been on and off with her for three years and initially she was always ready to please sexually and otherwise – she claims I hurt her and now she is “emotionally damaged” … has no interest in sex and refuses to do anything sexual at all. I would like to seal the deal and be monogamous with this one girl but cannot because of the sexual issues. I’ve tried talking about it, being nice, yelling, threatening, all to no avail. She has random bursts of sexual interest but this stops short of actual intercourse. Considering there are quite a few other girls willing to fulfill my needs it’s getting more and more difficult to stay faithful. I want a healthy, functioning sexual relationship again.
You say it’s getting more difficult to stay faithful? To WHAT? Did I miss the part where you said she is currently your girlfriend and you and her are building a life TOGETHER? She claims you hurt her and emotionally damaged her, and at random intervals she’ll show “some” interest but you never actually board the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle. And you have other women wanting to fulfill your needs. Consider this:
- Whether you did or didn’t really “emotionally damage” her, you need to figure out why that has you revolving your whole life around trying to “fix” it. What, within you, is holding you back from resolving this for YOURSELF?
- Even if you COULD fix whatever damage was done, you can’t do it with her unless you fix it WITHIN YOU first.
- What, inside you, compels you to feel the need to “fix” her at expense of your own emotional power? (It’s written between the lines.)
- That being said…dude…you’re a rock star with women pining for you. Maybe you’re not picking the ripest cherries from this bushel because of the unresolved issues (within yourself) behind Door Number One?
All the more reason to get clear with YOURSELF.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If I had a dollar for every student who actually did screw up with a chick he was really into and beat himself up over it, I’d be living on a yacht with Tabbatha Jean and Tazzleberry Marie, on a 12-month (instead of 3-week) Speed Seduction® 3.0 Live Tour. There’s a way past it, but it doesn’t have anything to do with HER. Click here to see what I mean.
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