“She Said She’d Meet Me, Then I Never Saw Her Again!”
A dilemma that many smart guys like you encounter is, you effortlessly approach a woman while she’s “living life” and powerfully use my teachings to touch her inner desires and get her hot and bothered about you.
Or so it may seem. Then, the next step – the meeting, the “date,” or what have you – never happens. Nada. Zilch. You never see her or hear from her again.
But she SEEMED interested at the time. You ask, like this student who wrote to me, “what happened?”:
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Last week, I met this pretty girl in the cafeteria while waiting in line to get lunch. I approached her and introduced myself to her. She was very sweet when she talked to me. Then, she told me that she is too tired to stand on the queue and ask me to stand on her behalf.
I did as she asked. Then after I asked her where she stays, she told me and we arranged to meet again. Unfortunately by the time I went to visit her, I found her with her boyfriend. She discreetly asked me to come back the following day. I went there several times, but I never found her. What should I do?
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Recently, I answered a similar question by asking a question in return:
“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”
Even if you are interested in this one woman – she might be the sexiest, most intriguing hottie you’ve met all year – I still wonder why you put effort into seducing her. It seems like you are trying to figure out what went “wrong” in this situation.
So I challenge you to train your mind to first and foremost spot everything and anything you’ve done right in each girl-getting situation, so you develop an intelligent and informed motivation – not ignoring what needs to be fixed, but first and foremost seeing what you are doing well.
You did get her interested enough to say she’d meet you again. Even though she flaked, something you said or did THAT DAY got her pulse racing with desire for you.
That’s your starting point for the next woman you approach – who could be her, if you just happen to run into her while YOU go about YOUR daily life, which will include using my teachings while approaching and pursuing even hotter, tastier women instead of just waiting around for her.
Peace and piece,
- RJ
P.S. The key to success with women is knowing how to immediately spot exactly where and exactly what you need to improve, at every level, small and large, obvious AND subtle. Otherwise, you could spend years and years and never see all of these things.
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