“We Shouldn’t See Each Other Anymore…”
Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
Pretty much every student of mine, even those who completely master my teachings and do everything just as I would recommend, has an experience with a woman that leaves him wondering, “What the HELL just happened???”
This one particular Sarge report I just received really stands out, so I’ll review it first:
Hey Ross, you know, you’d think by now I’d have a keen sense for women who are just looking for a cheap thrill. Thursday night I met a hottie (I’d say she’s an HB8) and we really hit it off. Things went so well I decided to cut it short and make her “want it more” by telling her I had to go but I’d see her tomorrow (we made plans then and there).
So next day we hang out for a couple drinks, it’s cool, and then got together again (at my place) Saturday night. Next thing you know, we end up in a crazy-ass makeout session in my bed that goes until 7:00 AM. She left, then I went to bed for a couple hours. As you’d expect, I was in bed pretty early last night, then woke up at 5:00 this AM to a text from her: “I’m thinking we shouldn’t see each other anymore.”
Now, thinking to myself with a half-chuckle “Boy, THIS is gonna be good…” I texted her back “What brings this on?” I’ll spare you the play-by-play and summarize with: turns out she has a boyfriend, she felt bad, she confessed her liaison with me to both him and me, she had been bored and horny when she met me and was looking for a good time but hadn’t planned on liking me so much, which was why she wanted to confess the truth to me, and if only she was single, etc.
In her explanation (a half-ass one if I ever read one) I got a bit offended, and I asked her “So would your boyfriend also forgive you if you confessed you wish you were single?” She replied “I’m sure he would.” I then wrote “I feel bad for the predicament he’s in.” After which she pretty much told me to F-off. I have to admit, it bugged me a little.
Overall, this was well-played on my student’s part. I would, however, add a couple things. First let me ask: for what it’s worth, was she good in bed? As long as she wasn’t a weak lay, ya know….
Now, I don’t think her explanation was “half-ass.” She came right out and admitted she had been out for a good time, and in my student she found it. She also seems to have no real qualms about playing around on her man.
It speaks to her character. I’ve had women admit to me that they cheat on every boyfriend they have. My response: “Why would I want to be with you then? You just came out and admitted, in advance, you’d be unfaithful to me.”
I’m also pretty sure this pretty chick didn’t “pretty much” tell him to F-off. I’m not a betting man, but I’ll wager a handsome sum the text read more like “Fuck off asshole, and don’t ever contact me again.” Because my student let her know in exactly so many words that he was onto her little game, and he accurately called her out on her behavior and now the spotlight burned her a little.
Look: when this happens to YOU, remember this: you met her, you got some, it’s all good, now let it go. Lots of women out there actually ARE single and ready to mingle. A better one is waiting. Now what in the name of Becky’s bloomers are you waiting FOR?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. What was missing from my student’s reaction? I’ll tell you what: oh, yeah, he was a little offended and disappointed. BUT his world didn’t drop out from under him, he wasn’t crushed or discouraged, and he didn’t freak out either on her or the world in general. Hell, he was more curious to see what story she’d come up with, then worried about “losing” this cheat or worrying “what did he do wrong.”
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