A New Script, A New Way, A New Direction
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
We are bombarded with social programming by the Romance Racketeers through romance movies. The scripts brainwash us into believing the way to a woman’s heart is through dates, flowers, and all sorts of events.
It’s so damn predictable I could write one of these off the top of my head.
Blah, blah, blah, don’t worry, the ratings demand the “hero” ultimately wins. Happily after ever, wedding bells ringing in AFC-Ville, yada yada.
That is, until one of my students approaches her at Whole Foods and introduces her to The Boyfriend Destroyer then tells her about what his buddy saw on the Discovery channel the other night. 
Meanwhile, here I am, urging, warning, teaching you, never engage in dating rituals with a woman you haven’t slept with yet.
A major point of resistance I encounter is this belief that “everybody takes girls out on dates”, and skepticism: will women really leap into your arms for a hot, steamy make-out session within 20 minutes of meeting?
Well, Should You Go Out With Her?
First of all, when I say “don’t take women out on dates” I mean don’t rely on buying her food and entertainment as your primary ways of creating connection, attraction, arousal and fascination.
Sure. I’ve taken girls out for an evening, but I’ve already gotten them attracted to me. Do you understand? It’s not that there’s something inherently wrong with going out, but there can be if it’s too distracting. The challenge is, don’t use that as your primary means of creating attraction.
Now Change The Script
Secondly, the minute you ask a girl out on a date, all the checklists and the social proof and social programming is going to pop up. Never phrase it as a date. Say, “Let‟s hang out,” or “Let‟s go for a walk,” or whatever it is. Can you make that shift in your language with women?
Don’t ask, “Can I take you out?” because again, immediately all the stuff comes up. “He’s not my type. What will my friends think?” Etc. Get that s&#t out of your Sargy path.
Third: When you do meet up with her, remember that mantra of sales: “location, location, location.”
It must be quiet so you’re not interrupted. Don’t go someplace really loud where you can’t get them to focus and it makes it difficult to focus on her, and her on you.
Really smart guys call ahead even if they don’t take reservations and ask for one anyway, to make sure they get seated the way that boosts your chances and opens the door for you.
Does that sound like a better scene?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. When you show up for the meet, when you hang out, take that walk, go over there and sit for 20 minutes, your chances increase of it leading to a steaming hot make-out session when you show up attractive.
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