Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

My girl-getting solution is called Speed Seduction® because it helps smart guys like you cut through all the crap that’s been programmed into you about “dating rituals” and the “5 Bs”, and instead spend a far greater percentage of your time enjoying women you truly desire, and who desire you right back.

When you apply my teachings and Sarge on many women, by sheer volume alone you will experience more of what you want. When you’re at bat, you might catch a winning streak. You could also go into a slump. Or, you could get thrown what seems like an endless string of curve balls.

One of my students came to me with this telling challenge:

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Ross, I don’t know what’s going on here. I have been meeting more women, getting laid more, going on more dates – all of it – since I got serious about Speed Seduction®. I use your Sarging methods and try to screen women carefully. Maybe the “duds” are flying under radar because your stuff makes it so easy to get them interested and willing to explore with me!

They amount to one-night stands that linger for a week or so and then she flakes out. Or I see the chick a couple times and then find out she’s a nutcase and I need to drop her quick. One day I’ll have three women in various stages of seduction, and then 24 hours later I’ll be down to zero. I’d really like to find a girlfriend, so I need women who can be around me for a little while who I can really enjoying spending time with and getting to know so I can choose wisely when I do commit.

This ain’t happening with me having to start over all the time. All of the women I meet lately seem to be “low quality.” Do I need new sources of women? Am I Sarging in all the wrong places?

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I doubt this is a sourcing issue, because you can find any kind of woman pretty much anywhere. You can’t really know who she is until you get to know her some. I’m also not convinced it’s a screening issue, because if you’re properly applying my teachings, you’re quickly doing “Exit, Stage Left” with obvious poor-fit candidates and focusing your seduction on women who respond to who you are and what you put out there.

I would say it’s a matter of CATEGORIZATION.

Listen: unless I am in a committed relationship, I Sarge like crazy. All the time. Every day. Everywhere. Even at the scene of a house fire. The more I Sarge, the more I succeed. The more I succeed, the more I want.

Every time I involve myself with a new woman, she needs to prove to me she is worth being in my “upper” or “premium” category by who she is, how she approaches me, and how she approaches life. Believe me brother, I go through a LOT of women to find the few who can attain that higher level with me. Sounds a lot like what you’re going through.

Keep batting, Slugger; you’ll hit it out of the park sooner than you think as long as you keep applying Speed Seduction® properly.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Can you tell I really enjoy teaching and coaching? This is my life-blood. This is what I live for.

What are you doing this Sunday, October 25? Join me in Marina del Rey, CA for the first of (hopefully) many “Afternoons With Ross Jeffries“. For about the cost of dinner for two, I’ll show you how to skip the “dinner and a movie” and all that other dating b.s. and spend more time enjoying your choice of hot women.

The room is filling up and we only have a total of 55 seats in the room. Get yours now!

P.P.S. Oh, and if you can’t make it to the live event this time, you can still pre-order the DVD recording.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday on my blog, I told you about my student who had sex with the super-squirting babe who dried up and flaked on a planned meeting.

24 hours before their next scheduled meeting, she texted him with this: “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

He knew immediately (as did I when he told me) that it was a flake, a line of total malarkey, because she didn’t say she was sorry, didn’t immediately offer to reschedule, and tried to hide behind texting rather than calling him.

A few minutes after I wrote yesterday’s Steaming Hot Seduction Secret, I found myself AGAIN in teacher/mentor mode (the place where I thrive). I wrote out a brand-new Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern and e-mailed it to him. As you know, I do my best work when I am hands-on with my students, helping them succeed in their specific situations with women.

[For those who are joining me this Sunday (October 25) for our "Afternoon With Ross Jeffries," I will share this message pattern with you, word for word. And if you can't make it, click here anyway and pre-order the DVD recording of the event, and you'll receive the message pattern too.]

Some of the key points of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern (spoken in my student’s voice) are:

• I’m trying to figure out what’s going on and want to open the opportunity for you to tell me
• I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back (I use this in one of the screening patterns I use when I Sarge)
• I’ve enjoyed being with you and want to hear what’s going on

As a smart guy who is serious about success with the hottest of super-hot, wet women, he called her that evening and she answered the phone. After she tried to play him off and tell him she wasn’t “in the mood to talk” he had her pause and focus on listening, and then he spoke the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern to her, word-for-word.

For a “use a knife to cut the tension in the air” 20 seconds, she was silent. I would venture her previous men have been Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) and she’s never been in the presence of a real Speed Seduction® Master who powerfully claims his desire, his skills, his success, and his future. Now she was confronted by a man who doesn’t mess around when it comes to getting what he wants, and realized the “game” she is used to playing with men wasn’t going to work on him.

Then she said, slowly, “I’ve given this a lot of thought and I just don’t think we have much in common. You’ll make a woman happy very soon, but I’m just not feeling this. I’m sorry, I’m really bad at this.”

Whether or not this was THE truth, it was, as far as he’s concerned, “her truth” at the moment. And it wasn’t his job to “figure her out.” In fact, in my debriefing with him he said the only part he really heard was when she said “You’ll make a woman happy very soon.”

Like this pattern? Pretty cool eh? It clears things up so you can focus your energy and efforts on women who will be worth your time. That sure beats a poke in the eye!

And again, if you spend this Sunday afternoon with me (or pre-order the DVD if you can’t make it), I will share these, and others of my brand-new, best-of-the-best Seduction/Pick-up/Personal Change Breakthroughs with you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The goal of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern is to get her to step out from behind her game and claim her truth (if she can). In this case, she couldn’t. This is an indicator of how she would behave toward him if their interactions progressed to “seeing each other” and then “boyfriend/girlfriend.” By using the Anti-Flake this early in the interactions with her – the VERY FIRST TIME she flaked on him, he sidestepped a landmine so he can refocus his Sarging efforts toward finding the RIGHT women for him.

P.P.S. Would you like to get your greedy little hands on word for word seduction patterns, INCLUDING the “forbidden” Gemini and Dark Sun patterns that induce permanent behavioral change in the women you desire, allowing you to mold them to the exact erotic specifications you require, demand and dream of?

Then check out my Frame Control and Sexual Themes DVDs!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and again, something that starts out so hot, can turn cold fast in an instant, and for no logical reason.

Many students of mine report that their initial meeting with incredibly hot, horny, WET women goes extremely well – but then, too soon, she dries up, flakes out, and leaves the guy “high and dry.”

I recently worked with a smart guy like you who follows my teachings, who had just such a thing happen.

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Man, has the past week been a whirlwind for me! About ten days ago, I met this stunning hottie while I was out running errands. I ran a 5-minute pickup pattern on her and closed her on the next meeting so fast that even I wondered what the hell just happened.

So, a few days later, we meet, we go to dinner, and we go back to my place. Dinner at the restaurant was good, but dessert – served in bed – was hot and JUICY! This chick came 13 times in 20 minutes. And she SQUIRTS! She came so hard and so often that she couldn’t move her legs for a half hour afterward.

I saw her again a few days later and we went on a more traditional date (that I planned to lead up to another night of passion) but she seemed cold and distant from the moment I picked her up. Knowing I couldn’t open her up that night, I took her home early. I closed her on the next meet and left. That was scheduled for tomorrow. Today, I got a text message from her that says “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

Oh no….the wet squirter chick has dried up! Can I pour some water on this to get it going again?

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Everyone, pay attention to this, this is very important;

When you skipped the “dating rituals” and instead used Speed Seduction® to succeed with this woman you wanted, you experienced what was probably some of the hottest, WETTEST sex of your life. The problem is, this chick is playing a game she doesn’t know how to handle.

She could be shocked that she went to bed with you so quick, and unsure how to approach you. Maybe the sex with you was so intense that it created feelings she can’t handle. Could be she was cheating on her boyfriend with you. Perhaps she was looking for a one-night stand to “ride her hard and put her away wet” and was kidding herself when she took a chance on there being “more.” The “date” you had with her a few days later probably clarified this for her.

This is life in the fast lane, fellas. With Speed Seduction®, however, you can bypass all the dating b.s. and find the “gusher” who will be your “Old Faithful” and spray again and again.

Get off your Seduction a@@ and back on your Sarging horse – she’s out there waiting and wet for you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One more point. You will never really know what “changed” for her. It’s not your job to figure it out.

YOUR job is to take the girl-getting skills that worked (the 5-minute pickup, the first meeting that led to her soaking your bed with her girl juice), and apply them to the next 10 women you meet who are even hotter than this one particular squirter chick.

P.P.S. With what I teach you about this principle throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS in Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll have everything you need to handle matters when the squirting chick “dries up” on you.

These power teachings will ensure many “eruptions” to come!

Get yours….now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You read that right.

For the next few months, one Sunday a month, you have the opportunity to get my latest and best girl-getting teaching, training and insights, live and in person.

For about the cost of dinner for two, I will work with you, in person, to learn how to apply Speed Seduction® to skip the artificial “dating rituals” of “coffee, dinner, dancing, and mucho dinero out of your pocketo” and instead powerfully claim the women you truly desire.

Too good to be true?

Listen: I love teaching. I love it so much that nothing else in the world I can think of makes me more happy (well nothing else I can do with my clothes on). I’ve landed on a great opportunity to work directly with my students in a focused, intimate, and regular setting in addition to my regularly scheduled 3 day events and my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program.

The very first “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” is

Sunday, October 25th, 2009
1:00 PM-5:00 PM Pacific, at the
Creative Chakra Spa in Marina del Rey, California, USA.

Don’t Miss Out!

There are only 55 seats available for this event. Once they’re gone, you’ll have to wait till November when we open up the next session.

Note: this is NOT a marketing “scarcity” tactic. The room at the Creative Chakra Spa really only has 55 chairs in it, and there’s no room to bring in any more. I’d like to make room for more smart guys like you to spend an afternoon sharing Speed Seduction® teaching with, but I can’t.

So you need to claim your seat now.

Click here to get the full scoop and register now:

http://www.seduction.com/RJafternoon

See you on the 25th!

-RJ

P.S. If you can’t make it to Marina del Rey, CA (which is about 15 minutes from LAX) on October 25, but want to get your hands on the teaching I will offer in this session, you can pre-order the DVD recording of the event.

Make sure to lock in your pre-order now, and we’ll do everything in our power to have it in the mail to you within three weeks of the session (November 15) once we get it edited, formatted, burned, and in the envelope.

Go to http://www.seduction.com/RJafternoon and you’ll see the options for pre-ordering the DVD (a discount is available if you register to attend live AND pre-order the DVD).