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“When She Approaches You…But You Aren’t Into Her”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 12th, 2009
 When She Approaches You...But You Aren’t Into Her

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Doesn’t it feel AWESOME when an attractive woman approaches YOU?

fotolia 1477861 small When She Approaches You...But You Aren’t Into HerWhen you use my tips, tools, and strategies for approaching women, you’ll find that women become more receptive, more open, and more likely to attack you in a fit of passion, lust, and desire.

On the other hand, some women will shy from you, or outright tell you no. But that’s okay. Once you’ve mastered Speed Seduction®, that’s not only not a big deal, but you gain from it – and gain more success with women as a result.

But what happens when a woman approaches YOU…and you’re just not interested in her that way? One of my students told me this story:

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Ross,

I was at the grocery store to pick up some stuff for a date. On my way out, there was a cart of oranges. This girl stands right in front of me and says, “What does $1 off mean? Does it mean off the cents or the pound?”

I explained it to her and then started moving her into a pattern to find her feelings about a relationship. I answered her question and had some small talk. I wasn’t truly attracted to her, but I saw exactly what she was doing. She was opening me up.

In the end, I didn’t set up a time or meeting with her or get her phone number. I saw what she was doing, but she wasn’t what I was looking for.

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Here is my answer to this guy:

That’s good enough! It’s great to be “in the zone” and be a part of it.

Just keep holding that energy. Take the position that a woman being attracted to you like that is a daily occurrence and part of your life. Women are attracted to you. They want to come up to you, be with you and talk to you.

You’ll get to a point where that’s part of your reality, it always has been, and it’s no big deal.

Keep on Sarging and keep your eyes on the prize, and you’ll do well.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

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“This Close To Her Goodies….Then She Shut Him Down COLD!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 11th, 2009
 This Close To Her Goodies....Then She Shut Him Down COLD!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Becoming a Speed Seduction® master, like so much else in life, takes practice. When it comes to approaching women, for example, no matter how much you enjoy the results from what I teach in my Gold Walk-Up DVD, the clearest path to mastery is always going to be keeping yourself in the game, approaching many women, and using the strategies to get women hot, bothered and ready.

fotolia 1398046 small This Close To Her Goodies....Then She Shut Him Down COLD!However, you also have to keep an important point in mind: sometimes, the closer you get to the skills you need for massive success with smoking-hot women, the more frustration you might encounter, Because suddenly you are in the game, in situations you only dreamed of before.

Case in point: a student recently told me this story:

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Ross,

I was in Starbucks. I saw a hot woman. I started observing her. I thought, “What can I know about this person that I can use?” She was reading a book. I had your notes in my hand. I had an opening with her saying, “I’m writing some stuff and need to know the female perspective on this.” Then I went with the Eros Stone Necklace pattern.

I did exactly what you teach, Ross, and it worked in less than an hour! I had her come to the beach with me. Things got hotter from there. I thought I had done everything right, so I went for the close. I told her, “We need to take some steps to enjoy this somewhere else or continue it in the future.” She said,

“Oh my god, this is too much! I can’t see you further.”

I thought I had her! I wonder what went wrong?

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Now, as far as I can tell, this guy did everything right. Nothing went wrong at all with any of his skills or insights.

All that went “wrong” was that this woman somehow had some kind of problem with getting intimate.

Maybe she had a jealous boyfriend.

Maybe she’s super-religious and doesn’t feel right about sex.

Maybe she’s got something crawling in her cootchie that defies medical science’s attempt to stamp it out.

My simple advice to this guy (and you, if you find yourself in this kind of situation) is this: first and foremost, make a list of everything you did right.

Focus on that. Realize how far you’ve come with your skills. Imagine continuing to practice and getting great results in the future.

Remember: Total victory and success with women that you’ve always wanted could be one simple skill set away.

Everything you need for total success from start to finish is right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, when you’re out there practicing Speed Seduction® principles and meeting women, you’re mastering the teaching. I’m proud of you. And I’m there for you.

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The time is now. Get yours today:

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