Fear And Excitement: Two (Slightly) Different Forms Of Arousal
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
An interesting nuance about how human emotions work, how they impact our thoughts and behaviors, is the similarities between these emotions with respect to where they come from and how they impact us.
For example, let’s look at Fear and Excitement. Seemingly two completely opposite reactions, right? Well, yes and no.
Physiologically, there’s not much difference. Both raise your pulse. The difference is in how your emotional energy flows and how they make you FEEL.
When you experience fear, the energy is flowing inward. It inhibits you, stops you dead in your tracks, compresses you so you warily hunker down within your comfort zone. That sultry vixen in the little black dress who you’ve had your eye on from the moment you walked in will never know what she’s missing because you won’t approach her and let her know.
Excitement, on the other hand, is an outward flow of energy. This is an outpouring of exuberant vibe, a sense of liberation, a groundswell of unstoppable confidence that pushes you to climb to new heights. Excitement is what will have that little black dress she’s wearing at the moment, flung casually on the floor next to your bed in about an hour or so.
They’re Both Forms Of Arousal: It’s All About How You Process It
Think of it like this: physiologically, fear and excitement are both forms of arousal. Fear has a “negative” emotional component, excitement is very “positive”, but they are otherwise very, very similar. You probably know how to label them differently, based on the context you are in right now, and also your past experiences.
If you had a history of past experiences of banging lots of beautiful women, it’s unlikely another HB10 would cause you fear, but you almost definitely will get excited about nailing her.
If your mind is full of clutter, fear, and suppression because you view all women through the lens of the first girl who refused to dance with you in junior high while her friends joined her in laughing at you for asking, then your pulse will still race – but from your internal defense mechanisms “bracing you” for another assault from a bitch-pack.
See the difference? It’s often a very SUBTLE difference so it’s important to focus on what sort of arousal you’re dealing with.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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