Asking For A Date? You’re Already Too Late
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
All too often, I see smart guys like you, who have bid farewell to your Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) days and are powerfully getting women excited during the initial interaction.
Problem is, all that built-up passion just WAITING to dam-burst into a long afternoon, evening, and night of crazy fun gets dumped right down the drain – and runs off into the vast nothingness of her Inbox and voicemail.
Here’s an example that was shared with me …
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I have been Sarging on 3 or 4 women every week, and there’s a pattern emerging. At the end of each Sarge, the woman ends up giving me her contact information (email or phone). When I follow up, I find the number goes directly to her voicemail. She doesn’t call back, and she doesn’t answer my e-mails.
I am kind of stuck, as all the Sarges are ending with me leaving her email and voice messages and my earlier interaction with her is nothing more than her 40-50 emotional “time pass”. Don’t know what I need to do for her to have that urgency, or desperate desire, to see me again. Am I doing something wrong in my Sarge that’s falling flat? Any pointers would be helpful.
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The issue is not so much in your Sarge, as long as you’re following my teaching. It’s in the “end goal” of your initial interaction with her. You’re trying to get her phone number so you can call her up and ask her on a date.
Two things you need to understand, and put into practice IMMEDIATELY:
- If you’re aiming for the phone number you are focusing on the wrong thing.
- “Dating” is what you do with women you are already sleeping with.
If you’re getting a phone number so you can follow up later, you’re actually taking AWAY the urgency and desperate desire you just built up in your Sarge.
Instead of adding a new phone number to your cell phone, focus on the sensations you want that woman to undergo … and how you get her excited, hot and bothered, and urgently and desperately desiring to make out with you then and there. AFTER you experience hot, burning passion with her, she’ll give you her number without you having ask, and when you get back home, there’ll be an e-mail waiting for you where she tells you how she can’t WAIT to see you again tomorrow.
That’s a better “end goal,” if you ask me. Sure beats a poke in the eye!
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. When you’re Sarging, you should be focusing on getting her intrigued and fascinated, with desires and strong emotions for you so you capture and lead her imagination to places filled with excitement and pleasure. Not on getting her number so you can plan a date to get coffee. Coffee is for the next morning after a night of crazy wild fun at her place.
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