Hey Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Want to know one of the major reasons why so many guys just absolutely CRUSH IT in business, life, and their pursuit of happiness, EXCEPT when it comes to mastery and mega-success with the ladies?

HINT: It’s all around you.

Watch this video (from one of my recent seminars) and tell me what you think:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Many times here on my blog, I’ve shared stories of how my students have applied my teachings to powerfully handle situations with women who flake, women who “run hot and cold,” women who say they have a “bore-friend,” and women who drop the “F-bomb” as in “Let’s be friends.”

That last one makes my skin crawl, frankly.

Using Speed Seduction®, you can often turn that “friend” into your devoted lover, and many students have done so. However, some women cannot make the transition from thinking of you as a “brother” to screaming “OH BROTHER!” as you take her for a spin on the carnal carousel.

Sometimes, you just gotta cut your losses, as this student learned:

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Hey Ross! After listening to your girl-getting teachings in the Unstoppable Confidence course I finally decided to live up to Affirmation #5.

I called up a female friend of mine whom I had had a crush on for longer than I’d like to admit. I was her nice-guy, girl-friend, “brother I never had” and it was bringing me down. I told her that I believed that, in this point in time, being friends with her wasn’t good for me and I explained why in a polite a way as possible.

She said that she was my friend and understood that it was something I had to do, and we left it that once I feel I can be friends with her without it being a hindrance to my moral and self esteem that I’d get in contact with her again. She actually said that the idea that I’m going to eventually get back with her to resume our friendship is “The only thing keeping her sane right now” and cried a bit (she seemed to take it a lot harder than I did), but I knew this was something that I had to do because I couldn’t honestly look into the future and see things getting any better.

I don’t think it’s really set in yet, but I believe that not being friends at this point in my life will be far more beneficial to myself than continuing along the way things were. I hope this is inspirational to any other brothers out there who feel they need to do something similar.

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First of all, congratulations on claiming your integrity and alignment with who you are and what you give to the world. This is what it’s all about. Good on you!

There’s another reason why you broke off your “friend-ship” with her. You don’t come out and say it, perhaps because you realize it on a subconscious but not “on the table” and “in your face” sort of way.

She told you that the POSSIBILITY that you MIGHT be friends again SOMEDAY is the only thing keeping her sane… and then she burst into tears.

Your gut was telling you that, aside from her having dropped the “F-Bomb” and consigned you to “Justfriendsville,” that there’s something dinged about this chick. This is why you couldn’t look into the future and see things getting better with her.

Here’s what I see in your future: You’ll move on to Seduction success with the open, interested, willing steaming-hot women you truly desire and DESERVE.

Meanwhile, in a separate storybook that you won’t read, she will find some Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to be her “brother from another mother” and serve as her ironing-board for her emotional angst while she avoids taking necessary steps to claim what SHE deserves.

Look: the women who won’t lob “F-bombs” at you are waiting. Now that you’ve stopped being a target, what are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’ve got the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck in the “friend” trap, or otherwise in situations with women that are doing nothing but keeping him from the interested, open, hot women who will fill his world with passion, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

It’s an age old problem. Let’s say you’re out with some buddies of yours. While you are a Speed Seduction® master, a “ladies’ man” in complete charge of your world, your pals, as nice and cool as they may be overall, are Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs).

You approach and are Sarging an interesting and beautiful woman. And before you know it, your AFC friends have put a whole load of obstacles in your way just by being there.

Even worse, your own Sarging energy gets brought down because you’re looking to meet and succeed with some women tonight, and your friends hold you back because their girl-getting game isn’t up to par with yours. They’re your pals and all, and they don’t mean to, but they’re c#$k-blocking you. Frustrating!

I decided that now would be the time to address this when I received the below:

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It happened to me last night. I was out in a great bar with a group of my friends. I look up and there are two fabulously good looking babes talking to one of my friends. They get introduced to us. One thing leads to another and I end up separating the brunette from the rest of the group and sarging her. Of course, one of my friends then comes over and drags me away from her and starts ‘playfully’ dissing me. Sound familiar??

Anyway, the evening continues and I’m having fun just opening sets and doing mini-sarges on other women at the bar. I was “getting somewhere” with this really cute redhead and her friend and I AGAIN got some obstacles from my pals.

But I found that the more women I approached, the less problems I got from my friends. Then it dawned on me. They were getting distracted by failing to impress the Sarges that I had been forced to leave behind after they c#$k-blocked me. Meanwhile, I continued to Sarge on the most stunning women in the bar.

Is it really this easy – just Sarge like a wild man until I “outrun” my buddies and they give up and let me handle my game?

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You’ve probably heard the one about the two guys being chased by the grizzly bear. One guy stops to put on his best running shoes while his buddy says “COME ON! THE BEAR!” And the first guy says to the second, “I’m putting on my running shoes because I don’t have to outrun the bear. I only have to outrun you!“

In the same vein, when I am Sarging while surrounded by AFCs, I have a built-in advantage that drastically increases my chances of getting laid. Why? It’s simple…because it’s so damn easy to shine and thrive in comparison!

Sure, your buddies, like clockwork, will interrupt just when you’re getting response from the hottie. Sometimes they’re trying to compensate their insecurities by trying to dump ice water on your Sarge. Sometimes they mean well, and don’t realize that they’re c#$k-blocking you. Maybe they don’t realize that tonight it’s their turn to play “wingman” and keep your target hottie’s gal-pals entertained while you make your move.

This obstacle is no big deal at all for a playful, resourceful and fun seducer! Rest assured, the smartest, sexiest womenmore attracted to you at the bar will be even when there are AFCs right there for you to stand “head and shoulders above” in the women’s minds.

So let your buddies do you a favor… by letting them do you no favors. You handle yours, and let them handle theirs… and you’ll be handling more women than ever before.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s one word I REALLY hate. The “F” word.

No, I don’t mean “flirting,” “f@@%ing,” or “Facebook.” I teach smart guys like you how to do the first effectively so you can experience more of the second with women you meet in all walks of life as well as online on places like the third (Facebook).

The “F” word I can’t stand is “friends” – as in, when a guy Sarges on a chick and his game gets shot down when she says “Let’s just be friends.”

Man, it hurts my ears! In fact, learning how to effectively dodge and encounter this “F-bomb” is one of the most timeless challenges faced by my students. Case in point:

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Ross, what can I do to overcome resistance from a girl who says she just wants to be friends?

Things between me and her started out pretty fast, but it’s almost like she’s a bit scared now and is saying she just wants to be my friend. I mentioned that I didn’t want to play or abuse her mind and that I was looking for a truer relationship involving more than either “just sex” or “just hanging out.” I told her that maybe I didn’t want to be just her “friend” that way.

She said, then I would be like just another one of those assholes who never “understood” or “respected” her. So I said, “maybe we should discuss things.” She came over to talk. I tried many patterns on her, including touching and kissing. She said she loves to be with me as I’m fun and I allow her to just “be herself.” But man, it’s tough to get the “follow through” (beyond just being “friends”) when she shows resistance. I, of course, will move on from her, but I’m looking for some strategies for overcoming when the woman says “I just want to be friends.” Any good suggestions? I’m up for them.

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Many times I have taught and said: Never take her first response as written in stone. It’s just a reflection of how and what she is thinking, feeling and believing IN THAT MOMENT and it is always subject to change.

There are all sorts of REAL meanings to: “I just want to be friends.”

The worst case (which doesn’t seem like your situation, if you were touching and kissing her and didn’t get slapped) is that she isn’t attracted, fascinated or aroused by you … and just feels some comfort (you help her “be herself”). If this is the case, though, you are in trouble.

However, sometimes the “F” word means, “I feel deep feelings; if I have sex with you, my vulnerability will REALLY come out and you might be a person who will use that to crush me.” In other words, she has both desire (for you, for sex, for intimate contact) AND she also has fear. Could be she’s had some bad experiences and is looking at you through the lens of those bad experiences.

I encounter the same kind of resistance you are talking about. Yes, I, Ross Jeffries, get the “F” bomb dropped on me! When this happens I hold my ground and make no apologies. This might sound like BS, but staying powerfully congruent will get you far.

You are already powerful, and from what I can tell you have a great heart and are willing to learn whatever you can about a woman to help the two of you experience happiness together.

I hereby proclaim that you are LIGHT YEARS AHEAD of the clueless AFCs and Joe Schmucks out there who refuse to claim their power, results, and success with women.

Remember, the power is in you. And as you work your way past the woman’s resistance, say to yourself inside:

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s emotional 180s, her fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, her last minute buyers remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other up until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.

With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women. Claim yours today and avoid getting nuked by the “F” bomb!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the spirit of Thanksgiving (USA), I challenge you to thank yourself by simply “letting go” of what has held you back until now.

Look: in life, we all make mistakes.

When it comes to learning Speed Seduction®, and indeed, the entire subject of success with women, you can count on TWO things:

1. You WILL make mistakes. Mistakes in judgment. Mistakes in execution. Mistakes in what you leave out. Mistakes in what you put in. Expect it.
2. No matter HOW prepared you think you are, women will test you and women WILL surprise you. Just when you THINK you have a girl “all wrapped up” she will pull something out of her hat (or a##). So, like I have said in my original book and have repeated over and over, when you start really liking a girl, just remember: you never know where you stand with a girl until you make that first, serious physical move. Until then, it’s all talk, talk, and sometimes just play-acting. Sad but true.

In any event, I have learned that, too often, guys hold onto their “failures” and dwell on them. It’s like obsessively chewing on the same wad of gum for year after year, as it collects more gunk, bacteria, mouth goo, etc. etc. etc. You wouldn’t do that, would you? But so many guys dwell on their “failures”. Or on how some girl screwed them over (instead of screwing them!) back when they were still “nice guys”.

Look, the problem with dwelling on all this is, what you dwell on, you are actually just rehearsing and retraining your mind to do it again the next time around!

That is the problem with “slumps”. The more you dwell on how awful you are doing, the more you carry those emotions into your efforts and it is like putting a 100 lb lead weight around each leg and then trying to jump out a 30 foot hole!

And again, what you mentally dwell on with strong emotion is what you communicate to your subconscious mind that you want it to do!

Despite all your positive programming, which I believe in and teach, your NEGATIVE programming thru dwelling on mistakes will probably more likely influence how you think, act and respond, BECAUSE IT IS MOST FAMILIAR AND IT IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN WITH STRONG EMOTION.

Remember this: the unconscious is most impressed by anything that includes strong emotion, repetition, and strong belief. It does what is most familiar, not what you necessarily most consciously may want.

So avoiding this negative loop requires better attitudes toward learning. It requires the discipline and awareness to notice when you are beating on yourself and to stop it. And it requires acceptance of mistakes.

If you find yourself dwelling on the past or getting mad that you are not making fast enough progress, repeat this out loud.

Forgiving others, and letting them go is good training for forgiving myself. So even if they don’t “deserve” it I will do it for my own sake. I will either get what I want or learn what I need to. Mistakes are just MARKERS; marking out where I can step into new freedom, choice, power and growth.

I may wish I had been born more evolved or perfect, but THIS is my path and I embrace it. I may not always like it, I may slip and grumble, BUT THIS IS MY PATH. I will let my learnings pull me forward. I will never stop learning til I draw my last breath and in that last breath I will learn what THAT is like as I embrace the Source of All Learning … right now, today.

Allow this new attitude and new learning into your future seductions. And even imagine that idea going off into your past, adding its energy into your past as well. Come up to the present with this image inside you. Be thankful for your past; as it has helped you become the person you are today.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s just five days until this Sunday’s (November 22) “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries“.

For about the cost of dinner for two, which you’ll be paying for less and less of to get laid once you start maximizing my teachings in your girl-getting game, I will work directly, live, and in-person with a select group of students to help you master your success with women. A few lucky participants even get to come up on stage for one-on-one teaching and coaching.

Why do I do it? It’s because Speed Seduction® gets you the women you really want without resorting to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze.

I opened up my e-mail this morning and received the below from a student:

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I think your techniques are incredible. You really are a master of Human interaction. I borrowed a friend’s Speed Seduction® Course along with some seminar stuff and vaguely studied the techniques. I put it into action what I could remember.

I improved the rapport I have had with the women in my life, which has been life-changing for them, and for me too. I really understand their energy better, which helps all in the long run. It can even help make positive change in the women in our lives, help them understand themselves better, as well as make our lives better. I have seen it and done it because of your help. Well done, Ross!

Most weekend fights in bars are caused mainly by men who can’t get laid. If these same men were educated on how to understand women better and how to approach them and create better relationships with them, and if women were to understand that they could in fact talk to men, because they, ‘might touch them at a deeper level’ (get it!!) We would be in a much much better place as a society as a whole. We continue learning.

I must thank you Ross. Good luck, and keep teaching men how to be men.

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On my blog, I wrote an article about the transition from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Amazing Fascinating Champ with women. In it, I explain that how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you – and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. By taking action and claiming your vibe, your future, and your results with the most incredibly hot, amazing women (both inside and out), you will find that life is not only richer, but a lot more fun. And THAT sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Repeat this to yourself: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

P.P.S. Let me help you claim these results now. Join me in Marina del Rey this Sunday (November 22) for my next “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries.” We have a few seats left, don’t miss out. (And if you can’t make it, you can pre-order the DVD.)

P.P.P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then you need to claim your copy of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System and become the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We’re just six days away from my very first “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” to be held Sunday, October 25. In what is the first of (hopefully) many of these, I’ll spend four power-packed hours learning the latest seduction/pick-up/personal change breakthroughs. It is a small group and a few lucky participants will even get to work with me one-on-one, on stage! We have a few spots left.

The reason I am so excited about this event is because nothing brings me greater joy than TEACHING and working directly with you to help you succeed with the women you truly desire. I wasn’t planning on sending out a “Steaming Hot Seduction Secret” today but when I saw this in my Inbox, I couldn’t help myself. Here goes:

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Hey Ross, the weirdest thing happened to me Thursday night! I had a date with a woman I had seen previously. I use the word “date” because I remembered what you said on the Coaching Call about the differences between women you have not slept with yet and those you have. Anyway, that date went okay, but the evening ended early. For various reasons she just wasn’t in the mood. She offered a raincheck, so we agreed on a specific date and time and I and went home. I was frustrated and disappointed.

I got home….and on a lark, I called a woman I had met a couple months ago, but nothing had happened. She answered, and said “come pick me up.” Having been “shut out” just an hour earlier … I was back on the field! So we came back to my place. One minute we’re talking, and the next thing you know we’re having an incredible make-out session in my bed that lasted till 4 am!

On the one hand I feel like a girl-getting God – one date didn’t work out so I met up with another woman. I was in my zone and not ready to be benched. On the other hand…..HOLY F@@@!!!!!!

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Let me correct you. It’s not “the weirdest thing” – it’s part of who you are and what you do when you become a powerful Speed Seduction® Master. Good on you, brother!

Now…STOP. Your next step is to understand what happened with both of these women.

With the first, you got out of a situation that “wasn’t happening” and kept the door open for next time by confirming a specific next meeting. You’ve seen her more than once, so you’ve been paying attention to her patterns in her behavior and starting to see trends. As you continue to see her, pay attention to how she approaches you. In Speed Seduction® you use the material she gives you and apply my teachings so that both of you can enjoy pleasure and passion together. This experience will be great for you no matter what ultimately happens with her.

With the second, you say “one minute we’re talking, and the next thing you know…” Think back to what happened in that “one minute.” Whatever happened in that “one minute” is your takeaway that will serve you over and over again.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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P.P.S. Although this Sunday’s “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” is being held 15 minutes from LAX, not just guys from the Los Angeles area are attending. I have a few coming in from out of town. It’s THAT good. And there are only 55 seats available – that’s all the room will hold. So don’t miss out!

And, if you just can’t make it, you CAN pre-order the DVD recording. Click here now:

http://www.seduction.com/RJafternoon

When smart guys like you begin to make the shift from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC), to powerful seduction master who gets the women he really wants into bed, things come up that you might not have expected.

For example, there is a difference between the feelings and emotions you feel when you fantasize about the hottie you want to bed (or watch the porno starring the chick who looks like her), versus when you have actually gotten her back to your place, gotten her irresistibly aroused, and have had mind-blowing, steaming hot sex with her.

Seriously – it can mess with your mind. Listen to what one of my students recently reported:

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Hey Ross, you are my hero! A week ago I met a “10″ hottie in Starbucks. Using your pick-up techniques, in 5 minutes flat I arranged a meeting with her for the following Monday. In the meantime, I kept in touch with an email and a quick phone call just to build her anticipation. So, Monday rolls around, we meet for dinner. The dinner goes alright, and then we go back to my place. Once we get back, one thing leads to another, and before you know it, we’re having awesome sex.

I’ll tell you the truth – it’s been almost a year since I’ve had anything this good with a woman. I took her home late because we both had to work, though we had talked about her staying the night. The next day I called her and we set up another meeting, which will take place in a few days.

Problem is, the suspense is killing me! I can’t get her off my mind! The next night I couldn’t sleep in my bedroom because it still smelled like her perfume in there and Febreze wasn’t enough to make it go away. I worry constantly that I’m going to get a call or a text from her that says she can’t make it, even though on the close for the second date, we agreed on the date, time, and place for our meeting. It’s affecting my concentration, Ross. I’m afraid that I might get anxious and lapse into AFC behavior that could blow the whole deal. This has happened before. What do I do?

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First of all, congratulations and GOOD ON YOU, my friend! You have made a HUGE, HUUUUUGE leap toward Speed Seduction® Mastery. THIS is why I do what I do. If it wasn’t for smart guys like you MAKING IT HAPPEN, I couldn’t teach.

Two things I need you to consider.

1) First of all, you said it’s been almost a year since you’ve had sex this good. So for you, this is an event (out of the ordinary) as opposed to a skillset that leads to an owned result, a claimed result (where succeeding with hot women is commonplace and part of who you are and what you do). Therefore….

2) The suspense and worry you are feeling … if it’s anything like “butterflies in the stomach” … dude, it’s normal! It happens to me – Ross Jeffries – when I sleep with a woman the first time. You are not alone.

Sex with a hot woman should be an illegal drug. Really. When you have really awesome hot sex with a woman, over a dozen chemicals are released inside you that will wreak havoc on your mind and body. During sex, the woman’s scent will “claim” you and “bond you” to her. It’s part of the normal attraction process. You don’t get the sensations, the touches, the scents, and the release when you fantasize about a woman who isn’t in your bed. That’s why all this is throwing you for a loop.

Good luck with your next meeting with her! And keep Sarging!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. For this student, right now what he is feeling is like another “part” or process inside is fighting him..like no matter how hard he wants to progress, some other part keeps cropping up to get in his way or the same old responses, beliefs, actions and patterns of behavior keep coming up. Hence his worry about lapsing into AFC behavior.

P.P.S. Guess what? I’ve cracked the code and discovered how to turn this “Re-infection” Mechanism OFF, and to convert all the power and process behind it…into pure and savagely effective learning, unbreakable motivation, and consistent excellence rocketing up the Seduction Learning Curve!

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Get yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many of my students begin their journey toward Speed Seduction® mastery by carefully studying my teachings to increase their self-esteem and charisma and master the critical skills necessary to achieve what they want when it comes to the women they desire.

Whether you’re looking to get laid, have “friends with benefits,” find your soulmate, or even add excitement to your existing relationship (yes, you can use Speed Seduction® to spice up your sex life with your wife!), it’s up to you to take my teachings and adapt them to your situation.

However, sometimes, you think you have it “down,” but then certain limiting beliefs creep up. For example:

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I’ve had the belief that to seduce the type of women who are most attractive to me I must play the “boyfriend” role, which I don’t want to do. Is it selfish of me to just want to sleep with women?

What has happened in the past is: women quickly fall in love with me and want to call me all the time, hang out all the time and “play house.” I’m not interested in playing house with woman anymore, but on the other hand I don’t want to hurt any woman emotionally either.

If I follow what works and then sleep with them, and then only want to hang out with them when it’s convenient for me, well I feel kind of guilty about that.

It’s not that I can’t go and get laid, its that I don’t want any woman to fall in love with me, or want me to be their boyfriend. I have a fear that I will eventually hurt them. In the past I just kind of stayed with them for LTR’s in order not to hurt them, and then ended up hurting them even more. I know it sounds silly but I’m only human.

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First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: your beliefs are something that you have the power to consciously change.

If you are repeating in your mind, over and over, what happened in the past, feeling what you felt back then, seeing yourself doing and responding the same things in the same way, is it any friggin’ wonder that your brain, given such repeated instructions, repeats the same reactions, feelings, and behaviors now?

By focusing on “what was” you are creating artificial barriers. So you just want to get laid? Did you think there may be many, many women who are looking to get laid too? Do you think they’d mind getting some hot, explosive action from you? It takes two to tango, and the more you dwell, the less you’ll dance.

Up until now, you have stayed in “real-hate-shun-ships by default” because your belief system told you that was what’s expected of you. What happens today, tonight, tomorrow, next week, and for the rest of your life, is entirely up to you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Now, maybe this is a bit dramatic to describe your situation. But does it seem to you like the process of learning and personal change just feels exhausting?

Like no matter how hard you want to progress some other part keeps cropping up to get in your way or the same old responses, beliefs, actions and patterns of behavior keep coming up, forcing you to fight through them, no matter how much you truly try?

Using my Nail Your Inner Game course, you can blast past stuck points … untangle your past … turn confusion to clarity and losing to learning! Get your copy today:

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Making the change from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Speed Seduction® Master and claiming the most enticing, most enjoyable hot women out there is a life-changing move. You change from a guy who has to resort to bullying, begging, and other “B” behaviors…to one who effortlessly and confidently approaches and seduces women.

So let’s say, back in your AFC days, there was a woman you were into, but because you were an AFC back then, you ended up being with Rosie and her sisters instead. But now, this hottie-from-before is back on your radar. You want to show her the “new man” you are now, seduce her and f@@k her brains out, but she is trying to put you back in the “therapist” role.

Here’s an “SOS” I got from a student in the same boat:

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Ross, I got a call today from a hottie who several years ago I totally dropped the ball on. I had a good start back then, but then I got too lusty and too supplicating and lost her to some other guy. Well, guess what? He dumped her 2 weeks ago and guess who she’s calling. ME!

When she called, she started crying about him, trying to (again) make me the veritable emotional tampon/AFC-friend. I totally refused, and said if we get together it has to be in a quiet place where we could have a few laughs.

I kept the call brief to avoid the AFC frame, especially after she instead asked me to come over tomorrow because she’s with her kids (in other words, so she could be near her safety net). I said I’d get back to her this week.

How can I move from “potential AFC supplicant borefriend emotional tampon” to “tasty-fuck-treat?” This is hard to do once you are in the “friend” category.

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Being “stuck” in the friend category – or stuck ANYWHERE for that matter – is a choice that YOU consciously make.

When she dumped this guy, who did she call? YOU. So use that fact for what it’s worth.

You can get her aroused and hot and bothered, but it has to be done in a certain sequence and a certain location. You need to get her away from her “safety net” and into a place where she will be open to exploring new things … and the possibility of exploring with you … in bed.

The key is to use the information she gives you to your advantage. Before you know it, you’ll be enjoying mind-blowing sex with her – and pretty much any other woman of your choosing that you might have “missed out on” in the past as a result of the “way you used to be.”

Peace and piece,

RJ

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