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The Secret To Becoming A “Kissing Bandit”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 22nd, 2010
 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.

ca 89305996 180 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing BanditClosing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…

Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?

What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.

Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.

Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.

I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.

What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

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Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.

Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The Secret To Becoming A “Kissing Bandit”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 22nd, 2010
 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.

ca 89305996 180 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing BanditClosing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…

Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?

What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.

Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.

Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.

I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.

What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

ca 32338742 325 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.

Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Can’t Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 28th, 2010
 When You Cant Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever had it happen where for some reason, you just can’t stop thinking about a particular chick?

Like, you spend hours visioning what your next meeting (or even phone call) will be like, exactly what you’re going to say?

ca 63290464 180 When You Cant Get Her Off Your Mind (Even Though You Know Better)Then, you find yourself agonizing over the right time of day you should call her? Suddenly worried that she might see what you put on your Facebook wall and fretting that she might interpret your status a certain way (that keeps your willy dry)?

Normally I ask, when I get questions like this I ask, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most,

Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman
on the whole freaking planet???

However. in this case I think you realize that she isn’t. It’s just that there’s something inside of you keeping you fixated on this one chick.

First, you’re probably placing too much importance on this one chick. Have you f@@ked her yet? (It’s a yes or no question; either your Junior Explorer has explored her woman cave, or it hasn’t.)

Next
, define “importance”. Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect with.

A lot of times guys find their “stuckness” can be exacerbated by being confused by that woman’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other deeply frustrating and seemingly (to you) irrational actions. Sound familiar?

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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She Agreed To That Date – Then She Texts You…

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 18th, 2010
 She Agreed To That Date   Then She Texts You...

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

ca 63290646 180 She Agreed To That Date   Then She Texts You...Should you ever accept a woman’s “excuses” for cancelling a date or meeting? Do you know how to successfully handle those cases where you really should give a woman another chance? Or do you keep getting sucked into another round of time and attention wasting female flim-flammery?

Bask In My Wisdom, Seduction-Master-In Training!

My rules for this are very simple:

  1. No matter how good an “excuse” may sound to you, remember most women are excellent liars, and text makes it exceedingly easy for even a poor liar to do it quite well. After all, you can’t hear voice tone or inflection, which are two big keys to when a chick is fibbing.(Hint: another key is, she is moving her lips!)
  2. The bottom line is that a woman who is truly interested in spending time with you but for some legitimate reason just can’t do so, will make her interest very clear, almost certainly by asking if she can see you another time and day.
  3. What women do is far more important than what they say. What they say can easily play into your neediness, horniness, need for validation, etc. etc. What they do is clear and easy to see.

There’s No Excuse, For Date-Break Abuse!

So under what circumstances should you give a date-breakin’ chick another shot at the honor of riding your pink steel? And when should you shine her on as a waste of the space she’s squatting in?

Well, from what I’ve written above, it ought to be pretty clear, Buckwheat. The only scenario where I would even consider her as a prospect is if she makes it very clear in the text that cancels, that she really does want to spend time with you.

Anything else you need to either:

A) Forget it and move on

B) Put her in your mental “refrigerator” for 30 days. After 30 days goes by, text her and say, “Hey…if you see that cool fun girl I thought I met, have her text me. She was kinda interesting”.

Here’s the deeper truth: when you know how to easily meet women, anytime, anywhere, and quickly capture and lead their imagination and emotions, you won’t give two toots in hell if an occasional bimbo doesn’t get the value of having you bend her over your sofa and giving her the old “Sargy One Two Three”.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, don’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part III)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 29th, 2010
 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part III)

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

My recent posts on women who “run hot and cold” have struck quite a nerve.

ca 81356736 180 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part III)I’m getting a ton of e-mails and responses, so I know this is an issue that many smart guys like you, including those in my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program, need assistance getting handled.

Now, talk about “hot and cold” – this next letter comes from a student who is Sarging on a woman who goes from naming the kids and planning weekends with the in-laws to not returning his calls, just like that… and he just recently met her!

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The woman in particular is an attractive, 25 yr old small-business owner who seemed to open up very quickly. I met her friends and family right away and we spent a lot of time together. She talked about children’s names and eluded to “our in-laws.” She almost disappeared July 4th and within a week of extreme distance said “you’re not like anyone I’ve ever dated and I don’t know why I’m pushing away what I truly want.”

She bought me gifts and a card the second time we went out, text me many times throughout the day and seemed so sweet, compassionate and just wonderfully feminine.

I’m not sure what went wrong but it sucks, bad. What do you guys think? Did I kill the attraction?

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First of all, what does “open up very quickly” mean? DID YOU F@@K HER? DID YOU F@@K HER? DID YOU F@@K HER? (That’s a yes or no question – you did or you didn’t.)

Frequently in the “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets” ezines I hammer the point that “dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with!” Why?

Because when the interaction turns to “dating,” women instinctively pull out their “checklist” of what the “perfect man” is and start rating whether you are “her type.” If you have not yet connected with her emotionally and set the “anchors” that make any “checklist” irrelevant, you don’t want to be “dating” her.

For the same reason, I’m not in a hurry to meet family and friends. It puts too much “meaning” on things, and immediately that often triggers a woman’s “is he REALLY the one” fractionation / emotional interruption mechanism.

ca 30406760 180 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part III)Now, she’s talking about kids’ names and in-laws that early on? That means she is trying out that kind of thinking because she thinks it is how she SHOULD be thinking instead of wanting to go out with her girlfriends, get laid, have fun, etc. She’s trying to convince herself.

Right now, you’re in knots from her “running hot and cold” (the gifts and cards, followed by the “extreme distance”) because you are hooked on the validation and attention. So when she pulls it away, you freak out, get clingy, drive her away, instead of being aware of that response as it first arises and being able to redirect.

It’s time to break the “hot and cold” cycle caused by your need for validation by this (or ANY) woman, and find the woman (or women) who will just want consistent, steaming-hot fun.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part II)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 18th, 2010
 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part II)

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

About a week ago on my blog, I told you the story of the student who was facing challenges from a hot babe who kept cranking his faucet knob by “running hot and cold,” with the end result that she wasn’t cranking his other knob.

ca 10061466 180 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part II)Last night, I received an e-mail from one of you who tells a similar tale, but with an interesting twist. And it got me thinking. So, let me share it with you now along with some more insights to help you create irresistible arousal and avoid the trap of “getting cranked”:

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My situation is that me and this incredible babe I’ve been seeing are probably more in the category of “intimate” in the sense that we are not just flirting and being sexual but there is also lots of holding hands and hugs, etc., and I have always stayed the night instead of it just being “hit and run.” We dont see that much of each other – maybe about once a week – so I can’t say things are really serious. Although, what I would like to know from her is would she like it to be serious!

However, and this is the big BUT…. I like affection, I like intimacy and the problem lies in that I will often if not always find myself initiating kissing with her, and sometimes I go to kiss her and she kind of doesn’t react at all, like she holds her mouth still, which I find weird. She is also texting me alot saying she can’t wait to get her hands on me and other flirty stuff. But when we are together in person she is far more reserved.

In the past, I would chase girls or frighten them away (especially the the ones I like), hence I want to learn from my mistakes and not do it again.

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I have three rules to share, or rather, axioms:

Rule/Axiom #1:

CONFUSED PEOPLE BEHAVE IN CONFUSING WAYS.

It sounds to me like this lady can’t tell what she wants, from what she’s getting, from what she thinks she SHOULD want, etc etc.
You’re spending the night on the “every so often” occasions you see her. She acts all excited with anticipation when there’s a date planned, but then when you kiss her, she doesn’t move her lips?

Rule/Axiom #2:

IN ANY CONFLICT BETWEEN WHAT A WOMAN SAYS AND WHAT A WOMAN DOES, PAY ATTENTION AND GIVE WEIGHT TO WHAT SHE ****DOES****

As a Seduction master, it’s your job to receive and interpret the “vibe” she puts out, and feed it back to her in a way that gets her hot and bothered and inserting you into her fantasies, so when she lives them out, she lives them out with you.

ca 63290366 180 When She Twists Your Faucet Knob By Running Hot And Cold (Part II)Rule/Axiom #3:

WOMEN ARE CHAOTIC SYSTEMS. AS SUCH, WHAT THEY WANT AND WHAT THEY “RESPOND” TO MAY VARY FROM DAY TO DAY, WEEK TO WEEK, EVEN HOUR BY HOUR, DEPENDING ON ALL SORTS OF ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS, HER OWN INTERNAL HORIZONTAL AND VERTICAL FRACTIONATION PROCESSES, HEALTH/MONTHLY CYCLE, etc.

Again, you need to remain in control of the situation and remember also that a woman’s first (or current) response is rarely an indicator of what’s “final.” Using Speed Seduction®, you have the power to influence that to help her find her way to you – assuming she is, indeed, open and willing. (And if not, you do “Exit, Stage Left!” and Sarge on the next hottie you see!)

Peace and piece,

RJ

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“I’ve Got A Crush On Her…And It’s Crushing ME!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 9th, 2010
 Ive Got A Crush On Her...And Its Crushing ME!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush, according to Dictionary.com is “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

ca 63290660 180 Ive Got A Crush On Her...And Its Crushing ME!Almost every guy has had one. Maybe it’s on a woman he just knows a little, here and there. Maybe she’s a co-worker. Could be she’s that amazingly hot bartender who works at the happy-hour joint every Thursday night and is sometimes flirtatious toward him.

Maybe he’s gone out with her a few times and has had fun hanging out with her so far. Or, she’s someone he walked up to and Sarged on, found she was open to who he is and what he gives to the world, and took a high-speed ride on the carnal carousel.

No matter what, he’s got her on the brain. All the time.

He thinks about her constantly… creates scenarios in his mind of how his next interaction with her will be so he “gets it right.” Constant, relentless, thoughts of her will keep him from being productive at work and unable to enjoy hobbies and interests, or even hanging out with his pals.

Here’s a note from a student who reports he’s “got it bad” for a chick:

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Too often, though I know logically it makes no sense, I find myself falling into the trap where I place too much importance on one particular woman. Like, I get a crush on her and it make me unable to think or focus on anything else.

What are some ways I can moderate myself when my interest in a particular woman causes me to become uselessly intense about that woman. Are there specific methods to help gain perspective when I find myself becoming too hot and heavy about someone, as I find myself now doing?

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First of all, define “importance.” Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

ca 36858504 180 Ive Got A Crush On Her...And Its Crushing ME!I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect in, and it can be confusing.

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Next time you feel the pangs of your crush on a woman, answer the question of what her actual “importance” is to you. It’s the first (and critical) step toward busting free of the vice-like grip of your crushes on women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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What Does “Acceptance” Have To Do With Getting Laid?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on December 30th, 2009
 What Does Acceptance Have To Do With Getting Laid?

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A major theme that rears its ugly head in almost any discussion on seduction is the concern about looking “too eager” or approaching a woman with the vibe that how your day turns out depends on how she responds to you right now.

fotolia 2149329 small What Does Acceptance Have To Do With Getting Laid?Act TOO eager and she’ll think you’re desperate and shoot you down. Act too aloof and she’ll think you hate her and she won’t go to bed with you, much less agree to meet you later in a more intimate setting. So it leaves you wondering…

… just where the h@ll is the “middle ground” here?

I just got a question from a student who poses this issue from a slightly different angle:

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Hi Ross, I have a question. If I am talking to a girl, I will be trying to get rapport with her. It seems however, that when I’m trying to get rapport with a chick, that she will detect this and then push me away. What do you think I should do in order to obtain rapport without looking like I am “hungry for rapport” if you know what I mean? You know what I mean? Without looking like I’m “trying to get in with her?”

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As Voltaire said, “If you are going to debate with me, first define your terms.”

So, what exactly do you mean by “rapport”…because I think your meaning is way off base.

I think YOU mean, “acceptance, welcoming, interest.” That you are trying to get her to show you all of these things. And that is NOT rapport at all, at least not a useful definition for Sarging.

There are plenty of useful definitions, but one I would aim at is,

“An unconscious sense of connection, trust, ease, a sense of being on a similar wavelength, a relaxed ease in each other’s presence.”

This is quite different from gaining acceptance or being welcomed into the person’s world. Just because she accepts your tubesteak into her wet, willing love canal doesn’t mean you’ve become a part of her existence.

Back in October, a student of mine got laid on the first “date” with a “super squirter chick.” He had a great time with her that night, but their next meeting (three days later) was a bust… in which he didn’t get to see… her bust.

Then, she “dried up” and flaked with a bull%$@t excuse the day before what was supposed to be their third meeting. When he used an anti-flake pattern to get her to speak her truth about the matter, she told him she enjoyed their night together but didn’t feel anything in common and saw no future with him.

When she told him this, he even agreed. During the times he was with her and they weren’t f@@king, it felt to him like he was working to make even basic conversation with her. She wasn’t the kind of woman who responded to who he is and what he gives to the world.

None of the elements of MY definition of “rapport” were in place for him with her. He chose to “exit, stage left” at this point and move on to women who were more receptive to his vibe.

In other words:
despite all my student’s angst that whole week about whether she “accepted” him, it was a one-night stand. Period.

The irony is, if he had not worried so much about “building rapport” and becoming “part of her world” per se, and just focused on getting laid (since he had nothing else in common with her but the sex was awesome), he probably would have f@@ked her againand again… and if that ran its course, possibly nailed one of her hottie friends next.

When deciding where any woman you meet fits in your world, first define your terms for approaching women and life.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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“Why Can’t I Find The Woman Of My Dreams?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on December 3rd, 2009
 Why Cant I Find The Woman Of My Dreams?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

First of all, it’s that time of year again! On January 22-24, 2010, we will be holding our next Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, CA. More details on that and a special, limited time offer when you click here.

And now …

fotolia 2335887 small Why Cant I Find The Woman Of My Dreams?I believe every guy out there has a vision of what his “dream woman” looks like, sounds like, acts like, tastes like, etc.

We all have “tastes”, just like some people like chocolate ice cream more than vanilla. Even though they may like the vanilla, it’s the chocolate ice cream he desires most. I, too, have certain “types” of women who really rev my engine and inspire my girl-getting game. And when I see what I like, I am far more likely to approach her.

Now, sometimes it gets frustrating when you have no problem getting women in general, but you just can’t seem to land the “woman of your dreams.” Case in point: this note I received from a student of mine.

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Hey Ross! I’ve been struggling to find just the woman I want to be with. I’m a good looking guy, 36 years old, with a nice face and a sculpted body. Women have told me I have hypnotic eyes. I’ve slept with lots of women. But none of them have been quite the women I want.

I’m very selective, and I have a vision of the woman I want. She has a slender body, short black hair, and is about 5′5 (I’d like her to be about 6 inches shorter than me). I get lots of girls – don’t get me wrong, I have no problem attracting women – but I’m at a point in my life where I want to settle down, and I have a specific vision of what she should look like.

Is there anyway you can help?

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Let me challenge your thinking on this. I had a student who could only feel attraction to a woman if she had long, curly, jet-black hair, deep brown eyes, wide hips, and long legs. Preferably, she would be Italian, or of Italian descent. This held my student back from many exciting adventures with women because he pushed away women with blond or red hair, even when they threw themselves at him begging for him to take them to sexual heights they’d never seen. When he found what he WAS looking for, he came on too strong and repelled her.

His desire for this “type” was driven by an extreme sense of deprivation. In middle school he was publicly spurned by a classmate who was full-blooded Italian and looked like his “dream woman.” He felt the need to compensate by Sarging on all the black-curly-haired, brown-eyed, wide-hipped, long-legged Italian women he could find. Unfortunately, not many of them seemed to want him back (because he came across as needy), so he had a LOT of dates with Rosie and her sisters.

Once he recognized and accepted his sense of loss, it was no time at all before his girl-getting game climbed to new heights. Ironically, in addition to all the blondes and redheads who now see him differently than ever before, he now attracts more women who are his “type” because he is no longer projecting “neediness” caused by relentless efforts to compensate for what happened to him when he was 13 years old.

So do an inventory and see if there is some slender-bodied, short-black-haired, five-foot-something hottie from the past who you’re still chasing after. Stop chasing her and the odds go up that you’ll find her.

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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“She Attacked Me On The Elevator Going Back To Work!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 14th, 2009
 She Attacked Me On The Elevator Going Back To Work!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s great to hear from smart guys who aren’t just talking about it or thinking about it, but who are out there actually DOING it…with steaming hot women!

fotolia 2526492 small She Attacked Me On The Elevator Going Back To Work!Listen: there’s an unlimited supply of amazing women waiting for you when you’ve learned the fantastic secrets I teach in my Gold Walkup DVD. Once you get this stuff down, you’ll never have to worry about what to say, ever, anymore, again!

In fact, here’s an awesome note I got recently from a student, that I shared with my readers in my daily newsletter:

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Ross, you are awesome!

This woman had been telling me she likes me in so many words for over 2 years, but because I’m hitched she would never make a move and told me so.

Recently I met up with her and hit her with 3 or 4 patterns while at lunch. As I worked the patterns, she stared blankly in space as she absorbed the vision she was getting.

Two weeks later we had lunch again. She started showing me naked pics of her boobs and told me she was gonna f@@k me regardless of my status! She attacked (grabbed and kissed me on the lips) out of the blue on the elevator going back to work!!!!

I have your patterns memorized to the “uh huh” phase, but still I have not Sarged much with different women like I want to. I would give ANYTHING to actually hear how you actually paused, and what your tempo sounded like when you got the waitress in trance. Any tapes I can buy to hear it for myself???? U R DA MAN!!

Thanks Ross! – L.L.

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Dear L.L.,

Wow. What a difference in women’s behavior toward us when we know how to capture and lead their imaginations and emotions. Then it’s a totally different game where you can write your own ticket, without gambling or guessing.

Congratulations again L.L. on stepping up. That’s what it’s all about.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S.
The reason L.L. has her begging him to f@@k her is because he studies my teaching and applies it to his own situation in the way that works best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize. He shoots…and scores!

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