The Secret To Becoming A “Kissing Bandit”
Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.
Closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.
Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…
Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?
What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.
Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.
Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.
I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.
What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.
Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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