When You Ask Her Out (But Don’t Actually Ask)
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
It’s an oft-told story…
Boy meets Girl in an “everyday” setting.
Girl smiles and giggles oh-so-cute and Boy sees the door open and beckoning.
Boy strikes up a little convo. Girl’s answer to his innocent-yet-obviously-leading question (the one where he asks her out without actually f@@king ASKING) leaves him stumped even though it’s plain-as-daylight stuff.
Let’s hear from a student who felt like he just got “traded down to the minors” off such a seemingly innocent response:
The other day, I went to a local clothing store because I needed to pick up a couple things. I was greeted by a cute, bubbly sales associate. I said hi and bought a belt and a few other things (I was there for that in the first place). I commented on her style, then I left. But – as if opportunity was raining down from heaven, I had forgotten my cell phone, so I went back and said I lost it!
She asked for my number so we could call it and hear it ring. Lo and behold, it fell off while I was trying on the belt and landed under a rack with fall jackets on it. Heard it ring and picked it up. Then I asked where she lived, and her name, and if she had plans for the evening. She said she was going to relax at her place.
I didn’t know what to say, so I left (with her phone number, and her name). She seemed interested in me, and I was wondering what I could do to get in contact with her, and get her to meet me. Can you help me?
Let me start with the Captain Obvious answer: call her and and f@@king ask her out.
Don’t try to figure out if she really seemed interested… or just being all cute and flirty to loosen up your wallet by tightening up your Johnson (something that, uh, RARELY happens in the real world and is, uh, NEVER done on purpose). Besides, your memory of actual events is probably distorted by now over hot you think she is… and how hot you wish, hope, and pray she was FOR YOU.
But think about what you’re asking her (or the next woman, when you go back for cuff links):
You asked where she lived (which DOESN’T MATTER until you go back to her place for some EEE-RRR-EEE-RRR), her name (was she wearing a nametag, as a sales associate in a retail store?), and what she was doing tonight (other than breathing and eventually sleeping?)
Were THESE the questions she was being called upon to answer while sidelined from making money so she can pay her rent? What did her responses tell you about her “vibe” and what inspires her, so you could use it to anchor her emotions and get her excited and irresistibly aroused at-will?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Sick and tired of letting opportunities with sexy, beautiful women pass right by while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to close the deal with them? The solutions to such quandries can be found right here.
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