Drama From Trauma, And Drawing More Good Things Your Way
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
It’s easy to say that women who are mean to you, or who act in ways that don’t hold up to logic, are mean, psycho bitches.
Have you considered the role self-esteem plays? Think about it.
Most women have dealt with some previous wanker boyfriend / husband / boss criticizing her, her friends backstabbing her, things not going her way, getting her heart broken, getting cheated on, etc. Or some of the above. Or ALL of the above, where her wanker boyfriend cheated on her with her backstabbing best friend, thus breaking her heart, which means things did not go her way.
The result? What do you THINK? Internal low self esteem. Externally, these wounded souls evolve into perpetrators of bitchiness.
They frequently have a bad attitude. The “drama” is trauma based – tantrums, making up stories that are obviously lies, being rude about others, etc etc. They are only happy if other people feel worse than they do, and often do all they can, including blatant manipulation, to create a situation that makes them feel better and puts them at the center of the universe.
You’re Not Out Of Luck, Though
Here’s how many girl-getting maestros will approach this:
Disarm her and show her you are unaffected. Turn it on her in a humorous fashion. Ignore her with a smile. But if you can’t, then it’s “Exit, Stage Left.”
Problem, though: this only works for a while. She’ll revert back to the drama/trauma frame over and over.
We Need A Direction Toward Something Better
Look: if you were to daily, ritually, synergistically and synchronistically be guided to and have guided to you, women who were happy, open-minded, grounded, loving life, contributing, supportive, who, when they receive love, welcome and return it…maybe, just maybe, after clearing up whatever of your OWN “stuff” might be drawing you to the drama/trauma crowd, you might start bumping into more and more such women.
Just like light can be measured as either a particle or a wave, depending on HOW you look for it and measure it, problems can be met at the level at which they come up, or you can go deeper, wider, or even “to the side”.
I want to suggest that BOTH approaches are required; train oneself to see the truth behind “bitchy” behavior and not to react to it, but also train oneself to expand the possibilities and to draw MUCH better where these “problems” will just not occur.
It IS possible.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Had enough of getting rejected, ignored, humiliated, overlooked, shut down or standing there frozen and speechless by beautiful women who unleash the trauma drama? Ready to turn it around and start getting the results YOU want? Then check out Speed Seduction® 3.0.
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Life sure is funny, sometimes.
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