How To Make Factors You “Cannot” Control Work In Your Favor
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
The other day here on my blog, I delved into the difference between a woman deliberately trying to manipulate you, versus her need for safety and control by self-fractionating.
As I explained in that post, there are a few basic things that set up and create her willingness for seduction/trance etc. These factors make any patterning you do much more readily received and usually are factors you generally CAN control.
Now, recently, a few students have commented on my blog posts because they thought I was saying that sometimes, you cannot control the woman’s response. To that I would reply by beginning with: sometimes, factors that are beyond your control CAN work in your favor.
These include:
1) She happens to be among the 15% of the population that are sonambulistic; that is, she will readily accept and make real ANY set of suggestions anyone gives to her. She will sit with her doggy dinner bowl as you recite patterns word for word, go right in to trance and have exactly the responses you want. CAUTION: she also has a loose grip on reality and when she makes YOU her grip on reality, watch it when you try to get that grip to loosen.
2) You happen to match her “checklist”; you have the height, weight, looks, age range, job, status, etc. Given that, any patterning you do will be very well received.
3) She happens to be readily open and looking for whatever it is you happen to present, so it matches her perceived reality; she is looking to get laid that night, you present that opportunity in your patterns, and she jumps on it.
4) She has hidden/suppressed needs and the patterns bring those needs to the surface. You grab on to them and link them to you.
Now What If…
What if none of these factors work in your favor?
What if she’s not suggestible to ANYTHING? What if you don’t meet the criteria on her “checklist”? Perhaps she’s not interested in getting laid at all, and she’s so intent on NOT getting laid she might even catch on to your patterns? Her hidden/suppressed needs aren’t rising to the surface tonight?
Consider this:
- Despite all of the above, a woman’s current response should rarely be taken as her final answer. More likely, she’s responding to what’s in her mind and her world AT THAT MOMENT. That can change…in a moment.
- Why did she pull out her “checklist?” Is it because you took her on a “date” complete with dinner, movie, and a “romantic walk” in the park? Remember: dating is what you do with women you are ALREADY sleeping with. Also note, the checklist CAN change.
- Her looks might be hotter than her libido. Look around. Ask yourself. “Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”
- Remember what I say: “Interested in the girl, invested in mastering the skills.”
Could any of the above apply?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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