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Creating Genuine Curiosity…Within Yourself!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 24th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As I’ve said before, on more than one occasion in fact, one of the lessons I teach is that you use the information, vibe, and feedback a woman gives you to craft your patterning and banter to connect YOU with her erotic desires, wants and needs.

Part of what gets you this information is your ability to be observant and be curious.

Now, note I said BE curious. Not SEEM curious. This student understands the distinction but is still struggling:

> I understand how to SEEM curious, I want to BE curious. I find that 9 out of 10 times when speaking to people (not just women) I couldn’t care less about what they are saying even though I do care about them as a person. My mind starts to go into overdrive thinking about everything else I have going on in life. I find this isn’t helpful at work, with family, friends or SS. I think people can definately see this when talking with them.

Ok: here’s some food for thought…

For me, curiosity is about wanting to know how things REALLY work, beneath the surface appearance. It’s about looking for the large rules, controlling principles, hidden dynamics in ALL of life.

You can’t easily get curious only about women. Get curious about EVERYTHING.

Get curious about the inner processes that drive people that they themselves aren’t even aware of.

I think you’ll find you’ll see a whole ‘nother picture and have a much different (stronger) level of clarity that will boost your success with women, not to mention other areas where your current reality falls short of the potential you know you have.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Ask Her Out (But Don’t Actually Ask)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 20th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

It’s an oft-told story…

Boy meets Girl in an “everyday” setting.

Girl smiles and giggles oh-so-cute and Boy sees the door open and beckoning.

Boy strikes up a little convo. Girl’s answer to his innocent-yet-obviously-leading question (the one where he asks her out without actually f@@king ASKING) leaves him stumped even though it’s plain-as-daylight stuff.

Let’s hear from a student who felt like he just got “traded down to the minors” off such a seemingly innocent response:

The other day, I went to a local clothing store because I needed to pick up a couple things. I was greeted by a cute, bubbly sales associate. I said hi and bought a belt and a few other things (I was there for that in the first place). I commented on her style, then I left. But – as if opportunity was raining down from heaven, I had forgotten my cell phone, so I went back and said I lost it!

She asked for my number so we could call it and hear it ring. Lo and behold, it fell off while I was trying on the belt and landed under a rack with fall jackets on it. Heard it ring and picked it up. Then I asked where she lived, and her name, and if she had plans for the evening. She said she was going to relax at her place.

I didn’t know what to say, so I left (with her phone number, and her name). She seemed interested in me, and I was wondering what I could do to get in contact with her, and get her to meet me. Can you help me?

Let me start with the Captain Obvious answer: call her and and f@@king ask her out.

Don’t try to figure out if she really seemed interested… or just being all cute and flirty to loosen up your wallet by tightening up your Johnson (something that, uh, RARELY happens in the real world and is, uh, NEVER done on purpose). Besides, your memory of actual events is probably distorted by now over hot you think she is… and how hot you wish, hope, and pray she was FOR YOU.

But think about what you’re asking her (or the next woman, when you go back for cuff links):

You asked where she lived (which DOESN’T MATTER until you go back to her place for some EEE-RRR-EEE-RRR), her name (was she wearing a nametag, as a sales associate in a retail store?), and what she was doing tonight (other than breathing and eventually sleeping?)

Were THESE the questions she was being called upon to answer while sidelined from making money so she can pay her rent? What did her responses tell you about her “vibe” and what inspires her, so you could use it to anchor her emotions and get her excited and irresistibly aroused at-will?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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A Student’s Journey To Juicy Joy: Part 1

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 17th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Last week I shared a video lesson called “Kill The Mystery” where I explained what it really means when a woman says the “C” word (as in, “chemistry”). Based on the barrage of e-mails and blog comments I’ve received, it really struck a nerve.

ca_26670266_180 In fact, one of my best students sent me a Sarge report on how he applied Speed Seduction® in his interactions with a woman to stimulate desire, overcome her resistance, and ultimately create an amazing experience that will enrich the rest of his life.

Over the next 3 days, I am going to share with you exactly what went down and how it all worked out, with a few of my own observations. So without further ado….let’s get started:

Part 1: A “Power-Packed” Approach

Recently, my student was introduced to a woman by her best friend. Using what I teach, he engaged her in some playful banter, focusing on the fun and enjoyment of the interaction.

On that first night they met (when they were surrounded by friends), he established a deep, emotional connection, using techniques such as getting her to open up about her feelings, hopes and dreams and evoking bright images throughout detailed descriptions and well-chosen adjectives. Ultimately he anchored her love for coffee to help her recall the feelings of comfort and relaxation she seemed to need (she had recently gotten out of a real-hate-shun-ship and had been quite busy in life). Then he “closed” her by scheduling their next meeting, a more personal, one-on-one interaction.

For their next meeting, they went to a bookshop with a nice cafeteria and spent 5 hours talking about their dreams and passions. Through it all, he maintained a constant and subtle teasing pattern, to remind her he wasn’t a “friend” to take for granted, but a non-needy man who was enjoying time with her.

OK… so far, so good!

What can we take away from the first leg of this student’s journey with this woman?

ca_90911846_180 First, he is clear on the ultimate goal. Of course, he’s looking to succeed, get laid, take things to a whole ‘nother level. However, he remains interested in her, but not invested in the result. He focuses on enjoying his time with her, not “how can I get this chick in bed right now?” This is critical.

Remember: when you are Sarging on a woman, the ultimate goal is not to succeed with this one woman, but to hone and sharpen the skills that will get you results with her AND the next ten women who cross your path.

Note, also, how he uses the information she gives him to capture her vibe and anchor her passions. With Speed Seduction®, it’s all about using her vibe as a roadmap that leads straight to the Cape Carnal-Veral shuttle pointed at her poonanny.

Tomorrow, we’ll delve into what happened on their third meeting….for now, leave your comments below!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’m covering all of this, and much more, in my upcoming seminars. The next one is next weekend, in New York City. Have you signed up yet? We’ve just filled a number of seats and pretty soon I will need to close the doors to maintain the interactive nature of the seminar. Don’t be left out in the cold ==> http://www.rjseminar.com/nyc/

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