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Hooking Her Interest: The Closing

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 28th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored, I shared with you a number of ways you can hook a woman’s interest within the first 5 minutes of meeting her.

So now let’s explore how you can hook her interest at the “closing.”

Where can you really grab that thread of attention is to pull her out of herself and really get her invested in the discussion with you. Sometimes what hooks her in is the closing.

I’ve hooked women in by saying, “I know we haven’t talked much.” Demonstrate you understand what’s going on. Say, “I know we haven’t talked much. Obviously, you have to get going and so do I. If you’re not with someone who’s with you in the way you truly want them to be, maybe we owe it to each other to talk.”

Often, it’s what was so powerful – and such a good place for where they’re at. It’s a taste for the fact of where they are with you. You don’t have a lot of time and have to go. That shows understanding.

Then to say, “If you’re not with someone who’s with you in the way that you truly want them to be,” often they’ll go home and say, “I really am not with the person I truly wanted to be. How did he know that?”

They’ll attribute it to you knowing, even though you didn’t say they’re not with the person they truly wanted to be with. They’re going to think, “How did he know?”

That, in and of itself, sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Nothing “Sudden” About It: Always Be “Closing” With Women!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 20th, 2010
 Nothing Sudden About It: Always Be Closing With Women!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

One of the great things about learning Speed Seduction® (and also one of the most challenging) is that suddenly, you find yourself in situations with women you’ve never or rarely experienced before.

ca 88341581 180 Nothing Sudden About It: Always Be Closing With Women!Suddenly, hot girls want you.

Suddenly, girls you are hanging out with start showing you the signs they want you to “move in for the close”.

Now, the challenging part is, if you are suddenly thrown into a situation that you aren’t used to handling, if you don’t have some responses prepared and ready, you might be stuck holding your “progress” in your right hand, wondering what went wrong!

So often, beginners ask about “closing” the girl, physically. When do I make that big move for the “kiss”? What are the signs she is ready? Etc etc.

First, foremost, uppermost, important-most
: it is a BIG mistake to think of “closing” as something you do later on, as part of a sequence of events.

In sales, you have what’s known as the ABC Principle.

ABC = Always Be Closing

Same thing with women: closing includes ANYTHING that paves the way for further physical intimacy. That means: YOU ARE CLOSING FROM THE MINUTE YOU FIRST APPROACH!

I’m aware that some of my “competition” teaches that these things take place in discrete “stages”, and while at times it may be useful to think of it that way, the more accurate model is that, as a woman’s emotions open to you, she can be ready…

…AT ANY TIME!

Furthermore, closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events.

To be clear: CLOSING IS A CONTINUUM OF MAKING HER PROGRESSIVELY MORE COMFORTABLE WITH CONTACT, PHYSICAL INTIMACY AND TOUCH!

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Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly.

Now, in 48 hours I’m going to send you a follow-up where I go deeper into the issue of “kissing.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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