Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
Using something known as an “implied compliment” is a fabulous way to capture a woman’s attention and make her receptive to your approach. For many reasons, in fact, it’s better than paying her any sort of direct compliment.
There are several reasons why. Let’s go through them:
1) When you IMPLY something, a woman has to use her active imagination to make sense of what you are saying.
As I have taught for years:
WHATEVER YOU CAN GET A WOMAN TO ACTIVELY IMAGINE WILL BE PERCEIVED BY HER AS BEING HER OWN THOUGHT. THEREFORE IT WILL NOT BE RESISTED AS SHE IS THE ONE WHO THOUGHT IT!
Implying something is a sub-category of being vague and using ambiguity. In order to make sense of what you are saying, the listener HAS to employ their active imagination.
When you say something with clear, direct meaning, the listener may or may not respond positively.
2) Very attractive women are used to direct compliments, so they can (but not necessarily WILL) more easily shrug them off.
3) Implied compliments come across as being witty and funny. Women often laugh at them.
4) One of the other principles I teach is to get attention in a positive way by doing or saying something different. Since women are not used to implied compliments, and since they are always positively received, it works out nicely to have you stand out from the crowd.
Ok, now that I’ve intrigued you with the theory, let’s get to the practice.
Let’s say you’re at Whole Foods waiting to pay for something at the counter.
Next to you at the counter you see a lovely, lovely blonde woman wearing those ubiquitous UGG brand boots.
You look at her and said, “Nice footgear. Those look comfortable”.
She responds, “They are very comfortable”
You say, “I guess when you have beauty to burn you can afford to dress for comfort”.
She melts at that.
Maybe she’s married, maybe she’s in a real-hate-shun-ship, whatever. Test this combination with several women and watch how often you get a positive response.
Now, do you guys see how the compliment is implied.
1. Directly state/establish she is wearing shoes for comfort by stating it AND having her agree. Remember in the example she said, “They ARE comfortable”. So you have her agreement; she takes the first part of what you say as being true and acceptable and non-threatening.
2. Link that with an ambiguous use of the term “you”, not once, but twice.
(You used it when you talked about dressing for comfort AND having beauty to burn)
Just who does “you” refer to? “You” meaning people at large? “You” meaning her, personally? It’s not clear, so to make sense of it she has to use her active imagination.
When you stack ambiguities like this, closely together in time, their power MULTIPLIES as opposed to merely adding.
3. Finally, not only did you not DIRECTLY say you thought she was beautiful, you were also vague about WHAT aspects of her are beautiful.
You didn’t say, “Beautiful hair or beautiful teeth or beautiful eyes”.
She might not agree if you were that specific.
You just said, “beauty to burn”. What kind of beauty? According to what standards?? As judged by whom?
Ok, I want to open this up for discussion. Using this structure, how else might you come up with some original implied compliments?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Direct compliments (such as “Wow, you really look good today” and “You have the most beautiful, warm, inviting eyes I’ve ever seen”) may not go over well because:
