Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’ve dealt with the ethics of boyfriend destroying.  Today, I am going to share an actual Sarge report from a student who successfully used this technique.  Stay with me for a moment as I lay it out for you.

There’s a scintillatingly hot clerk at his local convenience store.  After seeing her and chatting her up a few times, he realized he needed to step up and claim his results.  So, on his third visit, he made his move.  Setting aside a plan to go back and say “when I was here earlier I forgot to pick up a few things” he decided instead to clearly state his intention when he saw her.

She heard what he had to say, then nicely told him she has a boyfriend.

His reponse?  “So what?  I wasn’t expecting you to LEAVE HIM FOR ME.” (Embedded command).

Then she said, “I really care about him, and he wouldn’t like it, and I just don’t do that kind of thing.”

He replied, “I really respect that. I hope someday you change your mind, and have a great day.”

And Then, HIS Day Got Much, Much Better…

At that moment, the most incredible thing happened.

She just melted. She OPENED UP she had been going through a really rough time lately, etc. He looked her in the eye and said “I’m so sorry. I know what it’s like, and things just get worse and worse no matter how hard you try. And I hope things get better for you soon.” He turned to walk away and she caught his arm and said “Wait”, wrote her phone number down and handed it to him.

The Keys To The Kingdom Are Dangling Before You

Just like the most delicious, perfectly shaped, more-than-a-mouthful boobies that have ever made their way to your face while she straddled you.

I tell you, when you get results like this, you are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge. When you hear my words and do them, you shall live in moist, pink abundance, forever and ever, Sarge without end.

The ability to see where the other person is at WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE YOURSELF is a key skill in any form of persuasion/seduction/influencing.

When you can combine equanimity with uncertainty – being ok with not knowing what is going to happen AND giving the other person radical permission to have their FIRST response to you, it creates an unbelievably powerful doorway for something unexpected to occur.

Believe what I say and you shall inherit the Kingdom of Poontang.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here’s a pick-up technique that I’ve seen done so many times that if I had a dollar for every time this happened, right in front of my eyes…

…I’d never have to work another minute in my life even if I spent it frivolously.

Man approaches woman.  Man takes out paper tablet and colored pencils.  Man asks if he can sketch the woman.  She says yes or no.  Assuming she says yes, man sketches woman.  Man then shows woman the sketch.  She oooohhhs and aaaaahhhs.  Man asks woman out.

More often than not, man gets shot down.

Now, stick with me for a moment while I show you…

A New Take On The Sketching Approach That “Draws” You More Ladies

A student of mine who uses this approach carries around a sketchbook full of “everyday life” sketches.  He’s always sketching, always drawing, always practicing.

Recently, he sat near two women and started sketching.  After a few minutes he said “Excuse me. I am trying to make both of you a sketch, but you are moving all the time and I can`t finish the details. Would you mind staying still for five minutes?” They looked at him funny for a minute, then with a “well, why not?” reaction, asked him how he wanted them to pose.  After he drew them, he thanked them and closed the sketch book.

How Did This “Draw” The Women Closer?

Here’s the unexpected twist; he didn’t do what they expected.  He projected the experience as something that requires them to co-operate better if they are going to be part of it. He broke what they would normally expect; a guy to ASK if he could sketch them. Instead he told them he was already doing so, AND telling them that they weren’t doing it right!  They can’t tell if you are approving of them or disapproving, if you want something from them as a sexual approach or something else.

Then he didn’t offer to show it to them, he just closed the book and forgot about them.

What Is Really Going On Here…

…is continually doing the unexpected! Pattern interruption creates the openness to be led.

I will say that again.

The core principle here is, “Do the unexpected in a way that creates MORE intrigue and a desire to move forward on the part of the woman.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine how great your life will be when you know, with 100% certainty that whenever you see a beautiful woman, anytime, any place, that you know exactly what to do to approach her, get her attracted to you, and seduce her!  Learn how in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

When it comes to your girl-getting game, your success begins before you walk out the door in how you prepare yourself and the meaning that you give these things.

Watch this short video clip in which I explain different “frames” you can use to approach women:

day-game-frames

(This is taken from a recent video presentation I did on Day Game.)

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. As you watch this video, consider the many changes – some grand and others very subtle – that would boost your suck-sess with sizzling sweeties into the stratosphere.  Then, click here to see how to get all of it, in a box.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Seems that yesterday’s post on the failure vibe that stifles a man’s girl-getting game from the inside really hit a nerve.

To respond to several of you who wrote with substantially the same question – what to do when it seems like every woman you see is with a man or a group of men – I’m going to share an email from a longtime fan that captures the essence of it.

The situation he brings up is common – all too common – for guys who want to meet really hot women.

You see, hot women LOVE company. They often love MALE company, because having a guy around:

1. Keeps away the weaker, wimpier guys who assume that the escorting guy is the boyfriend.
2. It makes them feel wanted and needed.
3. Sometimes the guy IS the boyfriend but it doesn’t matter because, if you can approach it right, you often can STILL pull the girl.

Ok, here is the email/question:

“I had a question and I would like to hear your insight on following situation: You see a stunning girl and you would like to go and talk to her but she is surrounded with two or maybe more guys. Not in the bar or something like that..

My first thought is that one of them is her boyfriend and I should stay away. Especially if I see some touching going on. They could be as well close friends, but the question is, what would you say to a girl in this situation? I mean you really don’t know whether the boyfriend is next to her but in case he does what then?”

Ok, As I said above, NEVER make assumptions about whether or not a girl is “taken” or if the guy with her is her “boyfriend” (or “bore-friend” for that matter)..

For all you know, the dude is her “orbiter”. Someone who circles around her massive ego, to keep her feeling good about herself.

In any event, the key here is to approach and TALK TO THE GUY OR GUYS.

Do NOT approach the woman directly.

Simply go up to one of the guys.

Open your mouth and say, “You guys are a really cute couple. How did you meet?”

Trust me, if they are NOT a couple, she’ll quickly let you know.

From there, you are in.

Just remember: don’t ever make assumptions about whether a girl is taken or not.  When you ass-ume, you stand a greater chance of feeling like an ass because you didn’t step up, then you will of looking like an ass if you did.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine how great your life will be when you know, with 100% certainty that whenever you see a beautiful woman, anytime, any place, that you know exactly what to do to approach her, get her attracted to you, and seduce her!  Click here to make that happen, starting now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Want to have two chicks at the same time?

So many of my students either have, or want to, that I’m thinking of adding it to a “bucket list” of must-haves that every smart guy must experience at least once, if for no other reason than to know he “went there.”

Problem: many women won’t “go there.”

Why?  Oftentimes it’s societal “rules.” It breaks a taboo to engage in any sort of group sex, or anything other than one man and one woman doing it.  You’d think that the ticket booth at the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle only sells tickets in pairs.  Not true.

Sometimes, she’s skiddish.  Or afraid of unanticipated consequences.  Or maybe she really doesn’t want to touch another girl, and she isn’t sold on your “promises” that it will be her and her best friend working on you, but not each other.  Maybe she’s worried you’ll like her friend better (it could be a competition or ego thing).

The “Warming Question” That Breaks The Ice And Gets You Closer To The Triple Play

Now: the following is something I almost never just hand out.  So you’ll want to write this down, print it, bookmark this post, whatever the f@@k you have to do so you don’t lose it.  Ask this question:

“If you could go somewhere where no one knew who you were, and nothing you did would ever get back to anyone you did know, what kinds of experiences would you like to have, with what kind of person, with what kind of feelings?”

Then add:

I find when I LET THOSE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS run through YOUR MIND, it’s the kind of thing that let’s me realize that sometimes YOU WANT TO SUCK SEED in stripping away from every day life, now and again, and FEEL YOUR OPENING to something novel..some new..A NEW DIRECTION you can IMAGINE TAKING INSIDE.

Now…when you ask that question you will get the following kinds of responses:

1. A vivid response with a vivid description.
2. A vivid response with a non-vivid description. They just go inside, access the thoughts and the states. Often they blush or look embarrassed
3. A non-vivid response with a vivid description(they describe it vividly but for some reason they don’t access the feelings-this is most rare)
4. A confused response. They don’t get what you mean
5. A defensive response.

I’m looking for 1 & 2. 3 can be worked with as well. 4 is possible if they also show a willingness to understand. Forget 5.

Ever tried this (or something like it?)  How did it work out for you?  (Leave a comment below).  Or, go out and do it and then report back here how it went.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Ten weeks.

In the grand scheme of things, not a lot of time.  Most people I know have gone at least ten weeks between a job interview and getting the job.  Some of the worst TV shows ever have lasted at least ten weeks before they mercifully pulled the plug. Many musical acts go from club acts to Top 40 legends selling out 20,000+ venues… in 10 weeks.

Ever been told that something would happen “within sixty days”?  Well, ten weeks is just sixty days with an extra week and change thrown in.

If you observe Halloween (a holiday less scary than Desperate Supplicators’ Day on February 14), that’s less than ten weeks away from right now.

So, what could YOU accomplish in ten weeks?  How could life be different for you, in ten weeks?

When students ask me “how long does it take for this stuff to work?” I ask them back: when you apply my girl-getting teaching, think what it could be like in ten weeks, if you start right now.

Not only having the confidence, but actually having it be commonplace and routine, to walk right up to any woman, anytime, anywhere.

Knowing that if she throws you a curveball, you’ll not only catch it, but you’ll pitch it back (straight into her glove).  And you’ll score a home run with her.

Instead of being a guy who waits, you’ll be a man who powerfully claims his choice of the most beautiful, appealing, exciting, compatible women.

Hell, imagine within ten weeks, going from a dry spell to getting laid repeatedly.  One of my students tells me again and again how in less than ten weeks (more like 20 days) he went from hoping that some hot chick might like him someday, to hoping he remembered to pick up the other bedclothes from the laundry because he had a “squirter” in his bed.

It takes effort.  It takes sticktoitiveness.  So does learning to ride a bicycle.  But once you acquire and master the skills, you’ll be two-wheeling for life.

What will YOUR life be like in ten weeks from now? Hell, what will it be like on December 31 (just over 16 weeks away) when you size up how the year has gone for you?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

OK…so you’re doing some street Sarging and you come across a really hot chick (let’s say she’s an HB9 right now, and will look even hotter OUTSIDE that cute jogging suit).

You’re feeling an adventure coming on… you wonder… “Here on the street she’s a lady… but what’s she like between the sheets?

Is the type of woman who gets really turned on by taking a risk?  Being naughty? “How can I use the information she’s going to give me when I open the conversation to ignite her passion and get her to take a risk with me?” you wonder to yourself.

Let’s Bring The Bad Girl Out: How Ya Gonna Get Her To Ride The Bronco?

First, you need to be aware of the concept of conversational THEMES. These are overall topics of conversation that steer, direct and guide things.  I typically have 4-5 different places I can go, conversationally:

1. Questions/observations/challenges to/about her
2. Demos, games, quizzes, jokes, poems
3. Connections.
4. Indulgence (escape / adventure / cravings
5. Sex. But be careful about going to that too soon, too directly.

My preferred “m.o.” is to get her talking, gather information about her, get her to generate her own responses.

Give her the sense that I am curious about her, somewhat interested, and am asking questions out of curiosity and also because I am screening her. I find that giving the sense that you are screening and that THEY are being screened increases their response potential for the rest of what you do.

Also, throughout this, evaluate her and get her overall vibe. Is the an adventurous woman with a history of f@@king guys right off the bat? Is she more of a “romantic” type (but perhaps with a hidden, naughty side that really WANTS to experience a quick f@@k or some nasty, “bad” sexual acts)?

Bottom line though: get her talking. Use her responses, fed back through any of the above as a way of amping up the situation, testing at each step for physical readiness.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

The easiest thing you can possibly do is sit on your ass and let things go on as they are.  Yeah, you might have a miserable life, out of shape, bad health, need a haircut really bad, no women, no nookie, no Giggity Giggity Goo.

But there’s no risk.  You can be certain (unless there’s a blackout) the boob tube will keep you company when you sit alone on the couch watching late-night TV.

Now, if you choose to “rock the boat” by taking drastic measures such as updating your wardrobe, getting a haircut, hitting the gym (to feel good about yourself), and getting yourself in circulation so people can see the gifts you offer to the world…that’s downright scary.  What if it doesn’t work?  What if your friends (or even family members) make fun of you?  What if the women you Sarge on dust you off with a dismissive hand gesture?

Case in point: one of your fellow readers on this blog, who is now working his way toward girl-getting mastery:

I am still in the “trying” phases and haven’t got laid yet – what could I possibly be doing wrong?  Also, when a girl doesn’t respond when I use the patterns (such as “have you ever…”, the Twin Brothers, etc.), how can I handle the discouragement I feel in me after that?

And finally Ross, which is the fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study?

First of all, congratulations on your decision to “step up” and claim results with the women you really want.  Who said you’re doing anything wrong?

I have to ask, though  (just to be sure): are you reciting the patterns verbatim?  And if you’re not, could it be that you sound like you are, like you rehearsed the lines?  She’s not going to respond to that, because it’s not YOU she’s experiencing.

Now, I don’t think you’re going up to women reading the patterns off cue cards, but I’ve had students who DID.  One of them got laid.  With the cue cards. His secret?  He applied the lessons of Speed Seduction® to that SPECIFIC situation with that SPECIFIC woman.  He used the cue cards to make her laugh and open her up… then he took it naturally from there.

Handling discouragement?  Well, when something bad happens, AND when something good happens, I repeat as necessary:

Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better, now!

That galvanizes me to go get more chicks.  If I “strike out”, there’s always tomorrow (or even 5 minutes from now).  Even if the one I just met is a straight up fox, now that I’ve had her, I want one even hotter.

Keep Sarging. You have me, and the entire community, on your side and in your corner.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study is, of course, my home study course called Speed Seduction® 3.0.  It’s like having me, Ross Jeffries, on tap, 24/7, whenever you need me.  Click here to learn more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

I often get asked, in e-mails I get from students as well as during live appearances on video chats and in-person seminars, what are some of the best pick-up lines for guys to use on chicks.

Let me begin by stating: I don’t teach “pick-up lines.”  Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training (MITs) use conversational patterns.

So let’s ask: what IS a “pattern”?

A “pattern” is much more than memorized “lines” or even complete “speeches”.  It includes a more broad variety of actions/methods/techniques designed to engage the woman, capture her vibe, and appeal to what drives her…wild.

I know you want to see some pattern language in action.  So before we go any further, watch this short video clip of me working a hot Brazilian chick at one of my live seminars into an erotic trance.  (My apologies in advance, this clip is low-quality, but you’ll still be able to hear and see what’s happening.)

More importantly: the right question can be a “pattern”.

A “pattern” is any communication that captures and leads a woman’s imagination and stimulates her emotions in the right direction.

Which of the following, for example, is a “pattern”:

1. What do you do for a living?

2. What do you find most challenging about what you do, and what do you find most fulfilling about what you do?

Do you get my point here?

Here’s another example:

1. Where was the last place you went on vacation?

2. If you could go somewhere where money and time were no object, where would you go, and what kind of….things…would you like to try?

Here’s a fun assignment: come up with a typical question women get asked by Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) guys. Then take a stab at coming up with a Speed Seduction® version of the same question that actually would stimulate her emotions and imagination in a useful direction.  Post them here on the blog!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Success with women involves creating irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure.  Click here to find the “mother lode” of conversational patterns…