Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Ever get the feeling that a woman is yanking your chain, just to demonstrate she can?

Like, one minute she’s hot, bothered, and just waiting for you to pick her up and take her to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.  The next, she’s cold, aloof, and giving you one-word answers while looking away from you.  Enough to make you ask…

…What GIVES?

Is she wishy-washy?  Is she confused?  Is she just a tease who gets off on the attention of men?  Does she like screwing men?

The First Question I Would Ask

In your Sarge, are you moderating, controlling, refining your immediate, urgent, hungry male desire to PENETRATE NOW?

Women sometimes seem to go “back and forth” as a control/safety issue. They get excited, then they catch themselves and think “Oooh, this feels too good. Better slow myself down.” They are not really trying to control you, but themselves.  The trick is: the control part LOOKS like the same signals women give us when they are genuinely un-interested!

I think women usually (usually) are NOT consciously trying to manipulate us. It is mostly an attempt to gain a measure of self-control and/or a means of exciting themselves by SELF-FRACTIONATING.

Yes, women get MORE excited if they pull back and then reinvest in the excitement. If we fractionate them, they will feel that excitement and also safety and they won’t have to do it for us.

There are a few basic things that set up and create willingness for seduction/trance etc. These factors make any patterning you do much more readily received, and these are factors you generally CAN control:

1. Fractionating and pattern interrupting.
2. Demonstrating authority in their world
3. Given them the feeling they are being screened
4. Energetically moving among the vibes they find attractive: funny, showing authority in their world, being commanding and being sincere
5. Non verbally/non locally setting up a psychic/energtic/magick link.
6. Giving them a perceived self-image to live up to.

Armed with this knowledge, you can then re-channel her control/safety needs and help her Sarge her way right into your bed.  That sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Worried that you might offend her when you lay it on thick or use a phrase like “Blowjob Pattern”?

In this video, ripped right out of the brand-new Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection, I reveal a clip of me demonstrating actual Sarging techniques with Christine at one of my recent live 3-Day Seminars.

It’s chock-full of morsels of girl-getting wisdom, so watch it now:

playing-with-christine-part2

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I’ve dealt with the ethics of boyfriend destroying.  Today, I am going to share an actual Sarge report from a student who successfully used this technique.  Stay with me for a moment as I lay it out for you.

There’s a scintillatingly hot clerk at his local convenience store.  After seeing her and chatting her up a few times, he realized he needed to step up and claim his results.  So, on his third visit, he made his move.  Setting aside a plan to go back and say “when I was here earlier I forgot to pick up a few things” he decided instead to clearly state his intention when he saw her.

She heard what he had to say, then nicely told him she has a boyfriend.

His reponse?  “So what?  I wasn’t expecting you to LEAVE HIM FOR ME.” (Embedded command).

Then she said, “I really care about him, and he wouldn’t like it, and I just don’t do that kind of thing.”

He replied, “I really respect that. I hope someday you change your mind, and have a great day.”

And Then, HIS Day Got Much, Much Better…

At that moment, the most incredible thing happened.

She just melted. She OPENED UP she had been going through a really rough time lately, etc. He looked her in the eye and said “I’m so sorry. I know what it’s like, and things just get worse and worse no matter how hard you try. And I hope things get better for you soon.” He turned to walk away and she caught his arm and said “Wait”, wrote her phone number down and handed it to him.

The Keys To The Kingdom Are Dangling Before You

Just like the most delicious, perfectly shaped, more-than-a-mouthful boobies that have ever made their way to your face while she straddled you.

I tell you, when you get results like this, you are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge. When you hear my words and do them, you shall live in moist, pink abundance, forever and ever, Sarge without end.

The ability to see where the other person is at WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE YOURSELF is a key skill in any form of persuasion/seduction/influencing.

When you can combine equanimity with uncertainty – being ok with not knowing what is going to happen AND giving the other person radical permission to have their FIRST response to you, it creates an unbelievably powerful doorway for something unexpected to occur.

Believe what I say and you shall inherit the Kingdom of Poontang.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush is defined by Dictionary.com as “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

And sometimes they’re not “short-lived” but they’ll still  CRUSH YOU as sure as a pissed-off python that decides it has a hankerin’ for a YOU sandwich.

Such as this student experienced:

Here’s the story.  We’ve known each other for about a year now, as a result of meeting at a business networking function.  We had lunch a few days later, and enjoyed each other’s company.  Back then, she told me she had a boyfriend.  Since then, we’ve had business conversations on the phone occasionally.  I threw in some SS themes wherever possible.  Every time we talked, we had great and wonderful rapport. She indicated that she is not comfortable meeting me in private, but invited me to visit her at her office for chit chat several times (I never went, because it seemed like a supplication to me).  Recently, I moved away, so she’s now about 2.5 hours from me.

She’s adventurous, cool, fun, GF material, so I decided to give us one last chance.  So I’ve twice left voicemail and also e-mailed her, but I haven’t gotten a response.  So what gives?  What went wrong?

OK: I’m going to dissect the daylights out of this.

For this past year, how much time have you spent thinking about her (crushing)? How much energy have you put into your projected fantasies about her?  How many times have you and Jimmy wrestled over thoughts of her?

Look: this is the SINGLE worst thing you can do if you want sargy success. BANISH this habit from your mind, ritually. Retake ALL the energy you’ve dumped into this crush.

Imagine a giant machine, with huge grinding gears. Imagine all the energy of that crush being put through that machine, grinding it to pieces and then boiling the remains into steam that is purified into PURE energy for your peace of mind, grounding, balance, learning and attractive vibe towards women anywhere and everywhere. The smart ones being drawn to you without you even speaking and when you DO speak, that vibe and THAT vibe only is conveyed, regardless of the words you say.

Now, see how this crush affected the rest of your thought process.

“Great and wonderful rapport?”

Or so you felt in YOUR fantasy.  I’ll bet a dollar that “great and wonderful rapport” is NOT what SHE said.

“Adventurous, cool, fun, GF material?”

What? WHAT? W-H-A-T?

Adventurous? But she won’t meet you in person? GF MATERIAL? A woman who won’t even meet you in person, who insists you come to her office for “chit chat” is GF material?

See, she is GF material IN YOUR CRUSHING FANTASIES.  And thing is, I’ll bet a second dollar you’re not in HER fantasies at all.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Do you believe…I mean REALLY believe…that when you offer your gifts to the world and in particular to the women you desire, it IS a
gift?

Do you believe that women want these feelings and that you can have many of them responding to you in a great way?

Because if you do, why would you bother with a woman who is clearly deeply uncomfortable with herself, with men and with sex?

I bring this up because two days ago I got an e-mail from a student who shared a report on a “Five Minute Sarge” with a (seemingly) EXTREMELY INTERESTED woman, that abruptly crashed and burned when a) she said she had to first check on her child’s babysitter’s schedule and she wouldn’t know her schedule till tomorrow, and b) when my student then did Plan B and said he’d call her the next day once she had the schedule, the woman said, “uhhh….can I call you instead?”

Bottom line: she liked the attention that comes from SEEMING open and adventurous, with all her flirting and use of words like “babe” and “love” with guys who hit on her, but when it came time to put the game behind her name, she clammed up faster than a statue with lockjaw.

If these things happen to you, I ask now: why are you doing “emotional dentistry” trying to pull her impacted erotic wisdom teeth?

It is not, you see, that you only attract the crazy ones, the flaky ones, the cock-teases. More likely you are only approaching/talking to women who SEEM very open to be in some way approached, rather than women who are desirable to you AFTER you’ve spoken to them and screened them.

Let me put that another way: screwy women (of all types) are often very desperate for male attention, and so, in that respect, they SEEM friendly and open to talking. So guys who have issues with approaching will be drawn to these girls, who SEEM friendly.

When in reality, these ladies are not truly friendly at all. Rather:

1. They have very bad boundaries.
2. They desperately need rescue/attention/validation

Another metaphor; a predator in the wild will usually seek out the weak/sick prey animals rather than tackling the healthy ones.

What if you try this instead:

1. Work on approaching/talking to women who may not be giving off “talk to me” signals. Create the approachability in them by how you approach, rather than waiting for them to look approachable.
2. Determine, once you do get talking, to screen out ANY woman who gives off any kind of signal or communication that she is not comfortable with sex, sexuality, or that she is angry, emotionally closed, etc.

Watch your girl-getting game skyrocket with your ability to approach and seduce any woman, anytime, anywhere thus turbo-charged.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Approaching more women who may seem cold, aloof, not necessarily interested, not just waiting for you to come up and lay the mack down – that’s a colder environment than when she says “babe” and “love” and makes goo-goo eyes, right?  No, it’s different when you have Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Click here to heat things up starting now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Seems that yesterday’s post on the failure vibe that stifles a man’s girl-getting game from the inside really hit a nerve.

To respond to several of you who wrote with substantially the same question – what to do when it seems like every woman you see is with a man or a group of men – I’m going to share an email from a longtime fan that captures the essence of it.

The situation he brings up is common – all too common – for guys who want to meet really hot women.

You see, hot women LOVE company. They often love MALE company, because having a guy around:

1. Keeps away the weaker, wimpier guys who assume that the escorting guy is the boyfriend.
2. It makes them feel wanted and needed.
3. Sometimes the guy IS the boyfriend but it doesn’t matter because, if you can approach it right, you often can STILL pull the girl.

Ok, here is the email/question:

“I had a question and I would like to hear your insight on following situation: You see a stunning girl and you would like to go and talk to her but she is surrounded with two or maybe more guys. Not in the bar or something like that..

My first thought is that one of them is her boyfriend and I should stay away. Especially if I see some touching going on. They could be as well close friends, but the question is, what would you say to a girl in this situation? I mean you really don’t know whether the boyfriend is next to her but in case he does what then?”

Ok, As I said above, NEVER make assumptions about whether or not a girl is “taken” or if the guy with her is her “boyfriend” (or “bore-friend” for that matter)..

For all you know, the dude is her “orbiter”. Someone who circles around her massive ego, to keep her feeling good about herself.

In any event, the key here is to approach and TALK TO THE GUY OR GUYS.

Do NOT approach the woman directly.

Simply go up to one of the guys.

Open your mouth and say, “You guys are a really cute couple. How did you meet?”

Trust me, if they are NOT a couple, she’ll quickly let you know.

From there, you are in.

Just remember: don’t ever make assumptions about whether a girl is taken or not.  When you ass-ume, you stand a greater chance of feeling like an ass because you didn’t step up, then you will of looking like an ass if you did.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

To truly grasp, harness, and master the mighty power that comes with getting all the women your heart desires, you must gain a firm hold on not only the patterns and techniques, but the manner in which these are created.

Many students follow the patterns and phrases I teach, word-for-word, and are getting chicks like crazy.  And I might add, at the same time handling their business and not getting sidelined by crazy chicks.

One of my students explained to me how he uses a specific sequence of songs from his favorite musician, drawing levels of a woman’s attention to certain lyric snippets, things about the music and the beat, and changes in the singer’s voice.  He has her experience the music, then trace her feelings about the music and feed it back to him.

He actually invented this on the fly, exactly one year ago today, when he was “stuck” on a Sarge and having a hard time opening her up.  He often forgets his lines so memorizing “Twin Brothers” or “Discovery Channel” isn’t a walk in the park for him.

But yet, after an evening with her punctuated by awkward silences and repeated failed attempts to rev her up, this improvised music pattern had her dragging him into his bedroom and throwing herself at him in less than 20 minutes. 

I mean, he knows the music inside and out.  He listens to it every damn day.  Why SHOULDN’T he put it to work for him, getting him more women?   Now, you already figured out – it’s not the songs.  It’s what my student does with them.

And how was my student just able to “make this up” and then be able to easily recreate and re-use it (he’s used it successfully at least three times since then)?

It’s a version (a crude albeit effective version) of something known as “demo construction“  When you create a “demo” and use it on a woman, you achieve many things:

1. It allows you to test to see how she responds to instructions
2. It allows you to test to see how suggestible she is
3. It conditions her to follow directions and sets the frame that SHE is the one who must perform for YOU.
4. It takes feelings in her body and amplifies, putting them under YOUR control AND at the same time, making them more vivid and more REAL for HER and thus more controllable by YOU.
5. It allows her to confirm for herself that she is enjoying the experience and wants to reach for more, thus creating the illusion of participation.
6. It creates fascination and intrigue on her part, and the perception that you are unique, powerful, and someone from whom she can really experience, enjoy and learn.

Now, if you ask me, being able to make up your own patterns, using proven seduction techniques, translating the things you enjoy into more enjoyment with the ladies?  This, my friends, is a song we can all dance to.  Dance in the sheets, that is.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Ok. What if you DO make an a$$ of yourself in front of a woman?

What if you Sarge but stumble on your lines?

What if your “friend” that you’re trying to move from buddy to bedmate calls you on it?

What if…what if…

So what? What is the very WORST that could happen?

What if it were an unprecedented opportunity to show that you can stand up for yourself and own your truth?

What if your answer to these “what if”s was:

“You know, as a man, I feel it is my duty AND my pleasure to get even better at attracting and pleasing women, and this is one thing I’m so dedicated to getting, I’m willing to go through the initial embarrassment and stumbling with people like you who won’t give me a break with it.”

Could you imagine feeling totally calm, at ease, at peace and balanced as you spoke the total truth of it to some girl who acts like a bitch to you, JUST LIKE THAT?

How free, liberated and totally awesome would it feel to be able to stand strong in that?

Now, one more bit of reassurance:

In the beginning, doing ANYTHING new, you are going to make mistakes. That’s just how life works.

But rather than demand PERFORMANCE CONFIDENCE, which is confidence based on many, many past successful experiences, with something brand new you have to substitute ACCEPTANCE CONFIDENCE.

ACCEPTANCE CONFIDENCE is a matter of giving yourself the permission to learn, to enjoy screwing up, and smiling and laughing through it. It’s determination AND the softness to step into experience without having to know what is going to happen, RIGHT OR WRONG.

The cool thing is, ACCEPTANCE CONFIDENCE is just a matter of will and perspective. You can have it, RIGHT NOW.

The cooler thing is, to women, the vibe from ACCEPTANCE CONFIDENCE is just as attractive and sexy as the vibe from PERFORMANCE CONFIDENCE. Women really can’t even tell the difference!

So..go get ‘em. And F@@K IT UP AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can bet ***I*** f@@ked it up tons, way back in 1988 when I was first coming up with this stuff. And there was NO one to guide me, no brotherhood of SS students, no list, NO INTERNET! So if ***I*** can do that, by comparison, YOUR task is incredibly easy!  Click here to see how I’ve made it even easier!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Ten weeks.

In the grand scheme of things, not a lot of time.  Most people I know have gone at least ten weeks between a job interview and getting the job.  Some of the worst TV shows ever have lasted at least ten weeks before they mercifully pulled the plug. Many musical acts go from club acts to Top 40 legends selling out 20,000+ venues… in 10 weeks.

Ever been told that something would happen “within sixty days”?  Well, ten weeks is just sixty days with an extra week and change thrown in.

If you observe Halloween (a holiday less scary than Desperate Supplicators’ Day on February 14), that’s less than ten weeks away from right now.

So, what could YOU accomplish in ten weeks?  How could life be different for you, in ten weeks?

When students ask me “how long does it take for this stuff to work?” I ask them back: when you apply my girl-getting teaching, think what it could be like in ten weeks, if you start right now.

Not only having the confidence, but actually having it be commonplace and routine, to walk right up to any woman, anytime, anywhere.

Knowing that if she throws you a curveball, you’ll not only catch it, but you’ll pitch it back (straight into her glove).  And you’ll score a home run with her.

Instead of being a guy who waits, you’ll be a man who powerfully claims his choice of the most beautiful, appealing, exciting, compatible women.

Hell, imagine within ten weeks, going from a dry spell to getting laid repeatedly.  One of my students tells me again and again how in less than ten weeks (more like 20 days) he went from hoping that some hot chick might like him someday, to hoping he remembered to pick up the other bedclothes from the laundry because he had a “squirter” in his bed.

It takes effort.  It takes sticktoitiveness.  So does learning to ride a bicycle.  But once you acquire and master the skills, you’ll be two-wheeling for life.

What will YOUR life be like in ten weeks from now? Hell, what will it be like on December 31 (just over 16 weeks away) when you size up how the year has gone for you?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

OK…so you’re doing some street Sarging and you come across a really hot chick (let’s say she’s an HB9 right now, and will look even hotter OUTSIDE that cute jogging suit).

You’re feeling an adventure coming on… you wonder… “Here on the street she’s a lady… but what’s she like between the sheets?

Is the type of woman who gets really turned on by taking a risk?  Being naughty? “How can I use the information she’s going to give me when I open the conversation to ignite her passion and get her to take a risk with me?” you wonder to yourself.

Let’s Bring The Bad Girl Out: How Ya Gonna Get Her To Ride The Bronco?

First, you need to be aware of the concept of conversational THEMES. These are overall topics of conversation that steer, direct and guide things.  I typically have 4-5 different places I can go, conversationally:

1. Questions/observations/challenges to/about her
2. Demos, games, quizzes, jokes, poems
3. Connections.
4. Indulgence (escape / adventure / cravings
5. Sex. But be careful about going to that too soon, too directly.

My preferred “m.o.” is to get her talking, gather information about her, get her to generate her own responses.

Give her the sense that I am curious about her, somewhat interested, and am asking questions out of curiosity and also because I am screening her. I find that giving the sense that you are screening and that THEY are being screened increases their response potential for the rest of what you do.

Also, throughout this, evaluate her and get her overall vibe. Is the an adventurous woman with a history of f@@king guys right off the bat? Is she more of a “romantic” type (but perhaps with a hidden, naughty side that really WANTS to experience a quick f@@k or some nasty, “bad” sexual acts)?

Bottom line though: get her talking. Use her responses, fed back through any of the above as a way of amping up the situation, testing at each step for physical readiness.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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