Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students And Fans,

Man, do my calves hurt me again today.

I have no idea why.

And speaking of non-sequiturs, here is the second of my three free, “teasse ‘em to promote the official launch of Best Of RJ Coaching Program, Volume 1, on Thursday, Nov 12, at 12 Noon Pacific”.

This one is about three different ways to transition to hypnotic, panty-wetting, leg-spreading language, rapidly and easily.

Remember the 5 people posting the top comments will win a free set of the Best of RJ, Volume 1. That’s 2 DVDs and 18 CDS, power-packed with 30 videos,  12 Coaching Call mp3s, and dozens of PDF transcripts of my best advice, coaching and instruction.

So comment below me, all you free-stuff whores and RJ junkies.

My calves hurt.

RJ

P.S. You know, as good as this recorded stuff is, don’t you think getting to talk to me live, 3 times a month(including video to video live conferencing) would be worth checking out for $1? As in 20 damned nickels? Do you know how much you’d pay to talk to Misery or Neil Stressed or the Double Your Masturbating David Deanushole Dude, assuming you could even get a hold of them?

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P.P.S. I swear on my left nut(as my father, may he rest in peace and his name be for a blessing, would say), when you join my Elite Seduction Coaching Program, you will never get shunted over to a flunkie, apprentice, trainee, guest instructor etc.  You get me, the master “teacher of  the teachers” for this community for the past 20 years,  with over 5,000 teaching, coaching, training and personal change work hours under his belt. Right here. Right now. 20 fucking nickels, Cedric.  Don’t be a chump. Click NOW.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day I decided to screw around and broadcast live for an hour on my Ustream TV channel. I related some interesting personal seduction stories, talked about my students’ challenges, and took questions from viewers.

One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.

The question was this, “Why does it have to be so hard to succeed with women? I try and I try everybody’s stuff and I still feel I’m barely getting anywhere?”

Has this ever felt like you? Have you ever felt like this?

Listen: if we’re honest, we’ve all felt this way. Felt confused. Felt that somewhere, some-when, in some distant and untouchable reality, there is a version of ourselves who is doing so well. Who gets it all. Who has fulfillment and satisfaction instead of confusion and “almost there”.

In reality, however, success with women doesn’t have to be that difficult. Sure, it requires some work and some effort. But it does not require struggle when you know how to come at it systematically.

It all breaks down to three elements:

1. A good working model of how women think, feel and behave. If you want to get somewhere, you have to have an accurate map. Speed Seduction® provides that by letting you peer deep into the operating system of women; how they create their emotions and behaviors. And once you get that, they become understandable, guidable, and very very seduceable.
2. A good way to control your state of mind, create a new sense of possibility, a new set of beliefs and attitudes that serve your progress, your success and your ability to learn and improve (and find fun) in every situation. Remember 1/3 of Speed Seduction® is teaching you how to build, maintain and grow a better you.
3. A good technology for getting results in the field, in the real world, with real live women. 1/3 of Speed Seduction is teaching you the actual steps with women: how to use your language to evoke their deepest emotional states, their strongest desires. How to get them talking in a way where they reveal everything you need to catapult them right into your bed (or the hood of your car or the desk, or wherever!)

Listen: when it comes down to it, any challenge, no matter how daunting, is solvable and winnable when you look at it in terms of systems and procedures, rather than isolated and disjointed “problems’.

You can have clarity instead of confusion. You can have luscious pink pleasure instead of lonely longing. You can have succulent success instead of settling.

And you can understand and enjoy the whole process along the way.

Let me show you how, right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since I started teaching in 1991, I’ve had thousands of students, and many of them-about 40%-have been engineers of one kind or another. These brilliant fellows have taught me an appreciating of thinking in a systematic way-I’m naturally far more wildly creatively and artistically minded.

So if you happen to be a process-oriented kind of guy-information tech, attorney, engineer, scientist-I’d really love to talk to you through my Coaching Program. Check that out here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Now that we’ve got the good feelings going, in part 2 I show you how to create flow in the feelings using “focus” commands.

Notice one of my favorite weasel phrases, “It doesn’t matter”.  I love that phrase. Those three words can get you laid more than a kilo of coke and ten million bucks.

Please comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want the best language mastery, pickup and seduction tools from my latest course, check out Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I think you are really going to enjoy the next few videos I’ll be posting.

This bit of video was shot live at my London 2009 seminar, which we did a few weeks ago. In it, I use principles of erotic touch on this lovely Swedish girl.

Enjoy, and please:

1. Comment below

2. Feel free to embed on your blog, website or social media.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. For your free 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Languaging video course, go here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This is the final video of the 10 part video series: How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

This one goes over one of my favorite methods to meet women and make any pick up line work 10 times better: the implied compliment.

Implication works because it by-passes conscious resistance.  When you imply the compliment, rather than directly stating it, the woman has to use her imagination to find the meaning of what you said. And that process feels exactly like it is her own thought, and therefore what you say is NOT resisted.

This is really a powerful, yet simple method, and I urge you to check it out.

Once again, it’s titled How To Pick Up Women Anywhere Using The Indirect Compliment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, there is an entire 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Language course waiting for you here

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, a student of mine asked me what to do when dealing with women who knew him before he became a Speed Seduction® Master.  In other words, back when he was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) who got in his own way when it came to succeeding with women.

Now that he’s speaking to them in ways that capture and excite their deepest emotions, aren’t they going to feel strange when they compare it to how he used to act with them? How they used to feel around him?

I immediately asked him,

“If you suddenly won the Euro Lottery and went from having no money
to having $500 million, would you worry about how other people adjusted to it?
Would they have a problem adjusting to it?”

I don’t think so.

In the same vein, how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. Do this, and that hot chick from college who shot you down as an Average Frustrated Chump will quickly learn to see you as an Amazing Fascinating Champ.

I’ve been both. And I can tell you Amazing Fascinating Champ feels a whole hell of a lot better.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Remember, it’s not about who you were then.  It’s about who you design yourself to be right now. All of this is completely under your control. Find out how here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.

Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction.  Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.

Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction.  It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.

In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”.  How boring that would have been

And that’s what happened. She stopped.  Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”

“No, “ I said.  “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”

(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)

She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”

Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.

So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks.  Besides, boyfriends are like colds.  You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “

She laughed again, this time harder.  “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.

Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.

And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.

You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of  cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there.  The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. You can find my complete and most up-to-date, cutting edge seduction course right here.

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