Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Just the other day a student of mine shared an observation with me.

The moment a woman starts with “When are you going to take me out on a date?” or “I want you to wine and dine me” he immediately, instantaneously, inexorably, and irrevocably loses interest in her.

From what he tells me, it’s not because he has taken me up on my 60-day challenge or refuses to be in thrall of the romance racketeers.  Even though he does, indeed, embrace the former and reject the latter as smart men do.

As he puts it:

“There are no logistics hero action figures in the toy aisle!  Many action hero figures, though.”  

A “date” requires logistics.  Wining and dining is nothing but logistics: reservations at the restaurant, buying the wine, selecting the best after-dinner spot to enjoy the wine, transportation to/from.  And much more.

Another student told me about a street pickup he did last week that went nowhere.  She told him she is unsure of her schedule because she looks after kids, doesn’t know when she gets off work, but here’s my number, give me a call, we’ll work something out.  He’s losing faith as these phone numbers are not leading to “dates.”

Let’s review the latter case.  First I asked him:

How long did you talk with her? What states did you generate/evoke with her? How did you link these to you and to taking further action with you?

Now I’ll say it again: this isn’t about getting the behaviors you want from women: phone numbers and dates. It’s about evoking in them the emotional states and processes (fantasy, fascination, connection) that you want linked to you.

THEN the things like phone numbers and dates become logistical details.

See the difference?

If you aren’t thinking in these terms, you aren’t doing Speed Seduction®.  All that wining and dining isn’t leading to a whole lot of 69-ing, is it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® 3.0 is your roadmap that zooms you from “zero to action hero” in your ways with the women.    No more will we negotiate with her i(Don’t-Actually-Answer-My)Phone to become lucky enough to buy her dinner.  Onward!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Why in the world would any guy in his right mind want to take a step backward down the intimacy ladder with women?

Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.

Listen: using your voice is far more powerful, conveys far more emotional meaning, and enables you to evoke far more powerful states of emotion than even the most cleverly worded text.

Hey: if it is true that 70% of communication is not the actual words we use, but facial expressions and the tone of our voice, then what in the world do you think is the result of just typing words?

Is it just me, or does that seem like screwing when your dick is soft?

The only time you should ever use text messages with women is after you have already “hooked up”. Once you’ve done that, then texting can be a way to easily arrange meetings or stay in touch, but even then it has to be used judiciously and sparingly.

A few other things to bear in mind:

• My students often tell me about women who at the end of a phone call will say “text me” or who will want to hang up, yet immediately continue the conversation via txt msg-ng.  Is she serious? Don’t you want her to take a step forward, TOWARD you?  Will texting “hey wassup?” pull her closer?
• So she’s into “sexting.”  Like cybering, you have to wonder, is she visioning you when she types all that naughty stuff, or is she thinking about a guy she’s actually fckng who isn’t there rite now 2 srvce hr 2day?

Remember: txt mssgs sck dck and only asshls use them on chicks they hvnt fckd.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

The terms in which we’re programmed from early on to think of “dating” is what’s tripping so many smart guys up.

Click the Play button below to learn more and then comment to tell me your thoughts:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The video clip you’ve just watched is a sample of what I teach at my live, 3-day seminars.   The next dates are in New York in June and London in August.  Have YOU signed up yet?   Click here to learn more.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher. As I like to say…

The women are waiting, now what are you waiting FOR???

I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now. He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.

But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though. She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc. He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.

He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.

Let’s dissect this.

Uh…first of all, what part of the “Speed” in “Speed Seduction®” did he miss?

The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is. This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.

Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.

Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.

I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:

1. ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
2. I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
3. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR? An engraved invitation? I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

My girl-getting solution is called Speed Seduction® because it helps smart guys like you cut through all the crap that’s been programmed into you about “dating rituals” and the “5 Bs”, and instead spend a far greater percentage of your time enjoying women you truly desire, and who desire you right back.

When you apply my teachings and Sarge on many women, by sheer volume alone you will experience more of what you want. When you’re at bat, you might catch a winning streak. You could also go into a slump. Or, you could get thrown what seems like an endless string of curve balls.

One of my students came to me with this telling challenge:

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Ross, I don’t know what’s going on here. I have been meeting more women, getting laid more, going on more dates – all of it – since I got serious about Speed Seduction®. I use your Sarging methods and try to screen women carefully. Maybe the “duds” are flying under radar because your stuff makes it so easy to get them interested and willing to explore with me!

They amount to one-night stands that linger for a week or so and then she flakes out. Or I see the chick a couple times and then find out she’s a nutcase and I need to drop her quick. One day I’ll have three women in various stages of seduction, and then 24 hours later I’ll be down to zero. I’d really like to find a girlfriend, so I need women who can be around me for a little while who I can really enjoying spending time with and getting to know so I can choose wisely when I do commit.

This ain’t happening with me having to start over all the time. All of the women I meet lately seem to be “low quality.” Do I need new sources of women? Am I Sarging in all the wrong places?

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I doubt this is a sourcing issue, because you can find any kind of woman pretty much anywhere. You can’t really know who she is until you get to know her some. I’m also not convinced it’s a screening issue, because if you’re properly applying my teachings, you’re quickly doing “Exit, Stage Left” with obvious poor-fit candidates and focusing your seduction on women who respond to who you are and what you put out there.

I would say it’s a matter of CATEGORIZATION.

Listen: unless I am in a committed relationship, I Sarge like crazy. All the time. Every day. Everywhere. Even at the scene of a house fire. The more I Sarge, the more I succeed. The more I succeed, the more I want.

Every time I involve myself with a new woman, she needs to prove to me she is worth being in my “upper” or “premium” category by who she is, how she approaches me, and how she approaches life. Believe me brother, I go through a LOT of women to find the few who can attain that higher level with me. Sounds a lot like what you’re going through.

Keep batting, Slugger; you’ll hit it out of the park sooner than you think as long as you keep applying Speed Seduction® properly.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Can you tell I really enjoy teaching and coaching? This is my life-blood. This is what I live for.

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P.P.S. Oh, and if you can’t make it to the live event this time, you can still pre-order the DVD recording.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This is the final video of the 10 part video series: How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

This one goes over one of my favorite methods to meet women and make any pick up line work 10 times better: the implied compliment.

Implication works because it by-passes conscious resistance.  When you imply the compliment, rather than directly stating it, the woman has to use her imagination to find the meaning of what you said. And that process feels exactly like it is her own thought, and therefore what you say is NOT resisted.

This is really a powerful, yet simple method, and I urge you to check it out.

Once again, it’s titled How To Pick Up Women Anywhere Using The Indirect Compliment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, there is an entire 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Language course waiting for you here

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

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