Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This is the final video of the 10 part video series: How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

This one goes over one of my favorite methods to meet women and make any pick up line work 10 times better: the implied compliment.

Implication works because it by-passes conscious resistance.  When you imply the compliment, rather than directly stating it, the woman has to use her imagination to find the meaning of what you said. And that process feels exactly like it is her own thought, and therefore what you say is NOT resisted.

This is really a powerful, yet simple method, and I urge you to check it out.

Once again, it’s titled How To Pick Up Women Anywhere Using The Indirect Compliment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, there is an entire 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Language course waiting for you here

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there.  The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #3 of 10 in my Youtube  Beyond Dating Tips Playlist) I discuss the nature of approach anxiety-what it really is-and how to destroy it so you can enjoy the ability to approach and pick-up(and seduce) hot women with ease.

I have a radically and fundamentally different view of approach anxiety; I don’t view it as being about fear of rejection or even fear of the approach

Rather I view it as neurological friction; the result of two equally powerful and conflicting desires arising in your neurology at the same time.

What are these?

The desire to move forward and talk to the woman(or women) and the equal and opposite desire to stay right where you are and not say a word until you are certain that what you are going to say and do will work.

Let me give you a metaphor to understand.

Suppose I gave you a radio-controlled toy car.  And you gave it the command to turn left and turn right at the exact same moment.

What would the car do?

I think you know the answer.

It would freeze up and spin its motor until it burned out or the battery ran out.

Is this beginning to make sense?

A huge breakthrough will occur when you now realize that approach anxiety isn’t really that at all. It’s internal conflict manifesting as neurological friction and cognitive confusion.

Now there is one more complicating factor and that is the meaning you give to the feelings of neurological upset.

If you conclude that the anxious, or rather FRICTION feelings means that you face some external threat-that you are about to be rejected, defeated or humiliated in the external world, then you are going to create secondary anxiety about that.

Now, in addition to the internal conflict, you get to add in a nice dose of fight or flight syndrome.

So what is the solution to all of this?

Watch the damned video. And if you’ d like to go directly to Youtube to watch, and so you can help me spread the word by rating and commenting on it, then it’s How To Destroy Approach Anxiety And Approach Women With Ease.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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P.P.S. Did you know when you follow me on Twitter you can ask me anything and usually get a reply within just a few hours?

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m more convinced than ever that 90% of the success and satisfaction you can enjoy with women is influenced far more by what is between your ears than what is between her legs.

Now, don’t get me wrong here.

As you are about to learn here, I do NOT believe in “positive” thinking when it comes to women, money, or anything else.  In fact I think “positive thinking” is one of the most destructive illusions that has ever been peddled.

Here’s why.

Positive thinking usually just amounts to “shut your eyes, ignore that fact that you are failing or are miserable, and pretend things are going the way you want them to go”.   Just “believe” and you will achieve.

How “Positive” Advice Multiplied My Personal Suffering With Women

I can’t tell you how frustrated I used to get at all the “positive” advice I got from friends and relatives back when I was a 20 year old virgin, desperately trying to end my loneliness and get my freak on.

What kind of crap did I here?

“Just love yourself and then women will love you”.  Yeah, right.

“You’ll find someone”.  Well, eventually, maybe.  But who wants to wait? And who wants “someone”?

“Just be nice. Women love nice guys”. Don’t get me started.

The Real Problem With “Positive” Thinking

The problem with “positive” thinking is that it is oftentimes an invitation to ignore the reality of your situation, to turn a blind eye to what you need to learn, and to keep on repeating mistakes.  It’s tied together with another destructive “mind virus” that is part of our culture: “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

How About A Dose Of Informed Enthusiasm Instead?

What I would actually like you to do is junk positive thinking entirely and instead work on developing what I call informed enthusiasm and intelligent motivation.

Informed enthusiasm simply means that you’ve trained yourself to spot where you are doing well, across many different levels; some obvious and some not so obvious.  And, additionally, you’ve developed an incredibly effective way to remove confusion from situations that don’t’quite go your way and to see exactly what you need to do differently the next time.

Intelligent motivation comes from knowing that, while you may not get what you want right away, you certainly will learn what you need to get what you want, or better.    It’s a totally reality-based confidence in your ability to learn from each and every encounter and situation with women.

If you’d really like to learn how to totally reform your thinking, beliefs, attitudes and perceptions about women, and develop a lighting-fast, super-efficient learning system check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.  This is my best breakthroughs from 20 years of research from helping guys from all around the globe go from stuck to stardom in bed with women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  If you are feeling you’d like to have me as your personal seduction teacher, coach and mentor-have me there personally to hold your hand and walk you through, you can watch some free samples of my Coaching Program videos here,

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video(which is #1 of 10 in a new series), I talk about how key your attitude is for success with women.

For most guys, there are 4 wrong attitudes they take on when it comes to approaching women.  They rocket back and forth among them, usually settling on one or two as their default “favorites”.

1. Desperation-I’ve got to make this work.

2. Despair-I hope this works

3. Anger-Damn bitches. This had BETTER work.

4. Lust-I can’t wait to work this big pink steel into her.

In this video I outline the right attitude, which is not what you might expect at all.

Please give it a good viewing and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. To get unshakeable and workable confidence with women that matches what feels right for you, check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.

P.P.S. Already got confidence but want to bat way out of your league(or what you USED to think was out of your league?) Check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 program here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve just created a new Youtube playlist with 10 brand new videos teaching you How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

Would you jump over here and watch these videos? Comment and rate them too,and pass the links around!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Thanks again for your support.  I’ll be posting each of these videos individually on the blog as well.  Who wants to see PDF transcripts for each one?

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In today’s episode of of this month’s ongoing “Swipe File” series from my coaching program, I offer this video answer to EricNYC who wanted to know how to notice a woman’s responses(including trance) and utilize them to seduce her.

Notice how I tell him how to notice the different states of absorbtion, fascination and trance-all good indicators, in my experience, that her pussy is lubricating and her mind is descending into the gutter! These include the “Mini-o” lip and the “eye scan”.

Peace, piece and tell me if you want to see more.

RJ

P.S. You can check out my coaching program right here.

P.P.S. Goddamn it, comment below on what you think of this videos. What did you enjoy?  What are your questions? Should I do a live video broadcast on this topic?

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

This video is a swipe from one of my 4 monthly “Answers To Students” video modules that I custom create for members of my elite seduction coaching program.

This student wanted some guidance on installing beliefs for learning and confidence with women. So I go over a total of 8 beliefs and then show him a simple ritual to install them.

Enjoy, and comment below.  Over the next couple of weeks I’ll be posting different samples from the coaching program.

Peace and piece,
RJ

In case you didn’t catch it, the Coaching Program is located here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you may know, I offer a very high-quality coaching program for those students smart enough to sign up.

Part of that program includes monthly office hours; one Sunday out of each month I open up my cell phone for 90 minutes.  The next 90 minutes after that, members can talk to me on live video to video in my Megameeting on-line video conferencing system.

What you are about to read is a post that was made today on the member’s discussion board from a student, reporting how my advice really worked out for him.

Enjoy.

“Last month in the mega meeting, Ross challenged me to do 10 Manny Martian walkups. I wrote out a thousand dollar check to Greenpeace and sent it to him, to seal my commitment to getting over my inability to approach.

I had till June 1st. Ross threatened to kick me off if I didn’t do it, but if I did, I’d be invited to the next SS seminar! Last night, I did 3 walkups in a 15  minute burst; tonight I did my last 2.

It started out much more difficult than I imagined. It seemed like such a simple, stupid exercise, but it was a struggle at first. I went out several times without making a single approach. I made sure to transmute my frustration and learn from every outing though, and that was the key to my success! it made it easier to get back out into the field and it showed me that I needed to add in more fun/playful energy. I reinforced the beliefs almost daily and listened to the mp3s from this site as I drove each day.

Stuff I learned:

*It does get easier with practice. Walkup #5 was easier than #1, etc.

*I didn’t have a single negative response. Most were baffled, and asked me to repeat it. They were still baffled after that. I thanked them and walked off, and they still looked baffled, lol.

*I can maintain good eye contact with HBs.

*I increased the number of smiles I do. I feel more relaxed.

* Pre-sarge rituals get better with practice too.

* Post-sarge NYIG is golden. As is keeping a sarge journal.

* No one else in the world cares what I’m up to. When the walkups are over, life goes on, no big deal.

* Ross is brilliant: his learning mindset of focusing on what was done right is such a radically different orientation. It took me a while to warm up to the idea due to cultural conditioning, but once I got it, it changed how I see myself and the world…

Cream of the crop belief that also helped changed my mindset:

“I always start at the very least, from the very best I have done so far.” I plan on generalizing this belief out to the professional areas of my life.

My next step is to increase my aggressiveness and diminish my hesitation states. It’s very random: tonight I approached the first girl right away, but the second had me hesitating. When I get into that mode, it can take forever. Anyone have any tips for increasing my “just go for it” mentality?

Anyway, that’s it for now, thanks Ross, please rip up my check,

and F*** Greenpeace!
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Ok. RJ here again. Wasn’t that great? I really love it when guys get breakthrough results following my advice.  Look at how much this guy has not only changed his actions in the world, but his orientation towards focusing on what he is doing right and how he can continue to get better at it.  That’s one hell of a shift from where he was.

If you find yourself wanting to check out the coaching program, you can have a look for free right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  The Manny The Martian routine goes like this, “Hi. I just wanted to tell you(pause), my name, is Manny(pause) Martian(extend your hand to shake hers)  “What’s your favorite(pause)….flavor(pause)…bowling ball?”   It’s designed to get you off your ass and talking to women and to teach you that you can say the most dumb-ass, nonsense stuff and still get women to talk to you.