How To Move From Emotional Tampon To Energy-Releasing Tour Guide
Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
As a decent, caring person, many smart guys will find themselves wanting to help and support the women they care about.
Yet, there’s that balance, between being strong and supportive, versus becoming her therapist, or worse, her emotional tampon. Let’s say she is going through a really tough time. In empathy, you want her to really open up and share everything in her life with you.
Be careful though. When we care about someone, we can get pulled into their stuff so deep that it colors who we are and our own energy and sense of possibility and approach to life. It will certainly affect the energy she feels coming from YOU.
Let me say this: some issues are best resolved ENERGETICALLY, as opposed to behavior or language. Pay attention to your own behavior and vibe when you are with her. Set the intent to understand where she is at, WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE FOR YOURSELF.
Do you notice what I said? I said without HAVING TO. Doesn’t mean you can’t, it means it is a choice.
When we care about someone, the heart opens and EVERYTHING comes out. Joy, lust, caring, sadness, grief, anger. If she’s carrying around a lot of painful baggage, she may want to hold it in and being around you makes that impossible; you open her heart and out it comes.
Women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about. Therefore, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move – towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc. And away from the pain.
Doesn’t that just make sense? And aren’t you serving HER by helping her make a NEW CHOICE?
Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.
- Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
- Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
- Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected
Look: life brings pain. No avoiding that. It’s what we wisely do with it.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. For many many, many more easy ways to direct a woman’s energy and emotions in a way that serves BOTH of you…all the way to your bed (or floor or couch), check out Speed Seduction® 3.0.
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