Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Mastering your girl-getting game is a process – even for experienced Seduction masters who effortlessly approach women and know the steps to getting them hot and bothered and wanting more.

Every so often, you’ll strike out. Once in a while, you’ll hit a bit of a slump when it comes to the ladies. You might even worry that you’ve lost your touch. So let me reveal to you…

A Secret, Sure-Fire Success Mindset That Keeps
Girl-Getting Masters In The Game For Extra Innings

First of all, remember: fear and anxiety and tensing up around women F@@K US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

Give yourself permission to just practice, not give a f@@k whether she says yes. Stop focusing on outcomes, because pressure to achieve those outcomes (arranging the next meeting, going back to her place, etc) will ratchet up the pressure and screw up your Sarging vibe.

You’ll feel like a loser and unattractive when you “flub your lines” and feel forced to run out of there with your tail between your legs, instead of getting some tail for tonight.

No matter WHAT happens with this (or any) chick, you don’t know what’s GOING to happen, unless you DECIDE that it will. Being PERSISTENT when things don’t at first go according to plan is KEY for “upping your game” and getting with more succulent hot babes.

So, when you see that sultry vixen in the little black dress eyeing you up from across the way while stroking the stem of her martini glass, focus NOT on the GOAL getting her out of that dress, but instead on how your forthcoming interaction with her will improve your overall “game” with the ladies.

Worry less about how you’re gonna get her to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and you’re MORE likely to go there with her (and many other women).

Ok guys, she’s waiting for you. Now, what in jumping Jennie’s drawers are you waiting FOR? Let’s go!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you experienced the feeling of knowing exactly what to do or say when you envision yourself powerfully commanding and mastering any life situation in your mind… but when you’re actually in the situation, you freeze up, “forget your lines,” and take no action at all because you suddenly have no idea what to do?

Not too long ago, I got a note from a student who can easily envision what happens when he walks up to women and then gets them all hot and bothered for him.

But when he is out in public surrounded by approachable hotties who have not yet had the chance to say YES to who he is and what he gives to the world, he feels afraid and can’t get himself moving and talking to women in the real world.

Here’s my answer:

I think the problem here is you are imagining a MOUNTAIN of work and meaning rolled into one small action (the Sarge).

In other words, I think every time you see a woman you want, you approach it on the basis of your ENTIRE GIRL-GETTING GAME being on the line. Thus, simply going up and talking to her becomes (for you) one huge, massive, impossible and measureless labor.

What if you just viewed her as ONE girl? ONE chance to learn one small piece of a skill?

I think what you are experiencing is NOT fear. It’s OVERWHELM.

When you were a baby and learning to walk, you didn’t stack all that meaning on ONE step, did you? You took it one step at a time.

Also, you are hanging to certainty. Rather than accept that you simply don’t know what her response will be, you cling to the certainty that she WILL reject you!

It’s funny: humans would rather project the CERTAINTY of failure and pain, rather than embrace the uncertainty of NOT knowing!

Rather than aiming at confidence, try aiming at neutrality. Neutrality doesn’t mean projecting that you KNOW you can do it and you KNOW she will drop to her knees and blow you.

Neutrality means sticking to facts:

1. I don’t know what is going to happen.
2. I don’t like that I don’t know.
3. Let’s go find out and see; maybe I will have fun and I CERTAINLY will learn SOMETHING.

Even if you learn that it was harder than you thought, that STILL is a learning that you can use to change. Or you might learn that your feet feel really good when you walk up. Or you might learn that ONE part of your body actually can relax and feel good while all the rest feels shaky!

You can ALWAYS, ALWAYS learn something.

Fact is, you don’t know WHAT you will learn.

But you CAN be certain about one thing: If you don’t get moving, you certainly WILL remain frustrated and alone! I GUARANTEE THAT!

So maybe you ought to trade that GUARANTEE for some uncertainty and see what you can learn. ONE STEP AT A TIME. Because you only learn ONE STEP AT A TIME ANYWAY! So take a step and learn whatever.

Remember: one step forward in your Sarge is one step forward toward getting laid. Stand still and you won’t get closer to getting laid; take a step and who knows – that might put you in front of the scandalously sexy babe who has been wondering when you would finally get around to making your move.

If you ask me, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Almost every day I get e-mails and phone calls from students who have figured out how to overcome their fear with women. Oftentimes they don’t even know what caused it. Then they figure it out – and master it.

Please keep the emails coming. This is why I teach smart guys like you how to master your girl-getting game. Today, I’m going to let one of them do the talking. Here goes:

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Dear Ross, as a student of yours, I want to tell you how much Speed Seduction® has changed not just what I do, but my entire way of thinking about women.

Here’s the scoop:

Back when I was in college I had a “summer love” girlfriend. It was all romance and making out until I went back to school and she stayed back home. She cried when I went back to school and told me she planned to come visit me soon. For the next few weeks we’re emailing and calling every day, and then suddenly she goes cold on me. I found out, through a mutual friend, that she had dumped me and not bothered to tell me!

Next time I was home I saw her and (politely) confronted her. She told me she was sorry, not for what she did, but that I found out. She even outright said she was more upset that our friend had “ratted her out” to me than she was bothered that the whole thing hurt me in some way.

Back then I was what you call an “average frustrated chump” in ALL areas of my life. Even then, you’d think I’d realize this chick was messed up and needed help and that the best thing to do was drop it and move on. But I couldn’t “snap out” of my desire for / devotion to her. For months. I agonized over what I had done wrong. (Sounds crazy? SHE dumped ME without telling me, and I’m worried what I did wrong?????)

Right after she dumped me I had two women I saw every day who I could have had for the asking. I got along with them great and my flirting with them was reciprocated. One even asked “so when are you going to forget this b***h and make a move on me?” But I killed my chances by droning on about my “ex” until these two (and other) women got sick of me.

I was pathetic, obsessed over a chick who wanted nothing to do with me, 200 miles away, when I was at college with 20,000 women at my immediate disposal.

To an extent that I didn’t realize, this incident was a gusher of ice water that flowed like an eternal cold-shower on my ability to pick up chicks for the next 10 years. Several times I got lucky and met someone, but I made excuses and sabotaged things so I wouldn’t put myself at emotional risk again.

But then, after studying your teaching on conquering fear around women, I figured out I was driven by a need to “make right” the wrong that had been done to me by her. Being willfully cut off from even being able to participate in the “closure” made me to think about it all the time.

I translated that need for….closure? revenge? something else? into desire for her. It drained my emotional capacity. I’d be at parties surrounded by mind-blowing hot chicks and my mind would be skipping like a broken record on the “ex” who never deserved me at all. It was still happening years later, even after I was finally “over her,” but I was programmed that way so bad I didn’t even remember the cause.

After I realized what happened I was able to finally let her go, using what you teach. Now, I’m the kind of man who can be in a room full of people and can fearlessly approach the HOTTEST BABE THERE like it’s everyday routine. I liked your story about the student who snuggled with the married chick on the airplane. Stuff like that happens for me all the time now.

I’m still what you would call “single and looking” but I’m “finding” many more women, having great times with the nice ones and spotting the users and abusers immediately.

Thanks Ross! I think I’m gonna come to your next seminar!

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This is AWESOME – and I congratulate you on stepping up and claiming the success, results, and future that belong to you by getting past your barriers. What happened to you isn’t unique. The way we are programmed can stay with us long after the programmer (in your case, that girl who did you wrong) is out of the picture, and we don’t even remember why we got that way in the first place.

Now that you’ve gotten that chick who did you wrong out of your inner brain, keep showing up, and keep having great times with the women who do you RIGHT.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One quick clarification. Stuff like hooking up with hot chicks on airplane rides doesn’t “happen to” this student all the time now. Rather, he’s mastered the girl-getting mindset and seduction skills needed to effortlessly and routinely MAKE it happen.

And so can you.

With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women – even when she stomps on your heart and tries to make it YOUR fault somehow.

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