Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Yesterday, I shared with you Part 1 of my student’s Sarge report.  We left off with him and his hot, enticing new acquaintance at the bookstore, with him laying the groundwork for irresistible arousal.

So let’s jump to the third meeting….

Part 2: She Taps The Brakes

At their third meeting, riding upon the strong connection already established in the last two meetings, he kissed her and they started making out.  Then – here it comes – her last minute resistance.  My student guessed (correctly) that sex wasn’t on the dessert menu that night.  Maybe this was due to her personal values, her fear of seeming too “easy” or in it for “just one thing.”  Who knows?

Rather than being daunted, he gave her another chance.  He took her out and used the anchoring he did in their previous meetings to rekindle her sense of security and romanticism that she had lacked for a long time.  This time, everything went perfect and even the last minute resistance was easily skipped this time.

When she said, “I don’t want to give you the wrong impression, but it’s not going to happen,” my student calmly replied, “Did I ask for that?” This made her seem like she was the only one thinking about sex, so she relaxed.  Everything went great from there.

Well… this is good stuff!

So guys, what can we learn from this?

For me, three things stand out:

1. A woman’s first (or current) response is rarely an indicator of what’s “final.” You have the power to influence that to help her find her way to you – assuming she is, indeed, open and willing.
2. Notice how my student confidently deflected her concerns and put her at ease. For another example of this, check out this story of how I got laid by putting on TWO pairs of pants.
3. Negation is a powerful thing. You should check out this article, too.

Get your ass back here tomorrow when we go “long term” in our view on all this…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Whatever you can get a woman to imagine, is perceived by her as being her own thought and therefore is not resisted. Therefore, first capture and guide a woman’s imagination and you can then get her to do almost anything you want… and she’ll think it’s her own idea! CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

All too often, I hear guys complain with a variation of this theme:

“I just wish I could find a girl who’s right for me. I’ve had so much bad luck with women that I don’t know if I’ll EVER find a woman I want to be with.”

Or, “I’m never going to have this much fun again with someone so hot ever again” (often uttered right after “losing” the “best” woman you’ve ever had, so you think).

Really, now?

Tell you what: let’s break down some numbers.

As of yesterday (April 9, 2010), the United States Census Bureau estimated there are 6,813,600,000 people on Planet Earth.

About half (or 3.4 BILLION) of them are women.

Now, let’s say that only 1 in 1,000 are available, within your age range, or otherwise Sargeable by you. You’ve still got 3.4 MILLION women.

And let’s assume, conservatively, that you can have chemistry with 1% of these women. All said and done, that leaves you 34,000 women who are available to you.

If you were to approach one woman per day until you approach all 34,000…that’s enough women for the next 93 YEARS.

Have you seen at least ONE hot woman today you could approach? Is there some hottie you’ve wanted to put the moves on, but you just haven’t brought yourself to do it yet?

Look up from above your computer monitor, if you’re in a public area, such as a coffee shop or other place where you’re using the public Wi-Fi. If you’re a student in a computer lab, same thing.

Is there at least ONE woman there, RIGHT NOW who looks like she might be worth saying hello to? If not, there’s a 50/50 chance you’ll see one within the next half hour.

Me, I like those odds. And if I don’t get anywhere with the next woman I meet (or claim my choice that I can do better and “Exit, Stage Left”), I’ve got DECADES worth of women who are still out there.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Mastering your girl-getting game is a process – even for experienced Seduction masters who effortlessly approach women and know the steps to getting them hot and bothered and wanting more.

Every so often, you’ll strike out. Once in a while, you’ll hit a bit of a slump when it comes to the ladies. You might even worry that you’ve lost your touch. So let me reveal to you…

A Secret, Sure-Fire Success Mindset That Keeps
Girl-Getting Masters In The Game For Extra Innings

First of all, remember: fear and anxiety and tensing up around women F@@K US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

Give yourself permission to just practice, not give a f@@k whether she says yes. Stop focusing on outcomes, because pressure to achieve those outcomes (arranging the next meeting, going back to her place, etc) will ratchet up the pressure and screw up your Sarging vibe.

You’ll feel like a loser and unattractive when you “flub your lines” and feel forced to run out of there with your tail between your legs, instead of getting some tail for tonight.

No matter WHAT happens with this (or any) chick, you don’t know what’s GOING to happen, unless you DECIDE that it will. Being PERSISTENT when things don’t at first go according to plan is KEY for “upping your game” and getting with more succulent hot babes.

So, when you see that sultry vixen in the little black dress eyeing you up from across the way while stroking the stem of her martini glass, focus NOT on the GOAL getting her out of that dress, but instead on how your forthcoming interaction with her will improve your overall “game” with the ladies.

Worry less about how you’re gonna get her to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and you’re MORE likely to go there with her (and many other women).

Ok guys, she’s waiting for you. Now, what in jumping Jennie’s drawers are you waiting FOR? Let’s go!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Recently on my blog, I delved into how to handle it when a woman cancels a meeting or date and gives an “excuse” – especially when it happens through a text message. Even skilled Seduction masters run up against this from time to time – it’s a challenge almost every guy faces.

Sometimes, this form of rejection can really get you down. (What’s that they say about how all your “ups and downs” with women should be in the bedroom?) A student wrote to me in response to that post; apparently a chick he was really into had just flaked via text message and he wasn’t taking it well…

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Ross, your post about chicks who cancel through text message hit me right at home. I have been seeing this one chick for about four weeks now, and I thought things were going well. She was supposed to come over tonight. Then, I got a text message where she cancelled and made no mention of rescheduling or even that she was sorry she had to cancel.

How should I respond to it? My energy just collapsed when she said this. In previous situations this would be enough for me to say “f@@k you, you’re out” and move on. For some reason, I perceived this rejection was coming way before it happened. What should I do?

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Sounds like you want to move forward, but you also need to be totally certain before you take a step. However, these two things are two conflicting desires bumping up against one another. The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and you “perceiving rejection”.

The All-Important First Step That Breaks You Free
Of The Shackles Of Uncertainty And The Feeling
Of “Impending Doom”

You need to let go of the need to be certain. Be aware of your uncertainty, but separate the raw physical sensations of uncertainty from the internal dialog or imagery you put yourself through when you’re worried she might cancel a meeting or dump you altogether.

Once you accomplish this, there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you chained to the restraints of doubt. Now, you have the energy to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc., that will get you laid far more often.

With this change, the “vibe” you put out to women will be grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH. It will no longer have to push out through your noise/friction. Your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity,” so they don’t creep women out / blow them out of the water / break the rapport necessary to get her into your bed.

That’s not a bad result for one simple process, is it?

Bet that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Almost every day I get e-mails and phone calls from students who have figured out how to overcome their fear with women. Oftentimes they don’t even know what caused it. Then they figure it out – and master it.

Please keep the emails coming. This is why I teach smart guys like you how to master your girl-getting game. Today, I’m going to let one of them do the talking. Here goes:

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Dear Ross, as a student of yours, I want to tell you how much Speed Seduction® has changed not just what I do, but my entire way of thinking about women.

Here’s the scoop:

Back when I was in college I had a “summer love” girlfriend. It was all romance and making out until I went back to school and she stayed back home. She cried when I went back to school and told me she planned to come visit me soon. For the next few weeks we’re emailing and calling every day, and then suddenly she goes cold on me. I found out, through a mutual friend, that she had dumped me and not bothered to tell me!

Next time I was home I saw her and (politely) confronted her. She told me she was sorry, not for what she did, but that I found out. She even outright said she was more upset that our friend had “ratted her out” to me than she was bothered that the whole thing hurt me in some way.

Back then I was what you call an “average frustrated chump” in ALL areas of my life. Even then, you’d think I’d realize this chick was messed up and needed help and that the best thing to do was drop it and move on. But I couldn’t “snap out” of my desire for / devotion to her. For months. I agonized over what I had done wrong. (Sounds crazy? SHE dumped ME without telling me, and I’m worried what I did wrong?????)

Right after she dumped me I had two women I saw every day who I could have had for the asking. I got along with them great and my flirting with them was reciprocated. One even asked “so when are you going to forget this b***h and make a move on me?” But I killed my chances by droning on about my “ex” until these two (and other) women got sick of me.

I was pathetic, obsessed over a chick who wanted nothing to do with me, 200 miles away, when I was at college with 20,000 women at my immediate disposal.

To an extent that I didn’t realize, this incident was a gusher of ice water that flowed like an eternal cold-shower on my ability to pick up chicks for the next 10 years. Several times I got lucky and met someone, but I made excuses and sabotaged things so I wouldn’t put myself at emotional risk again.

But then, after studying your teaching on conquering fear around women, I figured out I was driven by a need to “make right” the wrong that had been done to me by her. Being willfully cut off from even being able to participate in the “closure” made me to think about it all the time.

I translated that need for….closure? revenge? something else? into desire for her. It drained my emotional capacity. I’d be at parties surrounded by mind-blowing hot chicks and my mind would be skipping like a broken record on the “ex” who never deserved me at all. It was still happening years later, even after I was finally “over her,” but I was programmed that way so bad I didn’t even remember the cause.

After I realized what happened I was able to finally let her go, using what you teach. Now, I’m the kind of man who can be in a room full of people and can fearlessly approach the HOTTEST BABE THERE like it’s everyday routine. I liked your story about the student who snuggled with the married chick on the airplane. Stuff like that happens for me all the time now.

I’m still what you would call “single and looking” but I’m “finding” many more women, having great times with the nice ones and spotting the users and abusers immediately.

Thanks Ross! I think I’m gonna come to your next seminar!

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This is AWESOME – and I congratulate you on stepping up and claiming the success, results, and future that belong to you by getting past your barriers. What happened to you isn’t unique. The way we are programmed can stay with us long after the programmer (in your case, that girl who did you wrong) is out of the picture, and we don’t even remember why we got that way in the first place.

Now that you’ve gotten that chick who did you wrong out of your inner brain, keep showing up, and keep having great times with the women who do you RIGHT.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One quick clarification. Stuff like hooking up with hot chicks on airplane rides doesn’t “happen to” this student all the time now. Rather, he’s mastered the girl-getting mindset and seduction skills needed to effortlessly and routinely MAKE it happen.

And so can you.

With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women – even when she stomps on your heart and tries to make it YOUR fault somehow.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you Sarge on the amazing, incredibly sexy women in your world, the goal is to succeed with as many women as possible who meet your standards, based on the screening tools that you use to interpret the feedback they give you.

Like I’ve said: it’s a matter of interpretation. I hear many stories about students of mine who effortlessly approach a woman and use my techniques for getting her aroused and excited, but they don’t “make the move” because they just can’t tell if she’s really interested, or if he goes for the close, she might slap him.

Case in point:

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I would appreciate some good tips from you on “women’s signals of interest”. Also if there are any exceptions to those “signals of interest,” meaning they really may not be what they sound like….I am really terrible at this, although the obvious things are slamming my forehead screaming “Dude, wake up!!! That’s the signal!”

I still somehow hesitate because most of the time I am really unsure and don`t wish to screw up anything – and most importantly lose her as a friend.

Last time I had coffee with a friend of mine, everything was fine. We chatted a little bit and had some really good laughs. Somehow I noticed there may have been some interest from her side. Although she smiled, I still wasn’t too sure if it was a GO or NO GO. I mean, a man can’t simply see a woman’s interest just from her smile, if she is having a good time or laughing about something unless it is you.

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Thank you for your excellent question. My answer is in two parts.

First, let me challenge your thinking. Are you looking to make more friends, or are you looking for Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters with dripping-wet, hot women? I first powerfully approach women, then based on the feedback they give me I decide what category they fit in. When you approach women, you need to be clear on your end goal – and focus ALL of your energy, skills, and power toward claiming that goal.

Second, you don’t need to wait for sure to see if there’s interest on her side. When you use Speed Seduction®, you’ll see the fascination and desire in her face. I call this the “doggy bowl dinner” look.

The student I spoke about on my blog last month who had sex with the squirter on the first date told me that he had encountered challenges “reaching” her during their dinner to the point where he almost took her home early. But back at his place, after some bantering and patterning, she gave him this “look”. He chose to interpret it as her way of nonverbally saying, “it’s on” and powerfully made his move. He used Speed Seduction® to tell the difference.

Peace, piece, and here’s “looking” at much girl-getting success,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

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