The More It’s Fun, The More You’ll F**K!
Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
This weekend, I did a private, one-on-one , executive weekend consult with a client. One of his challenges was being too serious with women, and too timid in his approach.
I had a female friend volunteer to help out and we taught him some incredibly easy ways to demonstrate dominance, exude sexuality(without being creepy) and my top 3 favorite ways to create sexual opportunity(my new term that replaces “closing”. I hate the term “closing)
I’ll talk more about those in a later post. But for now I want to show you how I dealt with his being timid and far too serious in his initial encounters.
We went to the local mall, and after a bit of walking around, I decided to head back to my car.
That’s when it happened.
We stepped out of the elevator just as two women walked into the garage, also headed to their car.
Outrageous, Commanding, Intriguing And Fun!
One was young(@ 20 I’d say) and the other was in her late 30′s. The 20 year old was very hot, the other woman, so so.
I sprung into instant action.
“Excuse me, supermodels” I said in a “Gay” kind of voice as we walked by them.
They laughed. This was fun for them too, already.
I stopped and said, “You two don’t have really cute brothers, do you?”
They laughed more. Both said, “no”.
They were clearly enjoying this.
I turned to the cute one. ‘Look at you,” I said. “Do you even eat? You are so skinny”. At this point I reach out and patted her abs with my hand.
She laughed again.
“C’mere” I said. “Give me a hug you little stick girl”.
I grabbed her and pulled her into a very close body to body hug. As I held her close and rubbed the small of her back I said, “You know…this is strange but(Then i shifted to normal voice) I”M NO LONGER GAY!”
We all laughed. I let her go and said “Ok..I know that was over the top, but when I saw you I thought to myself, “She probably gets approached 100 times a month…you better come up with something different and see if she has a sense of humor YOU COULD REALLY LIKE”.
They both laughed again.
A car was coming, so I just reached out and pulled her out of the way, very commanding, yet gentle.
Without any explaining I went on, “So..are you a roller…a folder..or a tosser?”
She said, “Huh? What?”
I said, “We’re going on vacation…money is no object..somwhere where YOU FEEL YOU WANT TO ESCAPE…INDULGE..STRIP AWAY TOTALLY from stress and just GIVE IN TO THIS ADVENTURE…(pretty blatant, but she was eating it up and I glanced at her friend who was loving it to!)
I gestured to the ground and mimed opening a suitcase. She looked right where I looked and was clearly imagining it as I described it. “We’ve got the suitcase open….we are ready to leave together(get that suggestion? Leave on the vacation or leave on the spot where we are talking now?)..do you roll the clothes..do you fold them..or do you toss them?”
She laughed and said, “I’m a tosser!”
I faked being upset and took a few steps back, “Damn,….scientific research says folders and tossers never get along and I’m a folder! DAMN!”
She cracked up.
And this point, since I’m in love with my amazing Danish girlfriend, there was no need to pursue further and my student had gotten the point and the power of it.
“Oh well,” I said, “maybe there is a folder waiting for me..bye!”
Now, this whole approach was fun as hell. But loaded with power as well. In fact, THE FUN ***IS*** THE POWER AND THE POWER IS ***FUN****!
I’ve got lots more to tell about this executive consult, including posting some of the recorded files. Stay tuned.
RJ
P.S. One way I could have concluded this, had I been into it, was to have turned back to her, take her arm gently and and said, “But…you know…I think..there’s one way…we probably could…REALLY CONNECT” then pull her into me for a deep kiss.
(Only do this if you see they are really into the interaction!)
Then I might have said, ‘If you realize..this is something..special and unique….I think we need to talk again…..”
Then see what she responded with. If it’s, “Here’s my number” I’d take her number and call her. But it could well be, “Let’s meet up tonight..at 7..here’s my number and my address…’
Or even “Let’s get out of here..my friend can drive herself home!”
Bottom line: push your limits of what you think is possible. You’ll have more fun and do more f**king!
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