Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

All human beings experience a fair amount of self-doubt from time to time.  Especially when it comes to approaching women.

Ever found yourself ten feet away from a chick who was the best looking babe you’d seen all year (or at least all week), there all by herself in the cafe reading a book, looking like she’d probably like it (or at least wouldn’t slap you silly) if you went up to her right now. 

But you don’t do it.

Instead, you have this endless, pointless conversation in your head and find any excuse to avoid putting yourself out there.

Eventually she pays the check, closes the book, and walks out. 

Whew – at least you didn’t get rejected. By her at least.  You just want to…

…Tell Your Doubting Voice To “Shut Up Already”
So You Can Get Some Action

Here’s the difference between a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training (MIT) vs. the Average Frustrated Chump (AFCs): the MIT has learned to recognize when the “doubt delay dialogue” is happening (or about to happen), and stops those feelings dead in their tracks.

How do YOU Get this?

You see, developing a “monitoring” state or awareness that checks in and recognizes when you are beginning to have less than useful responses; THIS awareness is a great gift. It’s quite magickal.

You see, NO ONE is in a good state ALL the time. That’s not what we want to aim at.

What we DO want to aim at is knowing our own unique patterns of thinking, feeling, acting and being able to recognize quickly when we are going in a less than useful way; interrupt it effectively, and get back on track.

This skill isn’t very sexy; it’s not like being able to levitate, turn invisible or walk through a wall. But it is very, VERY powerful.

I’ll tell you what IS sexy: the results.  It’s sexy when she puts that book aside and turns to you, and you use the vibe as a down payment for an all-expenses-paid-for-two journey on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Quieting the rancor of self-doubt is based on a belief: that your feelings and thoughts and responses CAN be put in your awareness and CAN be brought under a good measure of direction and control. And it’s based on a value that doing so is VALUABLE, even necessary.  Click here to learn what gets you this awareness and control…

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Should you ever accept a woman’s “excuses” for cancelling a date or meeting? Do you know how to successfully handle those cases where you really should give a woman another chance? Or do you keep getting sucked into another round of time and attention wasting female flim-flammery?

Bask In My Wisdom, Seduction-Master-In Training!

My rules for this are very simple:

1. No matter how good an “excuse” may sound to you, remember most women are excellent liars, and text makes it exceedingly easy for even a poor liar to do it quite well. After all, you can’t hear voice tone or inflection, which are two big keys to when a chick is fibbing.(Hint: another key is, she is moving her lips!)
2. The bottom line is that a woman who is truly interested in spending time with you but for some legitimate reason just can’t do so, will make her interest very clear, almost certainly by asking if she can see you another time and day.
3. What women do is far more important than what they say. What they say can easily play into your neediness, horniness, need for validation, etc. etc. What they do is clear and easy to see.

There’s No Excuse, For Date-Break Abuse!

So under what circumstances should you give a date-breakin’ chick another shot at the honor of riding your pink steel? And when should you shine her on as a waste of the space she’s squatting in?

Well, from what I’ve written above, it ought to be pretty clear, Buckwheat. The only scenario where I would even consider her as a prospect is if she makes it very clear in the text that cancels, that she really does want to spend time with you.

Anything else you need to either:

A) Forget it and move on

B) Put her in your mental “refrigerator” for 30 days. After 30 days goes by, text her and say, “Hey…if you see that cool fun girl I thought I met, have her text me. She was kinda interesting”.

Here’s the deeper truth: when you know how to easily meet women, anytime, anywhere, and quickly capture and lead their imagination and emotions, you won’t give two toots in hell if an occasional bimbo doesn’t get the value of having you bend her over your sofa and giving her the old “Sargy One Two Three”.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, don’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush, according to Dictionary.com is “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

Almost every guy has had one. Maybe it’s on a woman he just knows a little, here and there. Maybe she’s a co-worker. Could be she’s that amazingly hot bartender who works at the happy-hour joint every Thursday night and is sometimes flirtatious toward him.

Maybe he’s gone out with her a few times and has had fun hanging out with her so far. Or, she’s someone he walked up to and Sarged on, found she was open to who he is and what he gives to the world, and took a high-speed ride on the carnal carousel.

No matter what, he’s got her on the brain. All the time.

He thinks about her constantly… creates scenarios in his mind of how his next interaction with her will be so he “gets it right.” Constant, relentless, thoughts of her will keep him from being productive at work and unable to enjoy hobbies and interests, or even hanging out with his pals.

Here’s a note from a student who reports he’s “got it bad” for a chick:

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Too often, though I know logically it makes no sense, I find myself falling into the trap where I place too much importance on one particular woman. Like, I get a crush on her and it make me unable to think or focus on anything else.

What are some ways I can moderate myself when my interest in a particular woman causes me to become uselessly intense about that woman. Are there specific methods to help gain perspective when I find myself becoming too hot and heavy about someone, as I find myself now doing?

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First of all, define “importance.” Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect in, and it can be confusing.

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Next time you feel the pangs of your crush on a woman, answer the question of what her actual “importance” is to you. It’s the first (and critical) step toward busting free of the vice-like grip of your crushes on women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. What if you had an effective, sure way to develop and nurture a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone… so that you no longer let the “importance” you attach to a woman ruin your day and reduce you to a babbling bundle of “crushed” nerves?

Within the 3 DVDs and 3 CDs of my powerful Nail Your Inner Game System, you learn techniques to quiet and clear your mind, for maximum learning and empowered perception without the “static” of misdirected “importance.” That, and so much more.

Claim your copy – and your emancipation from “crushes” – today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Even when you claim mastery of your girl-getting game, there are those amazing, sizzling hotties who will test your seduction skills.

Many women – even (sometimes especially) women who are attracted to you and want to be with you – freak out when things are about to progress from making-out to no-holds-barred f@@king.

Case in point: this note from my student:

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There’s this hot chick that I’m seeing. She’s 25, fab legs, tennis coach, who out of all of the women I’ve met (and slept with most) recently, I actually dig the most, and get a real buzz from spending time with her. Only difference is, she’s holding out.

She clearly is into me in a big way, calls/texts me frequently unprompted, and kisses me very passionately when she sees me. Anyway, I saw her for the third time last night. We had a great meal, I ran a few simple patterns, etc. etc.

However, when it came to the bedroom, after lots of passion, fondling, and dry humping, I went to remove her trousers, and she said she really should go. I did the “negation technique” but to no avail.

This perplexes me, because of all the women I’ve met recently have jumped into the sack within the first or second time of seeing each other.

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First, foremost, uppermost, important-most: give yourself a round of applause.

You’re meeting lots of women and from what you tell me, you’re having no problems getting what you want from women in general.

Typically, I’d ask …

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

… but you already know the answer - she isn’t.

You strike me as a man who thrives on a challenge, the opportunity to put your girl-getting game to the test and reach above the low-hanging fruit for the “big score.” Good on you!

Without requiring validation from this one woman, becoming her therapist, or spending time “figuring her out” (which is not your job as a Seduction master), here are four possibilities:

1. She’s seeing someone else or has an “emotional” attachment to someone else that she hasn’t revealed to you and feels she’d be betraying that.
2. She’s hung up on sex/intimacy and has intimacy problems.
3. She has a disease. No, I’m not kidding. Some women feel bad about getting it on when they have cootchie-rot.
4. Aunt Flo is currently visiting and you may just need to wait until the visit is over.

In the meantime, she’s clearly not the only entry in your black book. So turn the page and see what one of your other (more willing) female admirers is up to tonight.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Those who follow my teachings have heard me explain the difference between your “inner game” and “outer game” and how the former, if not calibrated toward girl-getting mastery, can send you right back to the dugout.

Smart guys like you want desperately to turn your fear of women into the charm and charisma that gets women hot and bothered and ready to go. But something is stopping you – like you literally talk yourself out of it.

Such as this student:

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Ross, I have been working on building my confidence with women for over a year now and it’s going nowhere. I’m starting to think that no matter how much I rehearse confidence, I’ll never overcome this feeling of worthlessness or being unworthy of meeting good women.

And I think it goes beyond just women. If I can’t find something to do with my day or some friends to be with. then I start to think it’s because I have no real friends and no one wants around. Then the cycle begins. When I start my weekend off on such a bad note the feeling just gets stronger until Sunday night and I am already defeated for the entire week ahead.

It’s like I am literally rejecting myself. How do I break free of this vicious cycle?

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OK, so you’re rejecting yourself. And yet you want to have sexy hot women falling all over you, cat-fighting amongst themselves over who gets to go home with you tonight… or even more, two or more of them going home with you?

A big part of your problem is too much of an “inward focus“. That is, you are un-usefully in your head, evaluating yourself, instead of turning your curious attention outward toward others.

You are ASSUMING/PROJECTING that others are judgmental, critical, mean and rejecting you without even giving them a fair chance to show you otherwise. How is that fair to them? Do you see yourself as the kind who is closed to the possibility that other people might be essentially good? That women might think YOU are sexy, charming, and attractive? And even more – how is that fair to YOU?

If you see this amazing sweet-looking honey sitting at the table next to you, and you ASSUME she’ll shoot you down cold without having made ANY effort to approach her… you’re literally deciding FOR HER that she will NOT like you.

Imagine… if you DID Sarge on her… and she ended up getting irresistibly aroused by you and banging you that same afternoon?

Now as far as finding things to do and people to hang out with, is it that you can’t? Or is it that, because of your beliefs and projections about being judged and rejected, you haven’t developed the awareness, scheduling and other skills so that you plan fun events for yourself, and fun events involving others (including hot women)?

Look: if a person believes they are unable to walk or run, they probably won’t bother developing the skills of walking and running. Then, because they don’t have the skills, they will conclude that they are physically unable to – even though their legs work just fine!

Do you see the cycle? Now BREAK THE CYCLE.

Focus on the skills of searching for, planning and creating fun things to do, events, etc. Apply the same when you approach women and you will see results other than the rejection you put on yourself by ASSUMING she won’t like you and not giving her the chance to “below you” in the first place.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. When you master the principles in my Nail Your Inner Game System, with no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walk like a giant where other people fear to step! It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a##, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted!

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the spirit of Thanksgiving (USA), I challenge you to thank yourself by simply “letting go” of what has held you back until now.

Look: in life, we all make mistakes.

When it comes to learning Speed Seduction®, and indeed, the entire subject of success with women, you can count on TWO things:

1. You WILL make mistakes. Mistakes in judgment. Mistakes in execution. Mistakes in what you leave out. Mistakes in what you put in. Expect it.
2. No matter HOW prepared you think you are, women will test you and women WILL surprise you. Just when you THINK you have a girl “all wrapped up” she will pull something out of her hat (or a##). So, like I have said in my original book and have repeated over and over, when you start really liking a girl, just remember: you never know where you stand with a girl until you make that first, serious physical move. Until then, it’s all talk, talk, and sometimes just play-acting. Sad but true.

In any event, I have learned that, too often, guys hold onto their “failures” and dwell on them. It’s like obsessively chewing on the same wad of gum for year after year, as it collects more gunk, bacteria, mouth goo, etc. etc. etc. You wouldn’t do that, would you? But so many guys dwell on their “failures”. Or on how some girl screwed them over (instead of screwing them!) back when they were still “nice guys”.

Look, the problem with dwelling on all this is, what you dwell on, you are actually just rehearsing and retraining your mind to do it again the next time around!

That is the problem with “slumps”. The more you dwell on how awful you are doing, the more you carry those emotions into your efforts and it is like putting a 100 lb lead weight around each leg and then trying to jump out a 30 foot hole!

And again, what you mentally dwell on with strong emotion is what you communicate to your subconscious mind that you want it to do!

Despite all your positive programming, which I believe in and teach, your NEGATIVE programming thru dwelling on mistakes will probably more likely influence how you think, act and respond, BECAUSE IT IS MOST FAMILIAR AND IT IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN WITH STRONG EMOTION.

Remember this: the unconscious is most impressed by anything that includes strong emotion, repetition, and strong belief. It does what is most familiar, not what you necessarily most consciously may want.

So avoiding this negative loop requires better attitudes toward learning. It requires the discipline and awareness to notice when you are beating on yourself and to stop it. And it requires acceptance of mistakes.

If you find yourself dwelling on the past or getting mad that you are not making fast enough progress, repeat this out loud.

Forgiving others, and letting them go is good training for forgiving myself. So even if they don’t “deserve” it I will do it for my own sake. I will either get what I want or learn what I need to. Mistakes are just MARKERS; marking out where I can step into new freedom, choice, power and growth.

I may wish I had been born more evolved or perfect, but THIS is my path and I embrace it. I may not always like it, I may slip and grumble, BUT THIS IS MY PATH. I will let my learnings pull me forward. I will never stop learning til I draw my last breath and in that last breath I will learn what THAT is like as I embrace the Source of All Learning … right now, today.

Allow this new attitude and new learning into your future seductions. And even imagine that idea going off into your past, adding its energy into your past as well. Come up to the present with this image inside you. Be thankful for your past; as it has helped you become the person you are today.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Happy Halloween! I know a lot of you are getting ready to head off to your Halloween parties and Sarge on all the hotties in their kinky nurse and exotic dancer costumes.

Quick tip: Taking a woman to a “haunted house” is a great way to get her in bed, as many of my students have reported. She’ll want to hold you close, which gives you an automatic “in” to use touching patterns to get her hot and bothered and back to YOUR house after. Remember, with Speed Seduction®, you observe her body language, behaviours, and language patterns and use this feedback in your seduction.

I’ll tell you what’s scary – when you’re Sarging like crazy but you’re not getting the results you expect. I got a note from a student yesterday and couldn’t hold back. Here is what he said:

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Hi Ross, you know, when it comes to women, it seems like there’s lots of ups and downs. I’ll hit a “winning streak” where I meet lots of women and have hot make-out session after hot make-out session and get laid several times in a few weeks. Things work out really well and I even end up dating some women for a while. But then other times I’ll go a month or more without a date or even a successful pick-up. I feel like I’m wasting my time when this happens.

This is scary, like what am I doing wrong?

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You know, I get this question a lot. I could sugarcoat it, or tell you that you just have to have faith and the “right one will come along.” No, this is where the continual process of honing and mastering your Seduction skills comes in.

Everyone goes through ups and downs in their Sarging. Even Babe Ruth, the “Sultan of Swat,” went through slumps in his baseball career where he kept striking out. But he also went through phases where every time he stepped up to the plate he hit it out of the park. This is why baseball players have a batting AVERAGE.

When you approach any woman, do it not for how you’re going to succeed with this one woman, but how you’re going to master the experience so you can succeed with her AND the next ten women who are even hotter and wanting you more than she is.

Remember this: when being a powerful Speed Seduction® master becomes who you are and what you do, your “batting average” with women will be MUCH higher. Sure, you’ll still have ups and downs, but most of them will be in bed with the women you truly desire.

Peace and many hot juicy pieces to come,

RJ

P.S. Women’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other (up until now) deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions, can be scarier than the most gruesomely-lifelike Halloween costume. But there’s a better way.

Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, you need to check out my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course. You’ll never have a “scary” moment again because you’ll have the tools and skills to effortlessly master every girl-getting situation.

Get yours now!