Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you “assume” it makes an ass-of-u-and-me.  What happens when you “insist”?

Watch this short video where I share two great attitudes that will help you meet, seduce, and succeed with the women you truly desire:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This clip is from our April 2011 3-day seminar in London.  Our next seminar dates are in June, and are in Copenhagen and London.  Don’t miss out, click here for details and to sign up now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Really… how was your weekend with women?

Was it a vaginally-victorious, ripe-for-harvest, 69-acre field of moist pink abundance?

Did you meet a great new woman, easily and effortlessly, despite any imperfections in yourself or in her, and powerfully capture her interest and create a new space where the two of you could take things, together, in a new direction?

Did you get laid?

If some hottie threw you a curveball – gave you a nasty glare, shot you down cold before you had a chance to work your Sargy magic (or Magick), or otherwise threw a wrench in the gears – did you know what to do?  How to handle it?  How to turn things around your way to still get the results you want?

OK, so maybe you’ve been seeing someone.  Have you slept with her yet? Things heatings up between you two?

(Or you three, if she, like her salaciously succulent sorority sister, is the freaky girl that many of my students would like to meet at least once… or maybe again and again)?

I get it – maybe you’re in a serious, committed relationship and this is indeed the woman you think you might want to marry.  After all, you did take her home to meet your momma and it was already like your parents “didn’t lose a son, but gained a daughter”. 

Is it a relationship, or a real-hate-shun-ship? Are you sure?  Do you know what to do if you really like her but so far it seems like you real-hate too much?

Seriously, let me know.  I want to hear from you.  Leave a comment below, please.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If your actual weekend with women didn’t quite add up to the “perfect HB10″ equation I described above, click here and/or click here to learn two ways you can improve things, starting now.  Today.  Getting the ball rolling for wetter, wilder, wonderful-er weekends with women.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Today I want to talk about something that is often just not discussed.

I have a student in my coaching program who I would have to describe as successful in most areas of life.

He’s extremely smart.  He’s built his own successful business using his brains, his discipline and his drive.

But he has, at 29 years of life, never had a girlfriend and never been laid in his life.

Did You Ever Wake Up One Day And Think, “I Just Don’t Get It..Why Can’t I Use My Brains To Succeed With Women The Way I Have To Succeed In The Rest Of My Life?”

The standard answer most guys in this situation will hear is, “You can’t use your intelligence with women because women aren’t logical”.   Or, equally stupid and useless, “Intelligence doesn’t attract women. Women want strength and dominance and power”.

To which I say, “Bullshit”.

My friend, if you are in this situation, you can indeed use your intelligence to have massive success with women. But it is a different kind of intelligence than what you’ve used for business or school.

It’s an intelligence that involves:

1. Changing the orientation of your thinking.
2. Cultivating the skill set of present state and present time awareness.
3. Cultivating a “spacious” consciousness so you can notice your old responses without them distorting your perception and driving your behavior.
4. Cultivating your creative consciousness so you can effectively tap into your intuition and imagination to make much better calls and flexibly explore much more fun and powerful responses, behaviors, beliefs, insights and practices that actually get you laid.

If this is a topic that interests you, please respond with a comment (leave one below) and I’ll do more on it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’d love to hear about whatever event triggered your “awakening” moment where you asked yourself that question.  Please share by leaving a comment below.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the tricky things when you get good with Speed Seduction® is the thorny problem of having women fall for you and fall for you hard, when all you want is a little bit of fun.

As guys, we have to be aware that even the most bitter, cynical, hardened woman can have her heart burst wide open and her feelings of wanting to be loved really come to the surface when she is properly seduced.

Let’s face it: sex can make all of us feel very vulnerable, and most especially so with many, if not most women.

To illustrate my point, let me share a note from a student facing this situation:

Dear Ross and Bros:

Went out with a young lady I met on the internet on Saturday.

Any way, one Twin Brothers pattern led to another and we ended up back at her place.  No need to go into the details, but when I left we both had big grins on our faces.

The reason I feel a little guilty is that I haven’t called her since.  I’m pretty sure that it won’t do her too much harm, but also pretty sure that it won’t make her feel too good and won’t do her self esteem too much good either.

Although I’m not that interested in developing a relationship with her, I would prefer to be able to  walk away knowing that, at the very least no damage has been done, however small that might be.

Now, I was pretty honest with her and didn’t promise her anything other than an interesting evening.  I did say that I would call her, and  later in the week I shall.  But what would be interesting from you guys would be any thoughts on how to set her up on the date so that they see the evening as a fun, exciting event and are happy not to expect too much after it.

RJ: The key here is to be honest about your intentions if she asks.  The second thing is, if you are not looking for an incredible connection, but just a roll in the hay, don’t use “connection” patterns.

I teach there are 4 doorways into any woman’s mind and emotions:

1. Getting her visualizing vividly.
2. Getting her to feel strong emotional connections
3. Getting her to feel strong, pleasurable body sensations
4. Getting to her core value structures

If you sense a woman wants too much from you, commitment–wise or is looking for than what you want, do not use doorways 2 and 4. They create a very strong emotional bond with most women.

You can use them, lightly, but mostly I’d lean on doorways 1 and 2. There are plenty of patterns to pretty much guarantee you can get in without creating deep emotional bonds.

Of course, if a girl is desperate and needy enough, she will CREATE those bonds, even though you never used any patterns at all! That’s when we can get into some trouble even though we proceeded with care. The problem isn’t with us, but with our “subject”; she’s just too friggin’ needy to deal with it.

If you sense you have a girl who is on the needy edge like this, it might be better to just let her slide and NOT have sex with her.

How’s that for having a life of real choice: you actually have so much variety and choice with women that you can feel great being able to say NO to a girl instead of it being the other way around! Imagine that!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Emotional connection patterns are VERY powerful. They do to women what high heels, push up bras, and boob jobs do to use men; they make the subject loose control!  Use them with caution.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

This video speaks for itself.

Helping guys like this make their breakthroughs is the reason why I am still passionate about doing this work after 20 years of teaching.

Now, if I could do this for a guy like Sina-a 25 year old virgin who was desperately stuck-what could I do for you?

Watch…

Click here to view the embedded video.

Peace, piece and another student blasts through the friend zone!

RJ

P.S.  The “beta” test Sina talks about was a one day “in-field” event I did with 3 students. Don’t know if I will do it again, but you can find out about my personal consulting, monthly coaching and live 3-day seminars on my Speed Seduction® Website.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my last blog post, I explained the reasons why women put men through B.S. tests.

So, moving right ahead, today I will share some powerful techniques to not only “pass” these tests but rather, completely overcome them and turn things to your advantage.

So, let’s delve into…

How To Handle It….Dealing From A Position Of Strength

To get back to street fighting analogies, there’s a concept from Jeet Kun Do, the fighting style of the late, great Bruce Lee that basically says that any weapon thrust your way, as part of an attack is just a convenient target to be destroyed. Coming from this perspective, an attack, rather than something to be feared, is just an unprecedented opportunity to…. KICK THE OTHER GUY’S ASS!!!!

Just so, a woman’s bullshit and tests are great opportunities to establish respect and dramatically increase her interest in you. In other words, your response to these tests, instead of being, “Oh no.…why is she doing this? What did I do wrong?”, from now on will be….

AH, HAH! A RESPECT OPPORTUNITY!!!

Look: your attitude has to be that every rude piece of behavior, every silly test of hers is just an unprecedented opportunity for you to establish respect, increase her interest, and intensify her desire to please you.

Taken from this perspective, you’ll be mentally prepared, and may even find yourself actually looking forward to her trying to pull shit, since you know it’s your chance to get her really hot for you!!!!

Now let me add one other thing: when you do put her in her place…

IT’S GOT TO COME FROM THE RIGHT PLACE IN YOU!!!

In other words, the macho idiot who loses control and trashes the place when his girlfriend comes home ten minutes late is definitely not the example to follow. All he’s doing is showing he can’t control himself and he just earns the woman’s contempt.

Notice I’m not saying you can’t or shouldn’t get a little pissed. Just don’t go nutso with a stream of obscenities. (Streams of obscenities are for afterwards, when you are in bed with her.)

The other thing that doesn’t work is acting like a hurt little boy. Whining stuff like, “How could you do this to me?” or, “But you promised!” won’t cut it, good buddy. No. You have to come from the calm, but firm “take it or leave it” position. This is all part of displaying the critically important………

WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY FROM HER!!!

You see, after years of experience and study, I’ve come to the conclusion that a woman can only experience real passion for you if on some level she believes she could do something to lose you!

Understand that when you show this willingness to walk away, in any area of your life, it conveys the message that you are the prize to be pursued, that you are the person of value, and they had better take advantage of the opportunity.

This is an attitude that will move you forward in any area that’s challenging you.

By way of contrast, if you show a non-stop, forever and ever devotion to her, and put up with her crap and ambivalence, then where is that tension of knowing she could lose you? Answer: nowhere!

And that’s why you get nowhere when you put up with this kind of stuff! If you’ve seen an initially hot relationship grow ice-cold, this is one big reason!!!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Ready to stop wasting your time and money HOPING that if you “pass the test” that women will like you and sleep with you?  Your golden ticket to success is waiting for you when you explore Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Wow.  My post on Why Txt Msgs Sck Dck has really kicked up quite a debate.

One of the many great comments I received was asking how to manage her “autopilot” responses.  So, let me show you this video clip, taken from one of my actual live seminars where I work directly, in-person with students, where I teach you how to use a woman’s autopilot emotional responses to power her right into your bed.

After you watch the video, click here to learn more >>>

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Everyone who registers for a live, 3-day Seminar also gets access to the complete Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  With more than 120 laser-focused, answer-specific girl-getting video lessons (with audio transcripts), these lessons will make 2011 your “Vaginal Victory Year.”  If you want to get just the videos, you can: click here for the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

They say tomorrow is a very unique New Years’ because the date will be 1-1-11.  It leads me to ask, one-one-one-one-what?

Will you overcome “the 1″ thing that’s been holding you back from enjoying the success with women that, up until now, you have not quite achieved, for whatever reason?

Since you’re ready to step up to the plate, will you take “the 1″ step that will put at least three scandalously hot women (maybe all at the same time!) in your bed – the bed that up until now you’ve had all to yourself – within the next 90 days?

If you’re looking to settle down, will you find “the 1″ woman whose presence in your world will fundamentally change your life and become your partner in creating the vision for your lifestyle you’ve held for years, but up until now weren’t sure you’d ever achieve?

Will you take “the 1″ action that will set change into motion so in 365 days, when you’re again rattling off your “this was the year that was” summary while you wait for the big ball to drop, you’re saying to yourself…

“Wow, This Was The Best Fucking Year Ever!”

Look: I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, New Years’ Resolutions are bullshit.

If claiming your results with the women you truly desire is something you “resolved” to do two weeks ago but said “I’ll start that in January, it will be my New Years’ resolution”, all you’ve done is let 20,160 minutes blow right by without  her blowing…you get the picture.

So, instead of a resolution, I’m going to give you empowering statements that you can use today, tomorrow, next week, two months from Thursday, ANY day and EVERY day that you claim your choice:

• “Today is the last day of the way I used to be.”
• “Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better…now.”
• “My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.“

Will 2011 be “the 1″ year where you achieve the Vaginal Victory you’ve wanted for up until now?  Will you take that “1″ step?

Peace and piece,

- RJ

P.S. In 2011, get the women YOU truly desire, on YOUR terms, without guess work or games, or you pay NOTHING, with the newly-released Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.

And, unlike one of those silly New Years’ Resolutions, this is something you can have RIGHT NOW – as in, instant download.  Ready?  Click here to get “the 1″ Vaginal Victory Vault.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

In this video, ripped right out of my huge collection of training modules, watch my analysis and discussion of this concept that I taught in a recent 3-day seminar:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Gain the confidence, the skills, and the tools you need to effortlessly walk up to her, seduce her…and actually make her WANT to be seduced…anytime, anyplace, any woman YOU want to get with… Speed Seduction® 3.0.