Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Has a chick ever given you a fake phone number? (HINT: If it hasn’t happened to you, you’re probably spending more “quiet time at home” with Rosie and her sorority sisters than you are out in the field meeting hot women.)

For the 96 percent of you who have met her, thought you hit it off with her, and then eagerly dialed those digits you scored, only to find yourself on the phone with some dude who has “never heard of Debbie” and repeats “I repeat, Skippy, you have the wrong number“…it leaves you wondering…

Dude…What’s Up With THAT?

It seemed like she was really into you. In her voice, it sounded (to you) like she’d be pretty much be counting the minutes (1,440 per day) until her phone rang and it was you on the other end. So how did you end up calling the Sausage Market instead?

Here’s what probably happened:

1. You didn’t build sufficient interest or rapport. She wasn’t interested and she didn’t like you. Plain and simple.
2. That being said, you were dealing with an insecure chick who didn’t want you to dislike her or feel bad toward her, so she “gave you her number” to maintain your good feelings about her…IN THAT MOMENT.

Once you were out of her sight, you ceased to matter to her, and she couldn’t care less what you thought about her. Now that she didn’t have to look you in the eye, she could go back to hiding behind her game and there’s not a damn thing you can do about it.

Here’s the thing: if your Sarging goal is to score her digits, stop it. Stop looking to add a new number to your Crackberry or get the digits to her i(Don’t-Actually-Answer-My)Phone and instead engage her imagination and her unconscious processes to create connection and desire.

For this chick who just stiffed you on the digits – remember, how a woman behaves early in the seduction scenario is an indicator of how things will go when things get hot and heavy. If she can’t be honest about this one thing, imagine what life would be like if she was your girlfriend?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

First of all, it’s that time of year again! On January 22-24, 2010, we will be holding our next Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, CA. More details on that and a special, limited time offer when you click here.

And now …

I believe every guy out there has a vision of what his “dream woman” looks like, sounds like, acts like, tastes like, etc.

We all have “tastes”, just like some people like chocolate ice cream more than vanilla. Even though they may like the vanilla, it’s the chocolate ice cream he desires most. I, too, have certain “types” of women who really rev my engine and inspire my girl-getting game. And when I see what I like, I am far more likely to approach her.

Now, sometimes it gets frustrating when you have no problem getting women in general, but you just can’t seem to land the “woman of your dreams.” Case in point: this note I received from a student of mine.

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Hey Ross! I’ve been struggling to find just the woman I want to be with. I’m a good looking guy, 36 years old, with a nice face and a sculpted body. Women have told me I have hypnotic eyes. I’ve slept with lots of women. But none of them have been quite the women I want.

I’m very selective, and I have a vision of the woman I want. She has a slender body, short black hair, and is about 5′5 (I’d like her to be about 6 inches shorter than me). I get lots of girls – don’t get me wrong, I have no problem attracting women – but I’m at a point in my life where I want to settle down, and I have a specific vision of what she should look like.

Is there anyway you can help?

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Let me challenge your thinking on this. I had a student who could only feel attraction to a woman if she had long, curly, jet-black hair, deep brown eyes, wide hips, and long legs. Preferably, she would be Italian, or of Italian descent. This held my student back from many exciting adventures with women because he pushed away women with blond or red hair, even when they threw themselves at him begging for him to take them to sexual heights they’d never seen. When he found what he WAS looking for, he came on too strong and repelled her.

His desire for this “type” was driven by an extreme sense of deprivation. In middle school he was publicly spurned by a classmate who was full-blooded Italian and looked like his “dream woman.” He felt the need to compensate by Sarging on all the black-curly-haired, brown-eyed, wide-hipped, long-legged Italian women he could find. Unfortunately, not many of them seemed to want him back (because he came across as needy), so he had a LOT of dates with Rosie and her sisters.

Once he recognized and accepted his sense of loss, it was no time at all before his girl-getting game climbed to new heights. Ironically, in addition to all the blondes and redheads who now see him differently than ever before, he now attracts more women who are his “type” because he is no longer projecting “neediness” caused by relentless efforts to compensate for what happened to him when he was 13 years old.

So do an inventory and see if there is some slender-bodied, short-black-haired, five-foot-something hottie from the past who you’re still chasing after. Stop chasing her and the odds go up that you’ll find her.

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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A dilemma that many smart guys like you encounter is, you effortlessly approach a woman while she’s “living life” and powerfully use my teachings to touch her inner desires and get her hot and bothered about you.

Or so it may seem. Then, the next step – the meeting, the “date,” or what have you – never happens. Nada. Zilch. You never see her or hear from her again.

But she SEEMED interested at the time. You ask, like this student who wrote to me, “what happened?”:

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Last week, I met this pretty girl in the cafeteria while waiting in line to get lunch. I approached her and introduced myself to her. She was very sweet when she talked to me. Then, she told me that she is too tired to stand on the queue and ask me to stand on her behalf.

I did as she asked. Then after I asked her where she stays, she told me and we arranged to meet again. Unfortunately by the time I went to visit her, I found her with her boyfriend. She discreetly asked me to come back the following day. I went there several times, but I never found her. What should I do?

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Recently, I answered a similar question by asking a question in return:

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

Even if you are interested in this one woman – she might be the sexiest, most intriguing hottie you’ve met all year – I still wonder why you put effort into seducing her. It seems like you are trying to figure out what went “wrong” in this situation.

So I challenge you to train your mind to first and foremost spot everything and anything you’ve done right in each girl-getting situation, so you develop an intelligent and informed motivation – not ignoring what needs to be fixed, but first and foremost seeing what you are doing well.

You did get her interested enough to say she’d meet you again. Even though she flaked, something you said or did THAT DAY got her pulse racing with desire for you.

That’s your starting point for the next woman you approach – who could be her, if you just happen to run into her while YOU go about YOUR daily life, which will include using my teachings while approaching and pursuing even hotter, tastier women instead of just waiting around for her.

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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