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Stop Any Cock-Blocker By “Mixing Up” Four Sarge Ingredients

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 22nd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

In yesterday’s blog post about the dominant vibe, I explained how in over-reaching in trying to be commanding, many otherwise smart guys come across as desperate supplicators in denial and ironically reveal themselves to be Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC).

Today, I want to delve into a very common scenario that makes many guys feel the need to put on “dominant” airs.

Let’s say you’re at a regular hangout, and there’s a chick you see and you want like nothing else to Sarge on her.  Then this other guy (who you often see there) comes along, usually just as you’re preparing to approach her.  He’s always very aggressive with women.  He completely lacks any real methodical girl-getting game; all he brings to the game is just a lot of touching and bodily contact.

But there’s one catch,  Many chicks think he’s “better looking” than you, so he gets lots of ass on his looks alone.  It’s happened more than once that you were actually Sarging on a woman when he comes over, pats you on the shoulder in mock-friendship that makes YOU look like the jerk if you get pissy, and then steals the show.  And the girl.

It’s gotten to the point where if he shows up, your girl-getting game goes gummy (as in the bears).  Your confidence sags.  You’re defeated before the first shot is fired since you stand no chance vs. his “superior” looks.  That, and because he’s so aggressive and Johnny on the spot, you can’t even find the opening to approach her and get the ball rolling, much less keep him away.

But all is not lost.

Here’s How To Beat This Jerk At His Own Game
And Have Him Wishing He Was You

There’s really only one way to master this situation, and that’s to do it vibrationally and enegertically FIRST, and THEN through language.

By this, I mean that this clotheshorse clearly understands the use of the “dominant” vibe. But he’s not using the other three:

  • Showing understanding of her world
  • Being vulnerable
  • Being funny and fun

More importantly, he doesn’t understand that by randomly fractionating back and forth between these vibes, the power of them multiplies rather than adds.

When you’re exponentially expanding your vibes and erotically executing your master plan, soon the ladies will be wondering who that pushy, obnoxious, needy, pathetic jerk is who keeps following you around trying in vain to cock-block you.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Out Of Your Head / Into Her Bed: This One Bad Habit Could Be Blocking Your C**K

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 14th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

The bad habit revealed in this video (taken from my London 2010 seminar) reveals the one bad habit that keeps so many guys stuck in whack-off-land that it just isn’t funny.

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Fix it, and you gain major leverage in your quest for pink success.

Please watch and tell me your thoughts below.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“This Dude Is ALWAYS Hanging Around Her…”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 3rd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In past editions of this blog, I’ve delved into how to Sarge when you’re out somewhere without a wingman and you’re trying to “break in” to the circle when everyone else seems to be there with all their friends.

Well, here’s a question I’ve been asked several times in the past couple weeks (that also comes up often in our live seminars, group coaching calls, forums, and discussion groups):

What do you do when the woman you’re interested in has an overprotective “guy friend” around?

When you try to find out if he’s her boyfriend – “So how long have you two been together?” - she says “Oh, he’s just a friend.  We’re not boyfriend/girlfriend.” However, it seems like he’s always around, interrupting every attempt you make to create excitement and get her all giddy wanting you, not to mention inserting himself into every single conversation.

When he’s not around, she mentions him frequently, often beginning sentences with “(insert his name here) says…” or “(insert his name here) thinks…” Even if she didn’t say the words, you just KNOW that if you and her ever got in an argument, he’d be in your face “defending” her.

So, how do you get this guy to stop c**K-blocking you, when he’s not even her boyfriend?

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most, let me ask you:

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

That being said, before you go any further, consider the following.

  • Simple fact: he’s “around all the time” because she wants him to be.  That’s the bottom line.  This overrides all.

But, that being said:

  1. Could be, she’s not on the market. She might have a boyfriend who’s on an extended trip (in military service, long-term overseas client project, etc) and this guy is a friend of theirs who “looks out” for her as a favor to her boyfriend
  2. Maybe he’s consigned to her “friend zone” and he comes from a place of scarcity and “hangs around her” to keep what little she gives him.  If that’s the case, he has a vested interest in sabotaging every man who Sarges on her.
  3. Have you tried befriending him, or do you just go silent, sulky, and mopey-faced when he “interrupts”? When you show the world that you are a positive, engaging person, you outshine the AFC competition.  Remember: you don’t have to outrun the bear.  You just have to outrun the other guy the bear is chasing.

Maybe it’s #3.  Open yourself to the possibility.  Give her a chance by giving him a chance.  However, if he really is giving you the third degree and is there entirely to cause you problems, you might gain some clues from what this student did.

Peace and piece.
RJ

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“I Got C#&$blocked By Facebook!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 21st, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

The other day I received this very interesting e-mail from a student of mine.

Seems something keeps happening that changes women from being all excited and bothered about him, to suddenly turning colder than salted salmon on a Siberian scooner on the second Sunday in January. Here goes:

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Ross, was wondering if you could shed light on something here. I’m regularly meeting women – out and about, in the overpriced coffee shops, at my favourite hangout – all the good places to meet women where the getting is good and the pickings are ripe.

As I get to know women, one way or another the subject of Facebook comes up. Next thing you know, we become “friends” on Facebook. And that’s usually about the last thing that happens.

Things tends to come to a shuddering halt. It’s like this Facebook is a buzz kill for my Sarging. Like….Facebook is c#&$blocking me! The woman will ask if we can be “friends” on Facebook. What am I to do, say no? And if I do, how do I say it?

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Question: how is adding a woman to your Facebook list a way of capturing her emotions and energy and directing them down a path that leads to pure passion and pleasure?

You gonna take her to the movies to see Farm Wars, and then have a steaming hot make-out session with her at her place back in Mafiaville, then post to her Wall that you enjoyed hanging out with her?

Remember: “dating” is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with. Being on Facebook together is what dating couples do. Until you’ve given her a ride on your shuttle at Cape Carnal-veral, skip the dating rituals.

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When you’re THIS close to banging her, don’t go off on tangents about Facebook. She’s not likely to say “I’m DYING to go home with you, but I only f@@k men on my Friends list, so can you add me first?”

Flip side – when you’re working a Sarge and she starts telling you about her friends’ status messages and wall posts, nod and say “that’s cool” – and get back to what a Seduction Master does, without further ado.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“My Buddies Keep C#$k-Blocking Me When I Meet Women!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 3rd, 2010
 My Buddies Keep C#$k Blocking Me When I Meet Women!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

It’s an age old problem. Let’s say you’re out with some buddies of yours. While you are a Speed Seduction® master, a “ladies’ man” in complete charge of your world, your pals, as nice and cool as they may be overall, are Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs).

ca 67960948 small My Buddies Keep C#$k Blocking Me When I Meet Women!You approach and are Sarging an interesting and beautiful woman. And before you know it, your AFC friends have put a whole load of obstacles in your way just by being there.

Even worse, your own Sarging energy gets brought down because you’re looking to meet and succeed with some women tonight, and your friends hold you back because their girl-getting game isn’t up to par with yours. They’re your pals and all, and they don’t mean to, but they’re c#$k-blocking you. Frustrating!

I decided that now would be the time to address this when I received the below:

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It happened to me last night. I was out in a great bar with a group of my friends. I look up and there are two fabulously good looking babes talking to one of my friends. They get introduced to us. One thing leads to another and I end up separating the brunette from the rest of the group and sarging her. Of course, one of my friends then comes over and drags me away from her and starts ‘playfully’ dissing me. Sound familiar??

Anyway, the evening continues and I’m having fun just opening sets and doing mini-sarges on other women at the bar. I was “getting somewhere” with this really cute redhead and her friend and I AGAIN got some obstacles from my pals.

But I found that the more women I approached, the less problems I got from my friends. Then it dawned on me. They were getting distracted by failing to impress the Sarges that I had been forced to leave behind after they c#$k-blocked me. Meanwhile, I continued to Sarge on the most stunning women in the bar.

Is it really this easy – just Sarge like a wild man until I “outrun” my buddies and they give up and let me handle my game?

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You’ve probably heard the one about the two guys being chased by the grizzly bear. One guy stops to put on his best running shoes while his buddy says “COME ON! THE BEAR!” And the first guy says to the second, “I’m putting on my running shoes because I don’t have to outrun the bear. I only have to outrun you!

In the same vein, when I am Sarging while surrounded by AFCs, I have a built-in advantage that drastically increases my chances of getting laid. Why? It’s simple…because it’s so damn easy to shine and thrive in comparison!

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Sure, your buddies, like clockwork, will interrupt just when you’re getting response from the hottie. Sometimes they’re trying to compensate their insecurities by trying to dump ice water on your Sarge. Sometimes they mean well, and don’t realize that they’re c#$k-blocking you. Maybe they don’t realize that tonight it’s their turn to play “wingman” and keep your target hottie’s gal-pals entertained while you make your move.

This obstacle is no big deal at all for a playful, resourceful and fun seducer! Rest assured, the smartest, sexiest womenmore attracted to you at the bar will be even when there are AFCs right there for you to stand “head and shoulders above” in the women’s minds.

So let your buddies do you a favor… by letting them do you no favors. You handle yours, and let them handle theirs… and you’ll be handling more women than ever before.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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