Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Really… how was your weekend with women?

Was it a vaginally-victorious, ripe-for-harvest, 69-acre field of moist pink abundance?

Did you meet a great new woman, easily and effortlessly, despite any imperfections in yourself or in her, and powerfully capture her interest and create a new space where the two of you could take things, together, in a new direction?

Did you get laid?

If some hottie threw you a curveball – gave you a nasty glare, shot you down cold before you had a chance to work your Sargy magic (or Magick), or otherwise threw a wrench in the gears – did you know what to do?  How to handle it?  How to turn things around your way to still get the results you want?

OK, so maybe you’ve been seeing someone.  Have you slept with her yet? Things heatings up between you two?

(Or you three, if she, like her salaciously succulent sorority sister, is the freaky girl that many of my students would like to meet at least once… or maybe again and again)?

I get it – maybe you’re in a serious, committed relationship and this is indeed the woman you think you might want to marry.  After all, you did take her home to meet your momma and it was already like your parents “didn’t lose a son, but gained a daughter”. 

Is it a relationship, or a real-hate-shun-ship? Are you sure?  Do you know what to do if you really like her but so far it seems like you real-hate too much?

Seriously, let me know.  I want to hear from you.  Leave a comment below, please.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

It often comes up that a woman who has recently gotten out of a long-term relationship will be reluctant to sleep with you.  Even though she wants to, really bad.

A student of mine received an e-mail from a woman he had been Sarging and things were really heating up.  A little confusing with a “WTF” aspect to it, for sure.  But, check this out and then I’ll tear it up:

“I’ll be really honest with you here. I enjoy talking to you and I think you would be great in bed.  But there are a couple reasons why I’m not going to sleep with you. One – I am still very in love with my ex boyfriend. Two: I really enjoy talking about sex with someone that I’m not sleeping with. It’s just so much more honest. I’m sure that makes sense. See you Thursday, looking forward to it.”

It’s right in front of your face: this chick has ALREADY made up her mind to sleep with you. 

She needs an excuse in her mind so she can feel blameless; “well, I TRIED not to sleep with him and even told him “NO” but I just couldn’t help myself..it just HAPPENED”.

Note what she said, “I think you would be great in bed”.

STOP! How could she “think” that without FANTASIZING about it?

Just say to her,

Hey…I’m glad for your honesty. Whatever we each and BOTH feel, I don’t want to do anything unless it is BOTH something we are BOTH thinking and dreaming about and totally want to do. So let’s just relax, enjoy each other’s company and only in whatever ways are comfortable and we BOTH want to do.

This takes the pressure OFF. Then keep right on Sarging..when you start to undress her and she resists just say…“We BOTH can’t help ourselves!” then fairly aggressively peel her panties off and enjoy the “lift-off” of the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Remember: a woman’s first response to you should rarely be taken as her “final answer.”  More likely, she’s responding to what’s in her mind and her world AT THAT MOMENT.  In 24 hours from now, 1,440 minutes will have passed, each with a reason why it’s possible  she’ll think differently.

Sound like a lot to manage?  Not if you have this on your side and in your corner.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A question I get asked frequently is, what to do when you have the hots for a woman who already has a bore-friend, BUT she seems to be into you too, and she says she’s “this close” to having a fling with you or even dumping him for you?

Just yesterday, one of my students told me he wants to reignite the spark with a “taken” chick he had flirted with before, get the Sarging energy back on full blast, and get her in his bed, even though she (says she’s) gone back full-time to that bore-friend of hers.

OK… those of you who have heard of, or used, my “Boyfriend Destroyer” pattern know that oftentimes, the chick will throw out the old “….but I have a boyfriend” line even when she doesn’t, and it’s your mission as a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training to channel her vibe and move her past this objection, and into your love-lair.

That still leaves the question….

What To Do When She’s Really Taken, But You’re Still “Taken” With Her?

First, foremost, uppermost, important-most, let me ask the Captain Obvious question:

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

A while ago, I shared the story about a guy who was Sarging on this chick, only to find out she was his neighbor’s girlfriend, but he wanted her anyway. The guidance I gave to that student applies here too.

Furthermore, what is it about her that makes her so special? Could it be that she’s actually NOT so Goddamn perfect in every way, shape, or form, but because there’s no other hot items in your “little black book”, you THINK she is?

Next, take stock of what YOU want. Are you playing the field, looking to bang everything with a pulse that looks good in a miniskirt and get laid left and right?

Or, is your goal to find that one special, beautiful, enjoyable, compatible hottie and make a lifetime (or at least a long time) of shared enjoyment and passion with her?

If the latter, this “taken” chick who (claims she) almost cheated on and/or left her “borefriend” for you….what’s to say, if she becomes your “g/f,” that someone else (most likely another of my students!) won’t be hearing the same song-and-dance about YOU?

Think carefully about what you’re doing here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Oftentimes I am asked to sum up Speed Seduction® in a nutshell. Well, It’s basically about two things.

First, knowing how to talk to women in suggestive ways that lead and excite their imaginations.

Second, and just as important, is knowing how to do that in a conversational framework that makes it all seem like a normal, natural conversation.

It’s the second part that I’d like to discuss with you now.

The 3-Deep Principle; Your Key To Massive Get Laid Success

As you know by now, one of the main techniques of Speed Seduction® is to describe the state or states we want a woman in.

Let’s stop for a sec for a pop quiz, to see if you understand this important point. Circle the right answer.

Describing states to a woman is important because:

(A) It distracts her attention from the fact that we are whacking off under the table.

(B) It shows her how clever and smart we are

(C) It gives her an intellectual understanding of the subject matter.

(D) There’s no difference between a powerful set of directions and a skillful description; describing puts HER in the state or states.

Ok. We all answered D, right?

Now that we are SURE you understand that principle, let me give you another one; when it comes to suggestions, commands, presuppositions or whatever else you are using, it’s extremely powerful and effective to “stack” them at least THREE levels deep.

See, what happens, for reasons I’m not even sure of, is once the mind accepts three examples, descriptions, suggestions, etc, all headed in the same direction, it just can’t resist. It accepts these as being its own, and therefore it tends to….

….Overpoweringly Act On Them!

Is that fair? Is it right to overwhelmingly mind-f@@k a woman in that way? Isn’t it enough to gently nudge a woman’s mind in the right direction…the most gentle, caring little push so that she naturally finds her way to us with a bare bones minimum of suggestion on our part?

Suuuuuure it is…and, hold on a sec while I take this call from the Easter Bunny!

Listen; I’m all for subtlety, but ya gotta use these tools powerfully…….you can be gentle later…when she’s gobbling your tube steak!

Sometime in the next few days, I am going to reveal an actual pattern that illustrates this principle. In the meantime, stay tuned for the fourth installment of Persuasion’s Forbidden Secrets.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A major theme that rears its ugly head in almost any discussion on seduction is the concern about looking “too eager” or approaching a woman with the vibe that how your day turns out depends on how she responds to you right now.

Act TOO eager and she’ll think you’re desperate and shoot you down. Act too aloof and she’ll think you hate her and she won’t go to bed with you, much less agree to meet you later in a more intimate setting. So it leaves you wondering…

… just where the h@ll is the “middle ground” here?

I just got a question from a student who poses this issue from a slightly different angle:

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Hi Ross, I have a question. If I am talking to a girl, I will be trying to get rapport with her. It seems however, that when I’m trying to get rapport with a chick, that she will detect this and then push me away. What do you think I should do in order to obtain rapport without looking like I am “hungry for rapport” if you know what I mean? You know what I mean? Without looking like I’m “trying to get in with her?”

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As Voltaire said, “If you are going to debate with me, first define your terms.”

So, what exactly do you mean by “rapport”…because I think your meaning is way off base.

I think YOU mean, “acceptance, welcoming, interest.” That you are trying to get her to show you all of these things. And that is NOT rapport at all, at least not a useful definition for Sarging.

There are plenty of useful definitions, but one I would aim at is,

“An unconscious sense of connection, trust, ease, a sense of being on a similar wavelength, a relaxed ease in each other’s presence.”

This is quite different from gaining acceptance or being welcomed into the person’s world. Just because she accepts your tubesteak into her wet, willing love canal doesn’t mean you’ve become a part of her existence.

Back in October, a student of mine got laid on the first “date” with a “super squirter chick.” He had a great time with her that night, but their next meeting (three days later) was a bust… in which he didn’t get to see… her bust.

Then, she “dried up” and flaked with a bull%$@t excuse the day before what was supposed to be their third meeting. When he used an anti-flake pattern to get her to speak her truth about the matter, she told him she enjoyed their night together but didn’t feel anything in common and saw no future with him.

When she told him this, he even agreed. During the times he was with her and they weren’t f@@king, it felt to him like he was working to make even basic conversation with her. She wasn’t the kind of woman who responded to who he is and what he gives to the world.

None of the elements of MY definition of “rapport” were in place for him with her. He chose to “exit, stage left” at this point and move on to women who were more receptive to his vibe.

In other words: despite all my student’s angst that whole week about whether she “accepted” him, it was a one-night stand. Period.

The irony is, if he had not worried so much about “building rapport” and becoming “part of her world” per se, and just focused on getting laid (since he had nothing else in common with her but the sex was awesome), he probably would have f@@ked her again… and again… and if that ran its course, possibly nailed one of her hottie friends next.

When deciding where any woman you meet fits in your world, first define your terms for approaching women and life.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A few days ago here on my blog, I tackled head-on one of the most common objections I hear about Speed Seduction®. That being, some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use after approaching a woman are so obvious that she’ll see through it, conclude he’s “just trying to get a piece of a##“, and turn him down flat.

I explained how several students of mine handle a woman’s resistance when she “calls him out” so confidently and expertly that, knowing he is “working it” using Seduction techniques actually helps his cause and gets him action.

After posting that to my blog, several people e-mailed me with some strong reactions. I could list them all, but they all really boil down to one question …

… So It’s Really That Easy, Eh Ross?

Listen: Speed Seduction® is much more than a collection of “magic phrases” and techniques that guys can use to get laid.

A crucial component of my teaching helps men determine quickly which women are, for lack of a better word, Sargeable. It’s called Speed Seduction® not because it helps guys get laid quickly, but because it helps the smart man quickly discern whether a woman is interested in him.

He will proceed with his Sarge only when he determines she is likely to receive what he has to offer. He will also “exit, stage left” the instant he determines he doesn’t have much chance of success with her and move on to women who are more ready for him. My system helps men get more of what they want by helping them recognize where they are most likely to find it.

I teach my students how to use the feedback a woman gives him to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to them, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure.

But being a Speed Seduction® master who claims his results and success with women takes a lot more than knowing HOW to approach a woman and make her feel attracted to him.

All of what I just described is part of what we call the “Outer Game.” To score the touchdowns, make the goals, and hit the grand slams, you must …

… Powerfully Master Your “Inner Game.”

My students are able to master the resistance put up by women who “call them out” because they gain a sure way to learn from every seduction situation. They develop a “stealth charisma” that is so subtly attractive, completely undetectable and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone, that it creates its own attraction force.

It’s not that these women knew they were being Sarged on and thought it was cute, per se. It’s the “vibe” my students put out that lets women know they are in the presence of a confident, strong man who is true to who he is and what he gives to the world.

Because my students have calibrated their “inner game” to support and foster their “outer game,” they are able to easily turn almost any situation, including being “called out” for Sarging, to their advantage. When this happens, my students experience success and pleasure with women they desire. The women also experience success and pleasure. The world is a happier place as a result. Sounds like a win-win-win to me!

When you go through life with an “inner game” optimized for girl-getting success, you still won’t get everything you want every single time. However, by maintaining and honing that mindset, you will get what you want a far greater percentage of the time.

And that, to me, sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We’re just six days away from my very first “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” to be held Sunday, October 25. In what is the first of (hopefully) many of these, I’ll spend four power-packed hours learning the latest seduction/pick-up/personal change breakthroughs. It is a small group and a few lucky participants will even get to work with me one-on-one, on stage! We have a few spots left.

The reason I am so excited about this event is because nothing brings me greater joy than TEACHING and working directly with you to help you succeed with the women you truly desire. I wasn’t planning on sending out a “Steaming Hot Seduction Secret” today but when I saw this in my Inbox, I couldn’t help myself. Here goes:

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Hey Ross, the weirdest thing happened to me Thursday night! I had a date with a woman I had seen previously. I use the word “date” because I remembered what you said on the Coaching Call about the differences between women you have not slept with yet and those you have. Anyway, that date went okay, but the evening ended early. For various reasons she just wasn’t in the mood. She offered a raincheck, so we agreed on a specific date and time and I and went home. I was frustrated and disappointed.

I got home….and on a lark, I called a woman I had met a couple months ago, but nothing had happened. She answered, and said “come pick me up.” Having been “shut out” just an hour earlier … I was back on the field! So we came back to my place. One minute we’re talking, and the next thing you know we’re having an incredible make-out session in my bed that lasted till 4 am!

On the one hand I feel like a girl-getting God – one date didn’t work out so I met up with another woman. I was in my zone and not ready to be benched. On the other hand…..HOLY F@@@!!!!!!

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Let me correct you. It’s not “the weirdest thing” – it’s part of who you are and what you do when you become a powerful Speed Seduction® Master. Good on you, brother!

Now…STOP. Your next step is to understand what happened with both of these women.

With the first, you got out of a situation that “wasn’t happening” and kept the door open for next time by confirming a specific next meeting. You’ve seen her more than once, so you’ve been paying attention to her patterns in her behavior and starting to see trends. As you continue to see her, pay attention to how she approaches you. In Speed Seduction® you use the material she gives you and apply my teachings so that both of you can enjoy pleasure and passion together. This experience will be great for you no matter what ultimately happens with her.

With the second, you say “one minute we’re talking, and the next thing you know…” Think back to what happened in that “one minute.” Whatever happened in that “one minute” is your takeaway that will serve you over and over again.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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