Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
When you no longer need a guarantee before you take a bold step forward and approach a woman, “make your move”, or what have you, some amazing things can totally open up:
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
I often get asked, in e-mails I get from students as well as during live appearances on video chats and in-person seminars, what are some of the best pick-up lines for guys to use on chicks.
Let me begin by stating: I don’t teach “pick-up lines.” Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training (MITs) use conversational patterns.
So let’s ask: what IS a “pattern”?
A “pattern” is much more than memorized “lines” or even complete “speeches”. It includes a more broad variety of actions/methods/techniques designed to engage the woman, capture her vibe, and appeal to what drives her…wild.
I know you want to see some pattern language in action. So before we go any further, watch this short video clip of me working a hot Brazilian chick at one of my live seminars into an erotic trance. (My apologies in advance, this clip is low-quality, but you’ll still be able to hear and see what’s happening.)
More importantly: the right question can be a “pattern”.
A “pattern” is any communication that captures and leads a woman’s imagination and stimulates her emotions in the right direction.
Which of the following, for example, is a “pattern”:
1. What do you do for a living?
2. What do you find most challenging about what you do, and what do you find most fulfilling about what you do?
Do you get my point here?
Here’s another example:
1. Where was the last place you went on vacation?
2. If you could go somewhere where money and time were no object, where would you go, and what kind of….things…would you like to try?
Here’s a fun assignment: come up with a typical question women get asked by Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) guys. Then take a stab at coming up with a Speed Seduction® version of the same question that actually would stimulate her emotions and imagination in a useful direction. Post them here on the blog!
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Success with women involves creating irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure. Click here to find the “mother lode” of conversational patterns…
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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
I’ve heard the objection many times. Some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use when getting a woman irresistibly aroused are so obvious that chances are, the guy will get “busted” and “shot down.”
Like, the use of emphasis and nonverbal cues that I teach you to use while saying “it’s on” and “below me” for example. Today I was asked this question by a student:
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Many of your methods are so “obvious” that chicks can tell what a guy is doing, so he “gets caught” and she has a negative reaction.
For example, your method of stacking realities with quotes of alluring sexual content — she KNOWS what I’m doing and why I’m saying it, so she doesn’t buy into it when I do the “weasel phrases” or position it as something “someone else” saw or read someplace. No, she blames me for being a pervert.
How can I calibrate the interaction so I know if I will get a negative reaction? Can I counter-object and “save the Sarge”?
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I’ll let two of my students answer this one.
At my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, we discussed this question and one of my students said something I couldn’t argue about.
When the woman noticed his innuendo and asked what he was up to, with a friendly smile he matter-of-factly told her, “Right! It’s called ‘flirting’ and it’s what a man does when he meets a woman he’s into.” (Note how even in his retort, he plants a suggestion.)
The woman who “caught him” shrugged and said with a little grin, “Oh ok…I was just asking.” By staying true to who he is and what he gives to the world, this student was able to resume the Sarge without skipping a beat.
During a conversation with a sexy woman about reality TV shows on getting women, another student mentioned my name as a leading pick-up artist. The woman said, “Oh, I know who Ross Jeffries is. Do you actually DO that stuff? Waaaaait a minnnute … you DO do that stuff! I can TELL!”
My student’s response: “As someone who knows what they want when they see it in front of them, doesn’t it make sense to get more of what you want? If I wanted a woman who is perfect for me and vice versa, wouldn’t I be doing both of us a favor by learning all there is to know about making you happy?”
She agreed and dropped the subject.
No, actually, she asked about Speed Seduction® again.
At 3:00 AM, with a dreamy grin on her face, after a steaming-hot two-hour makeout session with the guy, is when she asked.
Don’t let little objections get in your way. Counter them with truth and integrity and use my teaching to claim more of who you want in your life (and in your bed).
Peace and piece,
- RJ
P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation - even when she catches you in the act!
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