Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I need to make the following crystal clear: Speed Seduction® gets you more success with more of the women you truly desire, more of the time…

…without having to get sucked into the mastur-waiting game or resort to the 5 Bs’ (bullying, buying, begging, BS, and booze – as well as #6, biceps).

A student of mine, while explaining how he bedded a woman using specific techniques he picked up by spending an hour in the Secret Training Collection, then added the qualifier “she’s sort of thick and a little chubby in the belly area…but I like that on her.”  As if to defend himself for having invited a thick chick for a ride on his baloney pony.

I only had one issue with this: he felt the need to defend his choice.  (Yet another example of how social programming and the “media” with their false “ideals” are brainwashing smart men right out of their power of choice with women.)  Turns out, he has a thing for big, tall, thick women.  Bonus if she has long, curly black hair.

Let me say it again: more success with more of the women YOU truly desire, more of the time. 

Instead of a life by default, an existence where “getting lucky” is an event rather than part of who you are and what you do, now YOU claim YOUR choice with the women you find most attractive, according to YOUR preferences.  No more settling for whomever gives you the time of day, if you’re “lucky.”

You Can Have The Kind Of Woman You Want, When You Create The Motivation To Respond

How do you initially hook in and grab the attention in a way where more of the kind of women you want become OPEN to “seduction oriented” patterns, suggestions, etc?

This is from an email discussion I had not too long ago with a friend.  First of all, it isn’t so sequentially cut and dried. I always do everything, all the time, while also being aware of what I need to do in sequence.

Here is what I’ve found works to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond.  This may work for you as well.

A woman can hook into:

1) Analogs: she may like your tone of voice, tempo of speaking, body language.

2) “Vibe”: for lack of a better term. Some women pick up on “energy” and are attracted, unconsciously, before they are even aware of it consciously. It filters up or percolates up once you start talking to them. You may do this by ritually preparing and “programming” this with what are known as sigils.

3) The format: some women love games and quizzes. Suggestions put through that format work and get responses whereas in other formats: like questions or direct demos of trance, they don’t.

4) Some women hook into touch: You may have to TOUCH them to open them up to more.

5) Sometimes they may hook into you not caring that they are not hooking in! Not exactly a Mystery Method “freeze-out”.  just a sense that you don’t care that they don’t care.

Now, this is just Part 1.  Yes, there’s more.  I know, I’m such a tease some days.  Meet me back here in 24 hours and we’ll explore 7 more.

In the meantime, remember: her looks, her personality, her essence, all of that is HB10 based on how YOU define it.  Go for the kind of woman YOU want, for YOUR reasons.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  I want to point out that the 120+ video trainings in the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection are tightly focused, presented in a linear fashion (usually with PowerPoint highlights), and organized by subjects students like YOU told me you want, need and demand to know!  Click here to get instant, 24/7 access, right now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Wouldn’t you like to have a “stealth charisma” that’s subtly attractive (regardless of how “good looking” you are), completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone? Especially women who you’re worried might think you’re ugly?

It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now with the success you’ve always wanted. All of this (and much more) are in my Nail Your Inner Game course.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In my direct teaching work with students, a question that frequently comes up is from a smart guy who wonders if he let a “sure thing” just walk away. He’ll encounter a smoking-hot, sweet-smelling hottie, some things will happen like snuggling, making out, etc. He knows he could probably score a home run if he took his best swing at bat, but for whatever reason, he walks.

This thought-provoking e-mail is a case in point:

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Ross, I’m wondering if I missed an opportunity to get laid!

The other day I was flying home from Las Vegas. Normally when I fly I like to read a book, take a nap, and be alone, but my seatmate, Felicia, was really cute and open. She’s from Phoenix and married. I ran some patterns and did some anchoring by touching her arm and face, which she seemed to enjoy. After while she wanted to nap. She tried to get comfortable but kept stirring. So I nudged her and said “Felicia….” as I lifted up the arm rest and moved her close so she could cuddle with me while she napped. I held her close and enjoyed her perfume and her warm body next to me.

After the flight, before I left her at baggage claim, I thanked her for the best plane ride EVER, hugged and kissed her, and handed her my card and said “If I can ever be of service you….be well, Felicia” and walked away from her without another word. Part of it was because her in-laws were picking her up and I didn’t want a scene, but I enjoyed the ability to Sarge, then walk away from a scenario that I know isn’t worth my time.

I wanted to leave her with the memory of the plane ride and let HER wonder about ME, knowing she holds the key to me if she chooses to turn it. On the other hand, I am wondering if I missed out and I should have “gone for it” anyway. Did I let it walk away?

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You’re right – you won’t hear from her again – but that’s not the point. You were able to Sarge and have an enjoyable experience with a sweet-smelling hottie who was open and willing.

Okay, you didn’t get laid. Sounds like you didn’t try. And if she’s “petting the kitty” thinking about you and the plane ride now, that’s not the same as you doing it for her. But I’ll wager it felt good having her snuggling up to you, didn’t it? I bet every guy on the airplane who saw you wished he was a “stud” like you.

Remember: when you practice Speed Seduction® in your pursuit of the women you desire, it’s not about succeeding with the woman you are Sarging on right now. It’s about honing and mastering your skills to claim your results on your next 10 Sarges. If you ask me, you should have kissed her and made out with her, but you didn’t. This experience prepared you for next time this happens – and in your pursuit of girl-getting mastery, it WILL.

So again, you didn’t poke her, but you know THIS plane ride sure beat a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation who claims his results and gets the women he wants.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You’ve heard the saying “beauty is only skin deep.” The same applies to seduction too. There’s much more to it, or else themes, patterning, and other arousal techniques would not be necessary.

Many smart guys like you report to me that they’ve been bored to tears by goddesses-on-legs – she was unbelievably hot, yet the guy just couldn’t tap into her. I’ve also had students use phrases like “looks-wise she’s about a 7, and she’s sort of chubby – but in a way I think is really hot … and oh man, is she fun to f@@k and hang out with!”

The reason I bring it up is because of this note I received the other day:

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I have a great attitude and have success in meeting lots of women. I am fit and fairly good looking, but my success comes strictly from attitude. I smile and hold in my attitude that I am happy, and women pick up on it. It must be working as some of the “5s” and “6s” get blunt and tell ME I would do them a favor by scratching their “itch”. I started slowly over a 5-year period to get where I am today. Started with “3s” and “4s” and worked my way up to “10s.”

These “hot” women want more than just a few hops in the sack, and almost act like they want me exclusively. I get them in the moment, and instead of being grateful for a great evening, want MORE.

I have more fun with “7s” and “8s” as I find the hot “10″ women are merely beautiful on the outside. Maybe in California this is common, but it’s not here on the East Coast. I am hoping to get a better idea of why my situation seems to warp the hotties and works better on their lesser sisters.

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Recently on my blog, I’ve covered the topics of screening and categorization of the women you meet and Sarge on, as you sort through the hordes of hotties waiting for you to succeed with the women YOU really desire.

Being a Speed Seduction® master means that you create a world where success with women is who you are and what you do. For reasons unique to your experiences, there are certain kinds of women (looks, personality, and other factors) that uniquely appeal to you. Could it be that these “7s” and “8s” are really the “10s” who will consistently rock your world?

Remember that with Speed Seduction® you use the information, vibe, and feedback she gives you to craft your patterning and banter to connect YOU with her erotic desires, wants and needs. So, as you Sarge on more “10s”, pay closer attention to the information they give you, as this will help you warp fewer of them and succeed with more of them.

And more success with hotter women sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. It sounds to me like you need to first and foremost spot everything and anything you’ve done right in every situation, so you develop an intelligent and informed motivation – not ignoring what needs to be fixed when it comes to scoring with hotties, but first and foremost seeing what you are doing well with women.

In my Nail Your Inner Game System, I give you a simple 20 minute process you’ll use, at the end of every Sarge, successful, screwed up, or those “in-between” ones that you really can’t quite figure out! This process will have you turning around even the most difficult Sarges and, get you back in the field doing things right, with easy, effortless confidence!

Claim yours now!

This is part II-please leave your comments below and share!

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

In this first of 4 parts, I describe how to use “focusing commands” to create a sense of flow in the sexual feelings you create in women.

Note a few finer points:

1. Just because a woman has a sexual feeling doesn’t mean it is strong enough for her to act on it.

2. Feelings that have movement are what gets her in motion-right into her bed.

3. When I start using these, I put them in quotes.

Please give me your comments below, and note also that if you want to skip to my absolute best and most complete course, with tons of this stuff, go check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Please feel free to share this video by embedding it in your own blog, Facebook, etc. You have my permission. Let’s spread the word.

P.P.S. Give me some examples in the comments section of your own “focusing commands” and I’ll pick the best response to win a free set of my new product, “Best Of RJ Coaching, Volume 1″.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course is the crucial importance of screening women.

When you demonstrate to a woman that you are willing to screen her out –that you have standards that go beyond simply her being hot looking-you convey that you have options, and you set the frame that she is the one who has to win over you.

Believe me, this kind of psychological “ju-jitsu” is profoundly powerful.  It breaks the pattern for hot women who are used to being chased, sought after, courted, wined-and-dined, etc etc.

(I’m sure you’ve tried this stupid game before.  It never works, does it? The Hollywood writers who keep spreading this crap should have their withered testicles removed with nail clippers.)

Screening her  also gives her something to live up to, requiring her to be “on her toes” with how she treats you, the way she acts around you, and the priority she gives to pleasing you.

Now let’s be very intelligent and clear about this: if you’ve gone a long time without deep success with women, it can be very difficult to be  actually be willing to walk away from any woman, much less a smoking hot one who is actually showing some interest in you. The emotional pain that can often go along with not succeeding with women can be intense and it can really cloud your mind and twist your judgment and your actions.

In my Nail Your Inner Game Program, I teach some fantastic methods to  manage your emotions and thinking, allowing you to easily take on these new ways of thinking and acting, without struggle,  despite whatever may have been your history with women.

Imagine that; actually being willing to walk from a hot woman, and having that willingness pull her back to you like a magnet.

It’s all waiting for you in my NYIG program here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  I’m serious when I say that the issue of taking on new ways of thinking and acting is key.  You need to be able to do this without your old “history” blocking and holding you back. I’ve got the answers here.