How To Approach Women: Will “Cocky” And “Funny” Work Every Time? Or At All?
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time.
Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge. Are cocky and funny good attitudes to exude toward women when you’re Sarging? Or, will a friendly and warm approach work better? Can you mix the two?
Well, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: postulating that ONE approach ALWAYS works is just silly.
Being cocky and funny the whole time is like trying to drive your car around in one gear. You have to be able to shift gears as the conditions warrant, or you’ll strip your gears. When that happens, you won’t be able to move forward.
So with that being said, why just have one approach?
A good approach toward women can start from any one of four basic positions, and move rapidly in between, back and forth, amongst the others.
You can start from ANY of these:
- The put on: saying something funny, designed to make her laugh
- Comment, question, observation
- The blurt-out, where you just say whatever is crossing your mind or whatever you are experiencing seeing her in that moment
- Genuine intuition
The best approaches combine 2 of these or start with one and move rapidly to the other.
As for being “cocky and funny”; many guys are quite capable of it, but you need to know when to drop it and rapidly display other aspects of yourself, unless you want to come off as a joke machine or an insult comic.
It’s one thing to approach life with a smile. It’s another to approach people with a sneer. Sneering shows some serious insecurities, doesn’t it?
The larger point is this: calibrate to the person(s) in front of you and notice what response(s) you get.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Having the skills and confidence to approach and stimulate any woman’s subconscious sexual triggers using your words is one of the best skills in the world to have because it will give you complete seduction mastery even over the choosiest women. So you won’t have to just rely on making her laugh. For more great teaching on this (and many other) topics, click here now.
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