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Video: How To Quickly Create Arousal Using Suggestions And Commands

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 28th, 2009
 Video: How To Quickly Create Arousal Using Suggestions And Commands

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I love showing off the teaching I do for my exclusive coaching club members.

This video is from this month’s Instructional Video series, and it’s about creating arousal and connection in minutes.

Please tell me below what you’ve learned, and remember your comments are welcomed.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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Part II: How To Use Speed Seduction(R) Language To Sexually Arouse Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 23rd, 2009
 Part II: How To Use Speed Seduction(R) Language To Sexually Arouse Women

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Now that we’ve got the good feelings going, in part 2 I show you how to create flow in the feelings using “focus” commands.

Notice one of my favorite weasel phrases, “It doesn’t matter”.  I love that phrase. Those three words can get you laid more than a kilo of coke and ten million bucks.

Please comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

Posted by Ross Jeffries on September 16th, 2009
 How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I think you are really going to enjoy the next few videos I’ll be posting.

This bit of video was shot live at my London 2009 seminar, which we did a few weeks ago. In it, I use principles of erotic touch on this lovely Swedish girl.

Enjoy, and please:

1. Comment below

2. Feel free to embed on your blog, website or social media.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Whattaya Mean You’re Going To Miss My London Seminar, You EuroTrash Dick Scum??

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 5th, 2009
 Whattaya Mean Youre Going To Miss My London Seminar, You EuroTrash Dick Scum??

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Holy crap.

I’ve gotten some emails from some of you Euro-Trash telling me that you are not going to attend my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar, Aug 21, 22, 23.

Even though it is almost certainly the last time I’ll be in Europe until 2010, and even though I’ve re-tooled and updated Speed Seduction(R) so that you can handle clubs, bars and “group game”, some of you guys are still saying that you want to wait.

Ok. There’s no arguing with bad decisions.

But for those of you who powerfully now want to share my latest and deepest insights-to join me as we peer deep down into the emotional matrix and neurological code that runs the female psyche-I want you to get your asses there!

To whet your appetite, here are some clips of past seminars.

These first two clips show the power of the NLP personal change work I do at these events. Speaking to you as someone who is deeply committed to personal change and massive success with women, I’m sure you can agree that having my change-work skills at your beck and call is a powerful motivator to attend this seminar. And that no one else in the seduction community even pretends to come close to these skills that you want to have at your service and command.

This is a powerful statement, and yet a picture speaks a thousand words, and a video speaks like ten thousand pictures. So check out these;

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You’ll note in this first video, which was from my London 2007 seminar, how totally incoherent and even “spaz-like” Garrett was.  He reported that people just couldn’t stand to be around him, and with his hyper-active personality, spewing nonsense, you can probably see why.

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Now notice the incredible change in Garrett. It’s like he’s a different person. Notice how in control he is of his pacing, his posture, his gestures, everything. This took about 7 minutes to do.  Also listen again to how it has freed him up as a person in multiple contexts. What would it be like to have me work like that with you?

Screw Personal Change Ross, I Just Want To Know What To Say To Chicks  Get Laid Like I Had A Fist-full Of Pardons In A Women’s Prison

Right on, Buckwheat. I can appreciate that aim. So here are a few peeks from teachings at past seminars where I go into how to use sexual languaging to get ‘em hot, get ‘em steaming, and get’em riding your bonedaddy in minutes!

This first video is all about how to ask the right kinds of questions to get women thinking in that “new direction” and then how to give a suggestion that keeps her looping on those sexual thoughts and feelings.

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Pretty cool, huh? Here’s another good one. It’s about using jokes, stories and metaphors to trigger her socially programmed romantic memes to get her locked into you sexually:

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What Cootch Catching Secrets Have I Recently Created In My Seduction Lab?

Now listen: I’ve been feverishly  working in my “seduction lab” since I broke up with my Swedish girlfriend about 6 weeks ago. And I’ve come up with some hot new stuff that revolves around doing group game. This is really fantastic stuff and you have to see it.(Hint: you won’t need a top hat, eye-makeup, and 10 inch platform shoes to pull this off!)

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Look guys: I founded this whole thing 20 years ago. I don’t care if you’ve never been to anyone’s even before, have seen other “gurus” or are a returning student of mine. You owe it to yourself to get this area of your life not only handled, but joyously mastered.  Come learn the emotional matrix and neurological machine language of women, and master the game beyond your wildest dreams. Click here to find out more.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I give you 100% total  permission to embed any and all of these videos in your blog, Facebook, or other social media.

P.P.S. I am on fire to teach. Being single again has kicked my seduction mind(and skill) into over-drive. Come learn what I now know. Click here to find out more or claim your seat!

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Like A Seduction Race Horse With His Little Blinders On

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 28th, 2009
 Like A Seduction Race Horse With His Little Blinders On

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

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From Average Frustrated Chump To Amazing Fascinating Champ: How To Move From Wimp To Winner With Women

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 18th, 2009
 From Average Frustrated Chump To Amazing Fascinating Champ: How To Move From Wimp To Winner With Women

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, a student of mine asked me what to do when dealing with women who knew him before he became a Speed Seduction® Master.  In other words, back when he was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) who got in his own way when it came to succeeding with women.

fotolia 818970 small From Average Frustrated Chump To Amazing Fascinating Champ: How To Move From Wimp To Winner With WomenNow that he’s speaking to them in ways that capture and excite their deepest emotions, aren’t they going to feel strange when they compare it to how he used to act with them? How they used to feel around him?

I immediately asked him,

“If you suddenly won the Euro Lottery and went from having no money
to having $500 million, would you worry about how other people adjusted to it?
Would they have a problem adjusting to it?”

I don’t think so.

In the same vein, how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. Do this, and that hot chick from college who shot you down as an Average Frustrated Chump will quickly learn to see you as an Amazing Fascinating Champ.

I’ve been both. And I can tell you Amazing Fascinating Champ feels a whole hell of a lot better.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Remember, it’s not about who you were then.  It’s about who you design yourself to be right now. All of this is completely under your control. Find out how here.



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Pick Up Lines/How To Meet Women Mastery: “She Stopped Dead In Her Tracks When I Threw Her This Line!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 16th, 2009
 Pick Up Lines/How To Meet Women Mastery: She Stopped Dead In Her Tracks When I Threw Her This Line!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.

Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction.  Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.

Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction.  It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.

In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”.  How boring that would have been

And that’s what happened. She stopped.  Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”

“No, “ I said.  “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”

(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)

She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”

Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.

So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks.  Besides, boyfriends are like colds.  You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “

She laughed again, this time harder.  “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.

Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.

And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.

You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of  cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.

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Video 9: Forget Pick Up Lines, Use The Blurt Out!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 9th, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

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Use This NLP Training To Meet Women: Comment, Question, Observation

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 6th, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video-number 8 of my 10 part Beyond Dating Tips/Advice To Men Mastery Series-I teach you how to use an NLP principle to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

I like the comment/question/observation method because it pretty much self-generates what you say to open, unique to the situation in which you find yourself.

Please give it a good watching and comment either below, or on Youtube.  Once again, the title is NLP Training: The Comment, Question, Observation Tactic.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. My Gold Walk Up DVD covers all of this and more, in detail. Find it here.

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Meet Women With This Direct, Can’t-Miss Opener

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 2nd, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Sometimes, the best approach with women is the direct approach.  And sometimes, when you run out of things to say, you need a “fall back” line that just doesn’t fail.

In this video, I reveal that line.  It speaks the truth in a simple, direct, non-threatening and honest way that usually has a very strongly positive impact.

Why?

Well, when most men go to meet women, they try to hide their intent, or they bludgeon women with that intent.

As an example of the latter, my Swedish sweetie, Pernilla, got hit on a lot when she was out here in LA, and the guys almost always just ran up to her and asked her out, without any introductory conversation at all.

Talk about clueless.

But I really like this opener because it comes across as something other than a pick up line.  And remember, pick up lines usually don’t work because they are predictable, trite, boring or even offensive.

But this one really rocks it. You will successfully meet women with this direct, can’t miss opener.

Please watch, and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Enrollment is now open for my London Seminar, this August. Details are here.

P.P.S. For those of you who want to know if I teach “direct game” well, here is your answer.

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