Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

F@@k it to hell and back again, once more.

So many of you have been demanding more specific teaching on the concept of pick-up as an act of profound personal rebellion, I am scheduling a live video event on New Years Day (Sunday, January 1) at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

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Here is the scoop…

To “sweeten the pot” I am throwing in another opportunity that will be available ONLY to those who register for this live broadcast – and no one else.

Everyone who registers for this live video broadcast receives it – you’ll find it explained in an e-mail you get once you sign up.

Get ready. Because it all goes down on… Sunday, January 1 at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

Just click here and then enter your name and e-mail in the form on the right hand side to lock in your spot on the live broadcast:

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Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A major impediment to success in any endeavor – career advancement, building a successful business, becoming a star athlete, discovering a breakthrough in science or medicine, getting the results you want with the hot, succulent, attractive-in-every-way women you’ve always wanted but up until now have not mastered – is in how you look at it.

Students ask me, how can they absorb all the information they need to succeed?  What’s the right way to “study?”

That’s the problem – right there.

We’re not cramming to pass the final exam here.

That’s the wrong metaphor. 

You can’t absorb what you would best aim at having, which is not “information” but SKILL.

Look at it like this:

There’s really no “information” that will, in and of itself, solve your challenges. There IS “potential information” that becomes real when you apply it as SKILL in the real world, through your ongoing PRACTICE and EXPERIMENT with real women in the real world.

You are aiming at the wrong thing. Again, the metaphor sucks. And the one feeds the other.

Repeat after me: F@@K information. I claim my skills.

F@@K absorbing. EMBRACE practicing.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A great way to teach you how to succeed with women is to let you see how it works in real-time.  A student of mine asked me to critique a recent supermarket pickup he did.  Watch and learn:

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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time.

Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge.  Are cocky and funny good attitudes to exude toward women when you’re Sarging? Or, will a friendly and warm approach work better?  Can you mix the two?

Well, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: postulating that ONE approach ALWAYS works is just silly.

Being cocky and funny the whole time is like trying to drive your car around in one gear. You have to be able to shift gears as the conditions warrant, or you’ll strip your gears.  When that happens, you won’t be able to move forward.

So with that being said, why just have one approach?

A good approach toward women can start from any one of four basic positions, and move rapidly in between, back and forth, amongst the others.

You can start from ANY of these:

1. The put on: saying something funny, designed to make her laugh
2. Comment, question, observation
3. The blurt-out, where you just say whatever is crossing your mind or whatever you are experiencing seeing her in that moment
4. Genuine intuition

The best approaches combine 2 of these or start with one and move rapidly to the other.

As for being “cocky and funny”; many guys are quite capable of it, but you need to know when to drop it and rapidly display other aspects of yourself, unless you want to come off as a joke machine or an insult comic.

It’s one thing to approach life with a smile. It’s another to approach people with a sneer. Sneering shows some serious insecurities, doesn’t it?

The larger point is this: calibrate to the person(s) in front of you and notice what response(s) you get.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Has anyone ever offered to “hook you up” with a friend of theirs? Have you ever asked someone to do this for you?

A student of mine’s cousin (let’s call her Bianca) wanted to “hook him up” with a “cute” co-worker of hers (we’ll call her… you guessed it… Debbie).  Bianca’s idea was this: “You and a couple of your friends come out and hang out with us one night, and you and Debbie can meet.”

Internally he knew that whole scene would zap his Sargy energy.  He’d be in a situational disadvantage with Debbie, since she’d feel under the microscope and would be putting up extra resistance.  In declining the offer, he told his cousin Bianca “I would not be comfortable in this scenario and this is just not how I meet women.  I won’t put Debbie in this situation either.”

Bianca snorted and said, “Gee, too bad, how the hell do you expect to find a girlfriend?  Your loss.” But the way Bianca wanted to “hook him up” with Debbie was uncomfortable for him.

So if my student knew who Debbie was and thought she was hot and might be worth a shot, what would be a better way than having Bianca explicitly “hook him up” with her?  What could YOU do?

I would actually say that you have to add some value to their lives if you expect them to add value to yours (eg, intro you to chicks).

For example, let’s say you are friendly with the woman who sits next to you at work, and she is pretty damn hot.

Treat her like a friend, because you like her as a person, genuinely. She’s a good person and you are friendly and are cool with and to each other.

You likely won’t move it past that if you “don’t shit where you eat.”  Yet you know she has cool, HOT female friends (you’ve seen her Facebook page) and sooner or later she might introduce you around to her social circle as a genuinely cool guy, if you know her well enough to pal around at the Friday after-work happy hour.

So, what value are YOU providing to this female friend?

Don’t expect her to “hook you up” but rather aim at having her introduce you/include you in her social circle.

And treat their social circle like a National Park. You don’t go into Yellowstone and shoot the deer, dump beer cans in the river, piss on the trees, etc. etc.

Treat her friends well, don’t piss in the pool or you won’t be invited back.

Do it right, and her friends will talk about how great you are in bed and you’ll be in hot demand. Rather than be greedy when that happens, actually REFRAIN from doing all the deeds you will indeedy do be doing.

Get it?

You can be strong, hot, challenging, fun, outrageous and STILL respect the vaginal environment. Play responsibly. Replace and replenish as you go.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Once you meet her friends, it isn’t just suggestive language that will get them joining you on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle  – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation! Learn how this is done in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever asked a woman out, to have her say “Sure, I’ll go with you, as friends”?

For those of you who, despite my thoughts on this subject, meet women on “dating” sites, have you ever messaged a woman for the very first time, only to have her respond (without any conversation with you): “I’ll let you know upfront that I’m not interested, but we can talk as friends.”

Recently, a student of mine asked a woman, “I have two tickets to the game this weekend. If I were to ask you to be my date, what would your response be?” Her response, “I would accept, just as friends though.”

Wha…wha…WHAT?  Huh?  Run that by me again?

So how did this potential ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle turn into a “friendly” “date”?

What did she mean when she said “… just as friends?”

It all starts with that word… the “D” word… date.

As Speed Seducers, don’t we want to AVOID all the “dating” terminology and thought patterns? All the auto-pilot responses that “dating” triggers in her mind?

Rather than ask what she “means” I would ask: what process did it trigger in her? What autopilot ways of thinking went off in her head in response to “date”?

Probably she thought, “Oh oh…date means he EXPECTS I’ll f@@k him. Well, I WANT to f@@k him, I HOPE I f@@k him, but I don’t want to feel PRESSURED to f@@k him. Am I really ready to f@@k ANYONE? Jeremy hurt me so bad last time. Why are men such jerks? I wonder what Tanya will think…I should text her right now and get HER opinion. Oh wait a minute, she just went to visit her boyfriend in rehab after he beat her up and got arrested by the cops. That cop who is always at Starbucks in the morning is hot. I bet he f@@ks good. Dad said never to date a cop, I bet it would be fun…”

Etc etc etc.

Do you get my point?

Stop playing dumb and stop being afraid to take a bold step forward. Breathe into the image of you who GETS IT and DOES IT.

And then DO IT.

With her.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s an actual “pick up sequence” that you can take to the car wash.

Use this on that dripping wet (in more ways than one) hottie and you’ll get more than just your hubcaps polished.  You’ll get more than just your dashboard Armor-All-ed.  You’ll get more than just your bumpers waxed.  You’ll get more than your tailpipe…ok…you get it.

Watch how this worked for a student of mine, using 3 out of the 4 energetic vibes & attitudes that turn women on.

After dropping off his car and paying the cashier, he sat down in front of her, in the waiting area. She was removing one of her shoes to scratch her foot.  The shoe was one of those gold-spangled slipper type things.

Looking over his shoulder, he said, “Cute shoe”.

She said, “it’s comfy”.

He said, “Cute and Comfy. Those are the names of my cats”.

She laughed.

(Do you see what he is doing here? He went from making a comment to being funny.)

He said,  “Ok. That was probably the 5th dumbest thing I’ve said to meet a cute girl all week. The dumbest was probably, “Where did you get that magazine?” and we were standing in a bookstore.”

She laughed again and said, “It wasn’t that bad!”

Now, notice what he is doing here. He is using an IMPLIED compliment. He didn’t tell her directly that he thought she was cute.

No, he said that what he said to her was one of the dumbest things he’d said to meet a cute girl.

He IMPLIED it, rather than directly stated it. Remember, what you IMPLY has to be processed by the woman’s imagination, and therefore she will perceive it as her own thought, rather than something you are trying to impose on her. Knowing when to imply and when to directly state something  is a very powerful skill set indeed!

Him, “No, seriously, my flirt-powers have gone to shit. It must be the holidays!”

Her, “I think you are doing fine!”

Him, “Ah, guys’ll say anything. Our need to procreate doesn’t always get a good message to the brain.”

Now, what is he doing here, guys?

He’s actually disarming her by appearing to stumble over himself. This makes him appear vulnerable, genuine and sincere, rather than a polished pick-up artist! Remember, women want to be intrigued by you, but they also want to feel safe!

Her, “What’s your name?”

Notice she shows her interest by asking his name first! So they exchanged names and handshakes.

At this point, however, she was still sitting behind him and he had to change that. He wanted her sitting beside him to build the connection.

Looking at her kind of cock-eyed he said, “You know, your piri-spinal muscles are laterally asymmetrical”

She looked puzzled. “What does that mean?”

He said, “Stand up and come over here” in a fairly commanding tone.  She did exactly that.

“Turn around,” he said.

Then he put his hands on her hips. “One hip is a little higher than another. So when you Salsa (then he started moving her hips around like she was dancing and she got with it and start moving too!) make sure you keep this hip even with this one.”

Then he took her hand and sat her down in the chair next to him.

Now, this stuff about her muscles and hips was nonsense. But because she couldn’t figure out if he was complimenting her or criticizing her, she had to get curious and co-operate further!

“Wow,” he said. “I think my flirt powers just started working.”

At this point, she got very curious about him, started peppering him with questions, etc. etc, so he simply said, “you know, I can tell we will enjoy talking to each other a lot more somewhere, some other time…so if you aren’t seeing anyone right now, maybe we can hang out and talk.”

Note what he did here is to future pace enjoying being around him another time.

At that point she offered her number, without his having to ask, and he gave her his as well.

Note that in this less than 10 minute conversation he built comfort, curiosity, intrigue and some connection. Note that he went back and forth from being self-effacing, to being funny, to being a little puzzling, to being commanding.

When you can learn to alternate and offer these different vibes and aspects of yourself to a woman, it really ups your success!  Note that once he saw she had sufficient curiosity and interest, he did NOT ask her out. He simply told her what he could imagine (therefore directing HER to imagine it) and she went right along by offering her number to him without his having to ask.

Remember, when you just ask for a number, you put yourself into the category as all the other guys who are trying to get into her pants. If instead you create the curiosity, comfort, intrigue and connection and then describe what you can imagine, she will go right along and offer her number as part of the continuation of the connection she is feeling and wants to continue to enjoy.

Ok. Hope you learned from and enjoyed this example pick-up.

Piece and peace,
RJ

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P.P.S. Be careful when first meeting a woman about touching her. In this case, he sensed her comfort and also created enough intrigue that touching her on her hips was fine. But be careful and I don’t recommend that to the beginner at all! Use your best judgment and always keep a woman’s boundaries and safety concerns in mind at all times!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You are embarking on a journey that will change your life forever.

Fear, doubt, uncertainty, and involuntary celibacy are about to replaced by success with the women you truly desire.

You’ll wonder why you went so long buying into the programming of the “romance industry” that brainwashes otherwise smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps.

This time next year, once you immerse yourself in my teachings, master the skills, and apply them to your life situation and your experience with women, you’ll look back with triumph, having just savored the “best fucking year ever” of your entire life.

You’ll wonder just how you managed to LIVE with

“real-hate-shun-ships by default”

and

“getting lucky.”

Now, you’ll have the power of choice, mastery of your girl-getting game, and a life of tight trim triumph where meeting and seducing women anytime and anywhere will be effortless and FUN.

Here’s What It Will Look Like…

Your buddies – and people in general – will wonder “how does he DO it?”

People in general, most of whom won’t understand HOW you do it (and in many cases wouldn’t believe it if you told them), will describe you as a “ladies’ man,” “Casanova,” “smooth operator,” “pick-up artist,” “stud,” “kissing bandit,” and more.

Your very arrival on the scene will cause women’s heads to turn, with admiring glances and inviting expressions.

You’ll find that when you master the skills for getting women, the same confidence, power, and ability to persuade-to-get-laid will spill over into other areas of your life as well.  Things that used to throw you for a loop will now be just “things” that you powerfully handle and master to your own advantage.

You’ll have become the man you always wanted to be.

Over 20+ years and 5,000 hours of teaching Speed Seduction®, I’ve been honored to help thousands of students, smart guys just like you – move from depression and darkness into amazing success with women.

It is my deep honor to be teacher, coach and guide to all of these students, and to you as well.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Are you the “cute brother,” the “sweet guy,” the “adorable teddy bear” that every chick says she wants to hug tight and pinch your cheeks because you’re oh-so-cute?

Wonder why all these women think you’re so lovable and huggable – yet these same women are actually doing the lascivious lambada with guys who have none of these qualities?  If you’re so sweet, why aren’t you getting a taste?

Could be: when they say how “sweet” and “cute” you are, they’re actually saying how “nice” you are.

The real issue is: what are you doing with this, when these cute chicks compare you to their teddy bear? Are you testing with your behavior to see where you can go with it, or are you sitting in your head trying to figure it out?

This concept isn’t about the “answer” to your question. It is about THE PROCESS YOU USE TO FIND OUT.

Keep in mind the Speed Seduction® Credo: “When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.”

That said, try this, “Are you making a prediction about how I taste, or a comment about how good you feel around me?” Then lean in and kiss her. Then get up, excuse yourself and say, “Gotta go….”

See if that sweetens things up for you.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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