Hooking Her Interest: The First 5 Minutes
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
This is the first of two mini-lessons on hooking her interest that I’ll be sharing. The second will arrive in a couple days. (I know, I know, I’m a tease.)
What are some of the key, initial factors that come into play when approaching women that can enable you to hook or get attention initially?
It begins with a very important concept. The first five minutes are designed to get her invested in the transaction. Yes, you can create connections, get her sexually turned on, etc. Remember, in the first five minutes, if you get her invested and really interested in talking to you more, you’ve gotten the job done for that portion.
Here’s what can hook attention: She might hook into the vibe you present as your approach.
Let me break that down for you.
First of all, she may hook in psychically. She may be really sensitive to NLP.
She could hook into the theme that you introduce. She may just like the theme that you introduce.
She may hook into the format you use. For example, she may really like jokes, games, quizzes and curiosity.
She may hook in to the vibe, theme, format or analog.
She may really love your voice. Many women initially tell me they just love how masculine my voice was.
She may hook in to the fact that you don’t care that she’s not hooking in. If she’s not hooking and you don’t care and are fine with it, that may really get her attention.
As part of that, she may hook into how comfortable you are with her first response. Let’s say she’s a little bit nasty or skeptical and you just laugh and are not in any way troubled by it. That may really hook her attention.
Any kind of pattern interruption or response on your part that’s positive and unexpected can really hook her in.
She may finally only hook in to your touch. You may have to touch her in order to start getting her hooked in.
She may hook in to your fun learning frame. You’re there to learn and have fun.
She may hook into the fact that you’re screening her or the implied compliment. She may hook in to the implied, playful screening and the fact that you’re screening her in a playful way.
The trick is to have fun, steady your ground, and get stable in your feet with a nice flow of energy in your body no matter what happens and plays out. Those initial 5 (to 10) minutes are about sparring in a friendly way and seeing where she’s open.
In Part 2 of this lesson, we’ll explore how to hook her interest with your closing.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. One of the things that I talked about in my recent London seminar is the path of sexualized curiosity as a way of being very powerful to hook women’s interest and seduce intelligent women. To watch this (and 50+ more hours more of my latest and greatest) in the privacy of your own home, click here now.
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