“Breaking Out” From Fear Of Physical Intimacy
Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
I received an interesting note from a student the other day, on the subject of getting physically intimate with women after he’s got them all hot and bothered and ready for action.
Here’s an excerpt:
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As I’ve developed my skills with women, a sticking point of mine has become increasingly evident. It’s my “fear” of physical intimacy. I’ve gotten pretty good, and now often get to the point in the seduction where I need to make a bold move (physically) and I “lock up.” Of course, I rationalize it: “Nah, I f@@qed up with that line I used, and she doesn’t want me now.” Bu11s**t!
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Looks like you’ve crossed the Rubicon, my friend. Now that your girl-getting game has changed, you’re finding yourself in situations where this change is bumping up against other things below the surface.
Here are some uber-important, mission-critical, must-implement principles about change:
- Anything you play over and over in your head (past failures with women) is just reinforced. The brain doesn’t tell the difference between reviewing your “freezing” or “f@@qups” with women, vs. REHEARSING them.
- You need to set and honor an intention to “stay safe” and have the opportunity to express yourself sexually in a way that feels good for YOU. Continually ask your brain how you can take steps to have a good, fun, positive sexual experience and still feel safe, good, strong and fun, when going for what you want.
- Be aware that even as you change your inner game, old patterns will manifest. So when you “freeze up” with a new woman, the brain will try to ask “what is familiar for me to do here?” and take you where you’ve always gone. It will “stiffen you up” and NOT in the way you want to be “stiff” in that moment.
Important: learning to ask your brain the RIGHT questions will begin redirecting your brain AWAY from the old pattern of freezing up.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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