Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It takes training to recognize progress as one moves from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Speed Seducer® who has mastered his skills and is achieving success with the woman he truly desires.

Learn more in this short clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Some people are loners who for reasons of their own, can’t or won’t let anyone in their lives.  They feel better without anyone around.

Some people choose the “single life” as a proactive choice for how they go through life.  There’s a whole movement around this.

And some people feel they can’t be happy if they don’t have someone in their life.  Sometimes they enter or put up with real-hate-shun-ships by default rather than be single.

A student of mine reported the following:

> I cant seem to be happy on my own, theres always a part of me thats a little lonely and a little upset all the time. When I have success with a girl the feeling is replaced with joy, but when i screw up and things don’t work out it really gets to me.

RJ here again.  Look at how you are languaging it. 

If you had a dear friend, who was having trouble with women, would you allow HIM to keep repeating to HIMSELF, “I can’t seem to be happy on my own.”

How many times have you fed your mind that suggestion?

If you mind accepts that suggestion, on a deep level, what do you think will happen to your attempts to be happy on your own?

You need to un-tangle these two things:

“I feel lonely” and “I can’t seem to be happy on my own”

One of them is true, sometimes. The other one is a belief that you are adding power to every time you say it. It’s actually making the problem more acute, not worse.

Look: every human has a need for human company and connection. It’s totally ok to have that need/desire/want DIRECT your behavior.

The problem is when that need/desire/want gets tied in with self-programming commands like, “I can’t seem to be happy on my own”.

So how could you go about separating the raw feelings of loneliness from the story you are attaching to it?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you break through the blocks and barriers that have held you back – with women and in other areas of your life as well – you’ll be amazed how the up until now “unthinkable” will suddenly become the “reality.”

A student of mine who purchased my Nail Your Inner Game course reported:

> I worked at first mainly on old stories, sometimes transmutting
> patterns that affected me during years. I immediatly felt the huge
> amount of energy that was released by the process. And almost
> immediatly I witnessed a change in the attitude of women toward me
> (without me doing anything). For example I had that waitress, that I
> knew for some time and was always a bit cold with me, walk to me in a
> club and say “hi, how are you” while rubbing her body against mine…
> I was VERY SURPRISED.

For those of you who have yet to MAKE THE DECISION to GET THIS PROGRAM, some explanation may be in order.

One of the things I designed NYIG to do is to interrupt the process whereby guys quite unknowingly continuously “reinfect” themselves with old limitations, old ways of thinking, old patterns of intepreting events, etc.

A big part of this is the process of constantly dwelling on mistakes with women; chewing on them over and over and over again trying to extract some information or learning.

The challenge is, this process actually REHEARSES the very stuff you are dwelling on, thus virtually guaranteeing that the same patterns of thinking, acting, feeling and responding will emerge when you step out into the world of women and try to do something new.

The brain works on repetition and rehearsal. So if you keep repeating the rehearsal(which is what you are ACTUALLY doing when you dwell on mistakes) you keep getting the same shitty behaviors, thinking, responses, feelings and interpretation of events.

Note that I keep mentioning “interpretation of events”.

Here is what I mean:

When you are trying to apply a new technology in an area of life that has been very challenging, often the results are not going to be 100% failures or 100% successes either.

You may try something, and some of it seems to work, some of it doesn’t.

For example, you open up the girl, she seems interested, you get her number, but she never calls back.

Or you can see she’s fascinated with you, but you can’t move forward/don’t know how to use that response or where to go next.

Now, the trick here is that if you don’t train your mind to extract the learning and to interpret events in a useful way, it’s easy to go back to all the old ways of thinking that say that you are a failure, can’t make things work etc.

So NYIG shows you how to:

1. Stop this process of constantly dwelling on mistakes.
2. Stop the process of constantly telling yourself the story of your limitations and instead tell yourself the story of your POSSIBILITY.
3. Extract maximum accurate learning and useful interpretation from every situation.

Doing this changes your vibe powerfully as you are no longer pulling yourself in two directions.

Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Think about this. If it really is true and this tech shows you how to go from stuck and ruminating to effective action in the field, and to do it VERY quickly-in hours or days-what will it allow you to do and what will your progress and pleasure look like in a few months from today, looking back on the decision NOW to get this program?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted?  Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold?

Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they can perceive or predict rejection before it even happens.

Now does past rejection give us the ability to see the future?  Not really.

What happens is you want to move forward, but you also want to be totally certain before you take a step. Since these two things are not logically possible you have two conflicting desires bumping up against one another.

The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and the perception of “perceiving rejection”.

The solution is to release the need to be certain and then to feel the raw physical sensations of uncertainty without the internal dialog or imagery. Just track the raw sensations in your body, noting every ten seconds out loud if they are “Same” or “Changing” (veterans of some of my Speed Seduction® seminars are familiar with this technique).

Once you have the raw physical feeling separated from the imagery and dialog, it no longer feeds the limiting ideas in the imagery and dialog – there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you limited, so the imagery and dialog just tend to drop without you having to attempt to drop them.

And that is your “get out of rejection jail” card…

This:

1. Frees you to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc.
2. Frees up that raw energy to power the NEW story.
3. Quiets the internal “noise/friction” in your system so you can perceive what is going on with other people: the accuracy and speed of your intuition and calibration will skyrocket WITHOUT EFFORT.
4. Quiets the noise for your EXTERNAL communication so that what you say to others will not have to push out through your noise/friction. This means your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity” so they don’t creep people out/blow them out of the water/break rapport etc.
5. Changes your vibe to one that is grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

That’s not bad for one simple process, is it?

For those of you who are familiar with my Magick/PI stuff, can you imagine what this cleaned up state/cleaned up energy could do for your sigils and other forms of ritual work?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I can promise you this: when you untangle yourself like this, it makes you MUCH more appealing, much more efficient a learning machine, creates a charisma INDEPENDENT of external validation or your social skill set, creates an INFORMED, INTELLIGENT motivation and enthusiasm that doesn’t rollercoaster up and down based on how things turn out on any particular day or with any particular woman.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my recent post, I shared with you a way to leverage your way out of the “cold shower loop” by changing what you focus on. My point was: look at what’s happening in other areas of your life that might be stopping you or tripping you up.

Now, another form of leverage comes from creating something that isn’t in the system at all: an empowering, useful set of beliefs and processes for extracting maximum learning from every situation, so you cease viewing things in terms of “failure”, but really, for real, learn from everything.

Here’s a clue: can you learn to have legitimate desires for women WITH a sense of possibility and WITHOUT any of the pain / failure / limiting / sad feelings from the past, or as little as possible?

Yes, you can.

To summarize, here are three ways you can get more leverage through maximum learning:

1. Standing outside the system or process and seeing how you have been creating it in a process, rather than defining yourself as someone who “has” a “complex”. Seeing how this is NOT about “you” failing or having anything, but rather being trapped until now in a process that would guarantee that ANYONE would feel the same way and get the same results if THEY did this process.

2. Get healthy physically, have social interaction, and restore a sense of play and exploration to life, INDEPENDENT OF YOUR LEGITIMATE DESIRES FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN. The lack of success you have had in these areas, until now, may well be throwing ice water on your girl-getting game.

3. Install a new system for learning how to learn and learning from your learnings; this also would include learning to discern and separate out your legitimate desires for women from the entanglement and confusion with your old, painful, failing feelings that also have been driving you.

So, will you stand up, man up, and take a bold step forward, or do you wish to continue to wallow in shit?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The fulcrum lever that gets you the leverage you need to get things handled and “up” your game with women is contained in my Nail Your Inner Game course.  Stop wallowing… and start following this link to learn more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Perhaps, in the past you’ve been so confused, and have screwed-up so bad with women, it boggles your own imagination.

To that I say: Welcome to the human condition.

So, then you make the decision to take massive action to improve your girl-getting game and start claiming the results you want with the women you truly desire.

As you continue to make gains in this area, you start discovering many of your false or limiting beliefs that you didn’t even know were there.

Please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs is 100% part of this process…..

…….And those discoveries ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed.

As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is one of the core and key distinctions between Speed Seduction® and all of the rip-offs, imitations and down-right bizarre mutations out there: Speed Seduction® requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction/suck-sess requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.

Why do you think I give guys tools for meditation?

So you can create ***spaciousness**** in your consciousness. Room to see your old beliefs and patterns WITHOUT BUYING BACK INTO THEM. Extract whatever useful and accurate info might be there, then move to something more fun, empowering, accurate and overall better.

And that, my friend, beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With my Nail Your Inner Game system, you get a way to take any and all confusion, frustration, and stuckness you’ve ever experienced with women, and immediately convert it to pure, immediately usable learning, so you could bounce right back, and automatically do things right the next time.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Many students tell me that the biggest roadblock in getting started toward Speed Seduction® mastery – a roadblock more absolute and impenetrable than a giant boulder blocking the path – is fear of what could go wrong.

So, you approach a woman, and sure, one of the following can (and sometimes does) happen:

• She gives you a bad look, like rolling her eyes or making that disgusted “ewww” face;
• Less blatant, but just as unnerving, her expression-change and body-language shift let you know she sees you as yet another guy who’s going to try to get up in her panties – maybe she even lets out a little sigh, and not the one she lets out when you first go down on her either;
• Swinging back to the blatant, she actually says something rude like, “Nice try jerk,” “Talk to the hand, this girl ain’t hearing it,” or “Bye” (in response to you saying “Hi”)

If these things have happened to you before, you may, understandably, be a tad gun-shy about climbing back up on that horse and galloping into another Sarge.

Because you’ll wonder: “What’s the problem?  Why do women act like bitches when I approach them?”

First, I’ll say this: what you think is the problem, isn’t really the problem.

The real problem might be your habit – up until now – of trying to predict what will happen when you walk up to her, rather than allowing yourself to go out and see for yourself.

It’s a philosophy problem; if this is happening to you, chances are it is based on the idea that you can get information about the world WITHOUT experimentation.

We call this branch of philosophy: epistemology. And if you are epistemologically confused, at least when it comes to this issue, you’ll go through life being e-piss-temologically pissed off…

…at the women you never even went up to because they MIGHT act like bitches, and at yourself for bitch-slapping yourself in advance and saving her the trouble.

Don’t you think there’s a better way?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Nail Your Inner Game gives you a way to take any and all confusion, frustration, and stuckness you’ve ever experienced with women, and immediately convert it to pure, immediately usable learning, so you could bounce right back, and automatically do things right the next time.  Click here to get yours right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Just received another success story from a student who has invested in several Speed Seduction products, including the 3.0 Course, the Power Pack, and Nail Your Inner Game, and who has done an in-person consult with me.

As you read, in his own words, how Brian claimed his results with the women he truly desired, consider what steps you will take to blast past whatever stuck points are holding you back and make today the last day of the way you used to be.

I came across Speed Seduction® by Ross Jeffries in February 2009 after past failed relationships where I felt I was settling and not reaching my full potential. I felt stuck and was looking for guidance to be able to choose the women I wanted to be with.

In the last year since I began incorporating these techniques, I have slept with 4 women (2 week fling, 4 month relationship with a “9″, one night stand with a “10″, and a 2 month casual relationship with a “9″). All 4 of these women were the best looking of any girls I have slept with in the past.

This is mainly due to his beliefs (from 3.0 home study course and speed life bonus), response patterns from his various products (specifically the best of RJ coaching), and self confidence techniques from Nail Your Inner Game and Unstoppable Confidence.

The most recent success came from an in-person consult that I was privileged enough to participate in with Ross. I didn’t even use language patterns with this girl. A lot of the attractiveness came from the vibes and attitudes he teaches. Just from avoiding the mistakes that most guys make, not needing to win, and having the confidence in myself not to react to her first responses, and practicing my tonality and pace at which I speak had a “9″ in my bed on New Years Eve this year.

I admire and thank Ross for his passion in teaching, and encourage anyone who is looking to make personal change in their life to participate in Speed Seduction®.

All the best,

Brian Schumacher
Detroit, Michigan

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Another way to immerse yourself in Speed Seduction® mastery is to sign up for one of our 3-Day Live Seminars.  Click here to see the full schedule and claim your seat now (Los Angeles starts in just 8 days!)

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Sometimes what gets ignored in our search for success with women is who we are and what we are bringing into the interaction.

Someone once said, “A monkey in a silk suit is still a monkey”.

This understanding is why Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the language tools with women, but how we can clean up our own pain and confusion so what we bring into the interactions as men is already a lot more attractive and fun before we even say a word.

Here is an interaction I just had, by email, with a student who was missing that point.

> Hi Ross,
>
> I first read the game in December of 2009. Up until that point, I had only had one girlfriend and had only slept with one woman (The same person… By the way, I didn’t even particularly like her!).
>
> Having come from a massively dysfunctional family, I had hugely overwhelming issues with social situations, especially involving women. I had desperately  wanted to find a girlfriend from a very early age, but just couldn’t do anything right. I always came across as needy, desperate and too keen.
>
> This year, I have been getting steadily better, but have still suffered some pretty devastating situations. Despite all the things I grew up with, I have  managed to make a fair go in certain areas of my life. I have become a very accomplished musician, I have a decent job, I drive a nice car etc, but all this stuff seems worthless without someone to share it with. Even though I have made some good advances with myself, I am still suffering massively in the area of women. I have certainly improved with them, but my abilities to communicate still simply suck!
>
> To cut a long story short, I bought your home study course. I went over it with a fine tooth comb, but I just can’t seem to make it work. I see other guys using it brilliantly, I see you blazing a trail with it, yet I just can’t seem to make it work! I’ve even got some of the other DVDs, such as Gold Walkups and a couple of other that were included as part of a package deal at the time. I’m not a bad looking guy and without sounding big headed, I’m pretty intelligent with it. I just don’t know where I’m going wrong and I am totally at my wits end! It’s even reached the point where I have considered flying out to the US to come and have a one on one with you, but I know I need to use my money to buy some property next year.
>
> I’m desperate, Ross and I know you’re a man with answers. I know your stuff works, otherwise I wouldn”t have paid for it.
>
> What can I do?
>
> B
>

B,

I think your question contains its own answer.

What we bring into even the very best technology for dealing with others, will effect how we apply that technology and the results we get.

Some people just come into this “game” with more pain, more unconscious patterns that get in the way, more confusion etc than others. All humans have some pain and confusion-that is the human condition. But some of us (as I did too) come with more pain from dysfunctional families and even a genetic load that  predisposes us to be more anxious than others.

The good news:

Remember Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the technology for dealing with women successfully. It’s also about technology for cleaning up who WE are and  what we bring forward into our interactions with women AS we use the language patterns, etc.

There is plenty in SS to deal with this.  I suggest the Nail Your Inner Game program, or even more precisely, my Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  This  is the past 2 years recorded content from my coaching program and contains modules for dealing with the emotional and other issues that you are bringing  forward into what you do.

You deserve a shot at having a clean slate.  NYIG and the Training collection will do that for you.

If you feel you want to work with me personally, try the Coaching Program. You get immediate access to all the vault content (but not organized by subject, as the Vault is – in the Coaching Program you have it organized by each month I create it), plus you get to talk with me live 4 times a month. Twice on a group phone bridge, once on my personal cell phone, and once by live group video conferencing.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. One more thought – if you’d like to experience 3 full days of immersion training with me, consider attending one of our live seminars – we have numerous dates throughout the year and numerous locations throughout the world.