Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Do you try to create a quiet state of mind but find it’s still spinning around like a f@@king drunken monkey on rollerskates?

Then you’ll really want to watch this video.

It’s just one small clip from the brand-new Speed Seduction® Seminar Prep Course you’ll receive when you claim your seat at a 2012 LIVE Seminar, beginning tomorrow.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you prefer the “home study” version, click here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There’s a reason why I hear it.

One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):  a) She’ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes, b) He’ll choke and beat a hasty retreat, c) he’ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.

It gets worse.

The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the “conventional wisdom” and buy into the beliefs such as “Just be yourself,” “Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,” and (it pains me to say I’m not making this up) “You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.”

OK, enough. 

Please, hear this: 

This is why I say there are NO “answers” or “information” or “one right way”. There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS in the world.

A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning what works with women.

The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.

Remember: Free your mind, and HER ass will follow.

Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you’ve been keeping yourself stuck.

If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won’t give you much change.

And you won’t get far with just a little pocket change.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Not too long ago, a student shared a challenge with me.  He noticed he seemed to spend a lot of time inside his head.

Many of his AFC beliefs were still there, always showing their ugly head when things with the ladies weren’t working out like he wanted.

Example: if a girl flaked on him he’d find himself spending ages thinking about it, sulking, and getting annoyed.

The challenge: how to become more positive and have more helpful beliefs, to get some peace and quiet in his head so he could step up his girl-getting game.

A few things I called attention to:

The old patterns of thinking, feeling, etc WILL come up when you make changes. Not because it is who YOU are or that you are afraid of success or have some condition like “low self esteem”.

But rather, they come up because… well… they’ve come up so many times before and they now have momentum, more clearly, what I call cognitive momentum and emotional inertia.

They are not signs that you are failing or hopeless or are a “negative” person.

They ARE signs that you are headed right into the face of your challenges and they are coming up, or offering themselves up, if you like, to be released and refocused into resources.

How do we do this?

1. By languaging them correctly, in such a way that we notice them without gluing them back to ourselves and/or making them who we are.
2. By being mindful of the actual feeling sensations in the body without fighting or feeding them.
3. Then and only then, positive rehearsal of new ways of thinking, feeling, believing, acting, responding, etc.
4. Finally, consistently acting in new ways and doing the new behaviors, ways of speaking etc.

Do this and you will, sooner than later, begin to see some amazing transformations(trance-formations).

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. For just over a dollar a day over the next year, starting right now, immerse yourself in 60+ hours of the most comprehensive, includes-it-all, pick-up and seduction training in existence, taught by the most experienced teacher. You probably paid almost FIVE TIMES THAT for a cup of joe this morning.  Don’t wait another moment!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Just got this great e-mail from a student of mine who has immersed himself in our Buddy To Bedmate course and, most recently, stepped up to the plate by claiming his copy of Nail Your Inner Game.

Now, he will tell us, in his own words, how these courses have turbo-charged his girl getting game:

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Hey Ross,

Thanks for free Buddy To Bedmate stuff….I’ve been absorbing as much of it as I can reading through all of the pdfs and files…and let me tell ya…this is fantastic stuff!  I’ve been trying out various strategies on some of the ones I know in the friend zone…and although we are not doing the “no-pants” dance…I am getting some very interesting responses.

The trance induction mp3 was very helpful to me.  I have listened to it 3 times…and plan to listen to it whenever I feel stuck and frustrated (I expect this when trying to connect with women…part of the learning process, eh? – no, I’m not Canadian : ) I sense a difference already in my attitude…and the crazy thought trains that used to run through my head like “the clock is ticking”  or “time is running out on me” or “this will never work” or “there are no women I can really talk to…connect with…”  …. well, you get the idea.

I appreciated especially your take on the “inner game”.  As you put it…the “double your masturbating” guy tried to talk on the inner game and had some useful stuff…but it was rather vague and undefined.  I read this year the Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey and also the Inner Game of Work by the same author.  At the time I read these….I thought “wouldn’t it be great if there was an Inner Game to Seduction book?”  When I signed up for your Buddy To Bedmate system….I was happy to discover you had really “nailed” this topic!

I bought your Inner Game DVD/CD pack recently…and just watched it last night.  Fantastic stuff!  I especially appreciate your concept of transmutation…I did it today after having a tough time at work…I was all knotted up inside and found the detanglement process very, very helpful.

Now to apply this knowledge in all the right places!  : )

I have found your stuff much more practical than the other PUAs out there.  You should write a book someday -  The Art and Science of Persuasion!

With appreciation,

Ethan H.
Dallas, TX

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RJ here.  Ethan – good on you for claiming your mastery of the skills that will get you more of the women you truly desire, more of the time, and keep you from getting hit with the “F-bombs” that the Romance Racketeers just love to lob at smart men everywhere.

By the way – I’ve written a couple of books – and I do have a course called MindFrame Persuasion. 

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Is there something wrong with having sex with a woman, knowing or believing she just wants and enjoys sex for its own sake?

Some men believe that ultimately he has to “pay for it” one way or another – often in the form of “proving” he’s in it for more than “just sex”.  He tries to believe that it’s ok, that she wants and enjoys sex.  “If I don’t give it to her, someone else will.” 

But it just doesn’t work out that way for him.

Could there be some sort of guilt involved?

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: in order to have the belief that there’s something wrong with f@@king a woman for nothing, what has to be missing from your sensory experience?

What is your perception and experience of making love with a woman? Can you sense her pleasure as she is feeling it? Can you feel her arousal as it ebbs and flows in her? Can you feel her pussy twitching when you hold her afterwards, even when you are no longer inside her, it is still twitching and pulsing for you?

To me, this is NOT about beliefs. It’s about your direct experience of the exchange of pleasure, erotic energy and sensuality that is the heart of good sex, as opposed to mechanical pounding away and discharging your sexual energy (and dumping your load).

If you are only humping mechanically or have little or no sensitivity or sensuality then that is the REAL issue.

The only way you could possibly hold the belief that she isn’t enjoying it is if you are shut down to sensing her energy and yours and what is going on with that dance.

As far as guilt: are you sure? How do you KNOW it is guilt? Maybe it is just uncertainty mixed with a vague sense that sex can be a lot more for you as well as for her, whomever “her” might be.

Ok, maybe the belief that women don’t enjoy sex has shut you down to opening your senses and sensuality. So the solution is to open the sensuality and the senses.

Don’t look at it as “guilt complex” Look at it as an information-block and a shutting down of senses to experience that now has to be awakened.

If this is the case, the next time you are with a woman, TAKE YOUR TIME. Do NOT f@@k her no matter what. See how you can enjoy just the kissing, the touching, with no hurry at all. Make your aim to create a nice erotic haze that you can blissfully share for a morning, or evening or afternoon. Do NOT put it in until they say, “I want you inside me” or words to that effect.

This is as much about you discovering your own sensuality and openness to energy than anything else.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot and bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there.  The time is NOW, for you to pull back the curtains and claim your ultimate success with women with Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

Click here to learn more…

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In this video, seminar attendee Kyle, born without arms and legs, explains how Speed Seduction® gave him the equanimity he needed to master his girl-getting game:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Kyle also shows us how using my teaching blasted him past surface-level thinking that holds men back claiming their results with women.  Let me teach you, live, how to master this.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you break through the blocks and barriers that have held you back – with women and in other areas of your life as well – you’ll be amazed how the up until now “unthinkable” will suddenly become the “reality.”

A student of mine who purchased my Nail Your Inner Game course reported:

> I worked at first mainly on old stories, sometimes transmutting
> patterns that affected me during years. I immediatly felt the huge
> amount of energy that was released by the process. And almost
> immediatly I witnessed a change in the attitude of women toward me
> (without me doing anything). For example I had that waitress, that I
> knew for some time and was always a bit cold with me, walk to me in a
> club and say “hi, how are you” while rubbing her body against mine…
> I was VERY SURPRISED.

For those of you who have yet to MAKE THE DECISION to GET THIS PROGRAM, some explanation may be in order.

One of the things I designed NYIG to do is to interrupt the process whereby guys quite unknowingly continuously “reinfect” themselves with old limitations, old ways of thinking, old patterns of intepreting events, etc.

A big part of this is the process of constantly dwelling on mistakes with women; chewing on them over and over and over again trying to extract some information or learning.

The challenge is, this process actually REHEARSES the very stuff you are dwelling on, thus virtually guaranteeing that the same patterns of thinking, acting, feeling and responding will emerge when you step out into the world of women and try to do something new.

The brain works on repetition and rehearsal. So if you keep repeating the rehearsal(which is what you are ACTUALLY doing when you dwell on mistakes) you keep getting the same shitty behaviors, thinking, responses, feelings and interpretation of events.

Note that I keep mentioning “interpretation of events”.

Here is what I mean:

When you are trying to apply a new technology in an area of life that has been very challenging, often the results are not going to be 100% failures or 100% successes either.

You may try something, and some of it seems to work, some of it doesn’t.

For example, you open up the girl, she seems interested, you get her number, but she never calls back.

Or you can see she’s fascinated with you, but you can’t move forward/don’t know how to use that response or where to go next.

Now, the trick here is that if you don’t train your mind to extract the learning and to interpret events in a useful way, it’s easy to go back to all the old ways of thinking that say that you are a failure, can’t make things work etc.

So NYIG shows you how to:

1. Stop this process of constantly dwelling on mistakes.
2. Stop the process of constantly telling yourself the story of your limitations and instead tell yourself the story of your POSSIBILITY.
3. Extract maximum accurate learning and useful interpretation from every situation.

Doing this changes your vibe powerfully as you are no longer pulling yourself in two directions.

Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Think about this. If it really is true and this tech shows you how to go from stuck and ruminating to effective action in the field, and to do it VERY quickly-in hours or days-what will it allow you to do and what will your progress and pleasure look like in a few months from today, looking back on the decision NOW to get this program?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted?  Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold?

Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they can perceive or predict rejection before it even happens.

Now does past rejection give us the ability to see the future?  Not really.

What happens is you want to move forward, but you also want to be totally certain before you take a step. Since these two things are not logically possible you have two conflicting desires bumping up against one another.

The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and the perception of “perceiving rejection”.

The solution is to release the need to be certain and then to feel the raw physical sensations of uncertainty without the internal dialog or imagery. Just track the raw sensations in your body, noting every ten seconds out loud if they are “Same” or “Changing” (veterans of some of my Speed Seduction® seminars are familiar with this technique).

Once you have the raw physical feeling separated from the imagery and dialog, it no longer feeds the limiting ideas in the imagery and dialog – there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you limited, so the imagery and dialog just tend to drop without you having to attempt to drop them.

And that is your “get out of rejection jail” card…

This:

1. Frees you to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc.
2. Frees up that raw energy to power the NEW story.
3. Quiets the internal “noise/friction” in your system so you can perceive what is going on with other people: the accuracy and speed of your intuition and calibration will skyrocket WITHOUT EFFORT.
4. Quiets the noise for your EXTERNAL communication so that what you say to others will not have to push out through your noise/friction. This means your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity” so they don’t creep people out/blow them out of the water/break rapport etc.
5. Changes your vibe to one that is grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

That’s not bad for one simple process, is it?

For those of you who are familiar with my Magick/PI stuff, can you imagine what this cleaned up state/cleaned up energy could do for your sigils and other forms of ritual work?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I can promise you this: when you untangle yourself like this, it makes you MUCH more appealing, much more efficient a learning machine, creates a charisma INDEPENDENT of external validation or your social skill set, creates an INFORMED, INTELLIGENT motivation and enthusiasm that doesn’t rollercoaster up and down based on how things turn out on any particular day or with any particular woman.

Like this so far?  Click here for much, much more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my recent post, I shared with you a way to leverage your way out of the “cold shower loop” by changing what you focus on. My point was: look at what’s happening in other areas of your life that might be stopping you or tripping you up.

Now, another form of leverage comes from creating something that isn’t in the system at all: an empowering, useful set of beliefs and processes for extracting maximum learning from every situation, so you cease viewing things in terms of “failure”, but really, for real, learn from everything.

Here’s a clue: can you learn to have legitimate desires for women WITH a sense of possibility and WITHOUT any of the pain / failure / limiting / sad feelings from the past, or as little as possible?

Yes, you can.

To summarize, here are three ways you can get more leverage through maximum learning:

1. Standing outside the system or process and seeing how you have been creating it in a process, rather than defining yourself as someone who “has” a “complex”. Seeing how this is NOT about “you” failing or having anything, but rather being trapped until now in a process that would guarantee that ANYONE would feel the same way and get the same results if THEY did this process.

2. Get healthy physically, have social interaction, and restore a sense of play and exploration to life, INDEPENDENT OF YOUR LEGITIMATE DESIRES FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN. The lack of success you have had in these areas, until now, may well be throwing ice water on your girl-getting game.

3. Install a new system for learning how to learn and learning from your learnings; this also would include learning to discern and separate out your legitimate desires for women from the entanglement and confusion with your old, painful, failing feelings that also have been driving you.

So, will you stand up, man up, and take a bold step forward, or do you wish to continue to wallow in shit?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The fulcrum lever that gets you the leverage you need to get things handled and “up” your game with women is contained in my Nail Your Inner Game course.  Stop wallowing… and start following this link to learn more.