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The Path Of Least Sargy Resistance That Gets You More Women!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 3rd, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There are some scenarios that can (seemingly) put the kibosh on Sarging, even if you are skilled at approaching a group of women, approaching a group of people, or have made approaching women as they go about life part of who you are and what you do.

You’re at a wedding reception. Every woman except one is there with her husband (not borefriend – not “has-been-d” – devoted, loving, husband!) The only one who isn’t, she’s 7 months pregnant, texting her husband who couldn’t get off work, brushing off the people in the room right now.

Maybe you live in a small town with only one or two places to hang out (usually bars), full of the same people you couldn’t stand back in high school, either.  Even if (or perhaps because) you’ve scored with several of the “regular” women, for reasons that, up until now, you haven’t quite fathomed, that empty well has now left your bone dry.

My entrepreneur students go to seminars (hot spots for hot women) yet report challenges connecting with women on a Sargy level.  Schedules run late.  Presenters run overtime with their pitchfests and it cuts into lunch hour and the networking reception – forbid presenters actually being told to stick to schedule and lose their chance to empty your wallet!  When session FINALLY ends, people beeline to their cell phones to check in with home/work/life before you can get in a word.

Normally I’d call bullshit on all of it.  Normally I’d tell you to get off your “can’t do it” ass and go out there and DO IT.

Actually, I AM calling bullshit and I AM telling you that.

Rather than sit and make excuses…GO for it…down the path of least Sargy resistance.

Got the small town blues?  May I suggest that you locate the nearest large town/city near you. Book a cheap room somewhere. Then go to venues there and practice.  Give yourself a change from that small-town dive.  Path of least resistance, guys.

In the city, hit the larger hotels where they do weddings/parties/conventions. Lots of puss eager to get rammed! 

There for a seminar?  Usually there will be 3 or 4 seminars happening at the same hotel or convention center at the same time.  Lots of women milling in the hall, at the bar, all around.  Here in Los Angeles at the LAX Corridor, there are a couple dozen hotels within walking distance or a 2-minute cab ride of each other where on any given day there will be 3 or 4 seminars going on at EACH hotel.

That’s a LOT of women, many of them now in a place where nobody knows them and they can just totally let go.

The dry-desert wedding reception you’re at might be right next door to the other wedding reception…. where 25 single women are rushing toward the bouquet at this very moment.  Their gal-pal just got hitched and they’re wondering when THEY will encounter a “great guy.”  Ummmm….paging…YOU!!!

Let me close this lesson with an opener you can adapt as needed: Walk up to a woman and say, “Hi, I’m (new to town / from out of town / attending one of these for the very first time), so I’m just saying hello to all the more gorgeous women.”   Note the implied compliment.

The women are waiting.  Now what in the name of Holly’s hot-sexy halter-top are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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PUBLIC SARGE HEALTH WARNING: The Scourge Of Oneitis

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 22nd, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A terrible scourge is ravaging the land… a malady so insidious, so pervasive, so malevolent… stifling Sarges before they see the light of day and causing an outbreak of lonely nights for smart guys everywhere.

The “romance” industry is rejoicing in their profits windfall.  Rosie and her sisters have never had such a lucky streak as they are on now, because of this nefarious ill wind.

What am I referring to?  It’s an epidemic known as Oneitis.
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Simply: Oneitis is a state where a man’s entire energy gets placed, or sucked, into ONE woman.  Symptoms include anxiety, worry, scarcity, and un-clarity, not to mention picking daisies and pulling the pedals and mumbling, “She likes me, she likes me not.”   Oneitis will have a man betting his entire girl-getting game on ONE chick who he’s not even dating yet.

(Remember: dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with, not that one you met yesterday who you’re hoping to run into today so you can ask for her phone number so you can call her sometime to see if maybe she’d like to…. excuse me…. I’m gonna be sick just THINKING about it.)

Why am I issuing this public Sarge health warning about Oneitis today?

In response to a recent issue of “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets,” a student told me about this chick he’s into.  He says they are “just friends” and never do anything more than talk on the phone.  She moved away recently and they’re 5 states apart, yet these endless phone calls  continue.  He says it’s the best relationship he’s had with a woman. Because he cares about her so much, he doesn’t even want to look at another woman.

Huh?!?!?!

This statement strikes me sad, and perfectly illustrates the evils perpetrated by this scourge, Oneitis. Oh my stars and garters!

If you’re in a situation like this, you are coming from SUCH poverty. It’s like a man who has lived in dark shanty or hovel his whole life, with no running water.  At random intervals, someone comes along and offers him a few fetid drops of mucky water probably scooped out of a drainage ditch. And he steps out of the hovel and mentally carries THAT image as the best he can have.

Look: when you are Sarging on a chick, remain interested in the woman, but not invested in scoring with her as the “end goal.” Your goal is to not only succeed with her, but also hone and sharpen your girl-getting skills that will get you laid ten times over by women you, up until now, never dreamed would actually give YOU the f@@king time of day.

Let’s band together and send this dastardly evil, Oneitis, back to the dark hole it crawled out of!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“What Do You MEAN, There’s No Women For You?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 10th, 2010
 What Do You MEAN, Theres No Women For You?

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

All too often, I hear guys complain with a variation of this theme:

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Or, “I’m never going to have this much fun again with someone so hot ever again” (often uttered right after “losing” the “best” woman you’ve ever had, so you think).

Really, now?

Tell you what: let’s break down some numbers.

As of yesterday (April 9, 2010), the United States Census Bureau estimated there are 6,813,600,000 people on Planet Earth.

About half (or 3.4 BILLION) of them are women.

Now, let’s say that only 1 in 1,000 are available, within your age range, or otherwise Sargeable by you. You’ve still got 3.4 MILLION women.

And let’s assume, conservatively, that you can have chemistry with 1% of these women. All said and done, that leaves you 34,000 women who are available to you.

If you were to approach one woman per day until you approach all 34,000…that’s enough women for the next 93 YEARS.

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Have you seen at least ONE hot woman today you could approach? Is there some hottie you’ve wanted to put the moves on, but you just haven’t brought yourself to do it yet?

Look up from above your computer monitor, if you’re in a public area, such as a coffee shop or other place where you’re using the public Wi-Fi. If you’re a student in a computer lab, same thing.

Is there at least ONE woman there, RIGHT NOW who looks like she might be worth saying hello to? If not, there’s a 50/50 chance you’ll see one within the next half hour.

Me, I like those odds. And if I don’t get anywhere with the next woman I meet (or claim my choice that I can do better and “Exit, Stage Left”), I’ve got DECADES worth of women who are still out there.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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