Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
As I point out in my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course, one of the keys to energy-efficient, low effort(read “lazy ass”) seduction where the women do most of the work is applying the 3 “S’s”: Screening, Selectivity, and Standards.
Today I was at the local Starbucks for some late morning coffee, when I put this principle into effect.
You see, as I was enjoying my medium-size espresso add-shot I started casually chatting with a woman in her mid-thirties who turned out to be Polish.
Now, to look at, this lady was pretty hot.
But then she opened her mouth.
She told me about her childhood, where she lived in a town on the German/Polish border called “Frankenstein”. How she used to play in the shadow of the Castle. How the memories of the cold and the shadows still call to her at times in her mind.
You think I’m making this up, don’t you?
No. Remember, I live in LA. Fruit-loops and hooples like this are the rule, not the exception.
But here is the thing: back when I was utterly clueless about women, I would have jumped at the chance to get into the short and curlies of a girl who looked this good. I had no process for screening women, and I had no standards, and no selectivity.
Today? Well, assuming for a moment that I didn’t have my lovely and smoking hot Swedish sweetheart, Pernilla, and that I was single again, even then I wouldn’t touch this “Young Frankensteinette” with a ten foot pole. I know how difficult whack-jobs can be, and they are actually, contrary to rumour, awful in bed.
(If of course your view of sex is that it is only about stimulation and discharging your load, you might see it differently than I. Personally, it has to be more than a living centerfold come to life so I can use their body to jack off).
Here is the biggest irony: the more selective a man is, the greater the selection a man has.
A hard path to follow when you haven’t been touched by a woman in a long time, but exercising that awareness and discipline in action can swing your bedroom door wide open to a fabulous flow of cuties who are also damn fine human beings.
Peace, piece and Merry Fukken’ Babyjesusbirthday
RJ
P.S. Check out your 3.0 Course here.
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