Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Only one thing pleases me more to hear that a student is kicking ass and taking names when it comes to scoring BIG with the ladies.

What could please me more than that, you ask?

Hearing that a student is actually helping out a fellow student to get amazing results.

Look: when I think back to what an incredibly tongue-tied, nerve-wracked, chicken-chokin’ loser I used to be with women, it makes me want to cry.

So, when a student gets marvelous results, and then helps another student achieve the same, well, I’m proud, delighted beyond delight’s sweet delight.

So, imagine my good feelings when I read the following email, from an attendee of a previous 3-day seminar in London, UK (note: the DVDs he mentions are all inside the Speed Seduction@ Power Pack):

Hi Ross,

I thought the story of what happened last night might be interesting for Some of you – especially the newer SS students.

After the London seminar the Irish lads decided that we should get together and start to really push these skills forward.

After a number of bars we were all off the mark and had already got some great responses. Things  were off to a great start – the guys had gone from not being able to open, to using blurt-outs, intuitive openers, humorous approaches, and some great sincerity, which we learned from the Gold Walk Ups DVD.

The more women that were opened, the further the old beliefs faded. THE WOMEN LOVED THESE CHARMING  GUYS.

I helped one student, Dan, with some of the exercises on your Fear Into Charisma DVD.

Here is the REALLY INTERESTING THING – he got some great smiles, some kino from these women, and out of about 50 approached women, only 2 semi negative responses. The energy was grounded before going out, and his state, energy, and awareness were totally controlled and supercharged.

After this, women were approaching  him, and there was no more fear of approaches – he hit the 100 openers’ mark by the end of the night.

Then came Selig.

This guy was amazing, he really got into the ritual before hand, and we reversed  some of the energy surrounding his former fear of clubs when we arrived at the place.

After a little while Selig had hit 60 approaches. At this stage there was no stopping him.

Selig had moved from being afraid to speak to women, to a guy who was magnetic, charming, intuitive, and dynamic in a little under 5 hours. He broke the 100 approaches mark by the end of the night.

I’m sure the guys will have their own stories to post in more detail, but suffice to say, approaches are no longer a problem.

John Stein – Cork, Ireland

RJ here again.  John, what can I say? A huge “right on” for helping out your fellow Speed Seduction® students.  May you always find women with warm hearts, firm bods, and lots of moist pink relief!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Want to overcome YOUR fear of approaching women and know the 4 different ways to meet them anytime, anywhere, and never worry about what to say?  This is one of many topics we’ll be covering in our Speed Seduction® 3-Day Seminars.

P.P.S. For the “in the box” version that gets you in HER box more often, you’ll want Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Either way, let me know when you top meeting 100 women a night!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Take a moment and play this video clip from my January 2011 3-Day seminar in Los Angeles.

Watch and listen as Brother Matthew explains how, within 24 hours, he achieved lift-off in the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle with a woman he rescued from a car accident!

matthewbangsrescuegirl.mov

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Note how Matthew used specific Speed Seduction® tools to sidestep the mastur-dating and mastur-waiting nonsense and instead claim his results with this woman.  This is but 5 minutes.  Imagine what 3 days will get you when you join me this weekend in London, or any of our other cities this year.

http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There is a debate over whether it’s worth it to confront a woman when she gets all up in your face when you were trying to be nice.

Should you take it when a woman freaks out on you?  Conventional wisdom tells us it’s a bad idea.  Let her get away with it once – “be nice” – and never again (or not ever) receive “nice-nice” from her (and potentially other women).

See here’s the thing, though: this really to me is not about “nice” but about how much dominance people require to feel relaxed enough to be kind to you in return.

I prefer to treat people as equals and come from respect and affinity.

Most people handle that well; however some view it as a sign of weakness and a signal to go on the attack.

Case In Point: An Extreme Example (From A Long, Long Time Ago)

I remember years ago I belonged to this one gym, and a woman was blocking the turnstile to let me in. I said, “pardon me, m’am, but I need to get by”.

She just ignored me and kept right on talking, so I repeated it, a bit louder, “Pardon me , m’am, I need to get by”.

She sneered at me so I said louder and firmer, “M’am, I need to get by”.

She exploded at me, “fuck you. You gotta problem! Fuck you, fool!”

But she DID get out of the way.

Some people have anger issues, other people are used to bullying as a way of life. They don’t even know they are doing it.

I turned back on this woman, raised my self to my full height, got right in her face and yelled at the top of my lungs, “Hey…FUCK YOU! YOU have the problem. I was polite, I called you”m’am”. Fuck you and the hole you crawled out of!”

She looked scared, mumbled “sorry” and walked away.

Now, If I Could Get A Do-Over…

Now, in retrospect, I should have let it go. For all I know she could have gone to her car and gotten a gun, and being older and wiser today, I would have just let it go now adays.

My point is this: some few people WILL see courtesy as a sign to attack. It’s true. Deal with it. Choose to see it as their problem.

I think women will often turn on the jerky aspects of their personalities as a sign that they are seeking dominance, or as a fearful way to put the brakes on their own feelings. In this case, being “nice” is not the right response. The response is either to call them on it immediately and say, “Hey…wait a minute…what’s with the cold shoulder shit?” or to mirror it back and shut them out.

If a guy responds to this crap by getting weak and showing MORE interest in her, he’s probably gone to be gone. If she freaks out on you, you do have the option of “Exit, Stage Left” and in many cases that’s the best policy.  But if you are finding your own reasons to get to the bottom of it, either call her on it, or mirror it back, even stronger. Withdraw from her completely until she comes back your way. I strongly recommend pointing it out and calling her on it.

When the woman pulls this cold/rude stuff, don’t waste your time trying to figure out why. Call her on it and ask her what’s up with it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Now’s your chance to let me, Ross Jeffries, take you by the hand and guide you to guaranteed, total breakthrough success with the women you truly desire, with the skills you need to handle ANY situation – even when she freaks out.  Our next 3-day seminar, in London, is just 7 days away.  To get the full story and register for London (or any of our other venues in 2011), click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Click the Play button below to watch this testical-monial from my latest 3-day live seminar.

Hear Sanjay tell you, in his own words, how using Speed Seduction® tools moved him from fear to charisma, to achieve moist pink abundance.

sanjaytestimonial.mov

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Next Friday (April 1) the Speed Seduction® 3.0 world tour lands at its next stop – London!  You going to be there?  Click here:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Before you can effectively seek a behavior – as in, get a woman to do what you want her to do – there’s something else that needs to happen first.

I explain further in this video:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  This video clip was taken at my January 2011 Los Angeles 3-day seminar.  Our next stop is London and it’s coming right up – the seminar starts Friday, April 1 (less than 2 weeks away).  Click here to get the full story and reserve your seat now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At a recent 3-day live Speed Seduction® seminar, one of my students shares how my teachings helped him increase his results and success with women – and his friends’ impressions of his improvements in this area.

Watch this video:

stevestestimonial.mov

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  As you watch this video and decide that achieving mastery of your girl getting game is something you want for yourself, click this link right here to discover what you’ll learn in my 3-day bootcamp and reserve your seat now.  The next one is in London and it starts in 14 days – don’t delay.

http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Just received another success story from a student who has invested in Speed Seduction® products and has used teachings that you’ll find inside my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course and the Vaginal Victory Vault.

As you read, in his own words, how Ryan claimed his results with the women he truly desired, consider what steps you will take to make success with women an integral part of who you are, and make today the last day of the way you used to be.

Hi Ross,

I got into Speed Seduction® about a year ago, and after only a year of using it, I must say that this success story is long, fat, and hard overdue.

I bought the Deluxe Course in January 2010…spending my mornings on the way to work rehearsing the Unstoppable Confidence affirmations, practicing tonality, my days at work reading your emails, my lunch breaks trying out the material, and my evenings studying the course in depth.  I really surrendered myself to the techniques, with the mentality “lets just see what happens…”

The first thing I noticed was how wrong I was doing it all along…talking in informational terms, waiting for a chance to display “value” with some geeky story about how many girls like me.  So my first change was speaking in themes…universals that get the women speaking…and really involve them, captivate them, into the conversation, using body sensations, visualizations, and sensory descript languaging.

The second thing I noticed was that language really does wield a power to induce states.  In my first month of using SS, I would go to bars with my friends, approach every girl I saw, and one by one deliver the Incredible Connection Pattern.  After only a few tries, paying close attention to feedback, what seemed to work, etc. I finally got the revered “Doggy Dinner Bowl Look” that I had heard so much about, and then she affirmed my attempts by saying “yeah I actually feel that connection right now with you!”

The first girl that was interested enough to kiss and exchange numbers lived a ways away, so she was sort of my test dummy.  I would call her, and practice speaking in themes, in sexual metaphors, in ways that I never thought possible, each time pushing a little bit further outside of my comfort zone and into this incredible new world of language that I would have previously found so ridiculous.

This brought me another realization…how incredibly differently a person can speak to a woman.  I mean saying things that really made no logical sense at all, but in such hypnotic and suggestive language that her heavy breathing on the other end of the phone was all I needed as a go-ahead.

Eventually, living in a mountain town where the man-woman ratio is about 15-1, using my careful languaging and state inducing, (The voo-doo dildo joke was fantastic to get her hot…), I nailed this hottie after about 3 months of practicing the material (Many of the men in this small mountain town find no sex at all, so this is quite the testament).  One night I wanted a blow job.  I talked about the United States, and how the temperature changes.  Yes indeed, the further down you go, you slowly get hotter and hotter.  I talked about indulging, cravings, feeling good and how the more you FOLLOW YOUR CRAVINGS, the more fulFILLED WITH this good feeling, in MY opinion, you beCOME.  I continued this sort of languaging all night, and sure enough, my words were prophecy=)

I can continue this email all night long, talking about how I seduced a Japanese girl in a Zen Monestary (committed to sexlessness? Apparently not…), turned down sex (even turned down threesomes) because the women were not of my standards, and have generally surrounded myself with gorgeous women (the other night I was at a bar, the only dude with 6 slamming women, with many jealous looks from the guys), women that are not only hot, but funny, smart, interesting, and beautiful.  But Id rather skip to something.  The girl that I have chosen to be with now sent me this message online. (By the way she speaks spanish, and even with my mere half fluency in Spanish I was able to give her this gift…)

“You know very well how to integrate my sensations…with my body…its strange, you can arrive at every part of my body…before you I thought I had explored all of my sexuality…but with you I have discovered new things…I can travel to new parts of me…I can build new realities in union with you”

After reading that I just had to send you this message to give you a very genuine thank you.  I have changed myself so much in the last year…I learned NLP at the master prac level, I got into meditation, and best of all, I learned the art of seduction…all of which I did from “modeling” you.  With all the money I spent on NLP, I really wish that I had spent it on your seminars, as I have realized such amazing benefit from your products, and I will definitely continue to be your loyal student.  Everything of value that I learned from NLP, I had already learned from you.  So if this message reaches your readers…skip learning NLP through some bogus institution…learn it from the best…someone who uses it practically…Ross you are the man, and your contributions to society and manhood will always be of utmost value.  Thanks again brother.

Ryan Bae
Boulder, Colorado

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Another way to immerse yourself in Speed Seduction® mastery is to sign up for one of our 3-Day Live Seminars.  Click here to see the full schedule and claim your seat now (several cities and dates plus BRAND NEW levels and payment options!)

God, I love this job.

The other day, I shared with you the letter from a student in Greece who was concerned that some of the Speed Seduction® patterns and techniques might not work on Greek women because of the difference in how the Greek language works.

I explained to him that the key is to use your words to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and that it doesn’t matter if that woman comes from Athens or Atlanta, Santiago or Shanghai, Chicago or Cape Town: women want the same fundamental basic emotions and feelings.

Now, just to show you how it is your attitude that helps make the tools work better, let me share with you another scenario, this one from a student in South Korea who mastered Speed Seduction® quite suck-sex-fully on women who barely “speekee de Englees”.

He is an American who lived in South Korea for over 4 years and has used Speed Seduction® on women who speak English naturally and those who have had to learn it. He tells me, if he had to choose who to Sarge between the two, he would choose those who have had to learn it.

Why?

Well for one, the ones who have more recently learned English have to LITERALLY hang on every word and focus in more and more on what you are saying (just to understand everything correctly you are saying, and then process it.

Also, the language structure of SS is something they normally haven’t encountered. So they are learning a new style of speaking and so therefore they are automatically very interested in what and how you are saying it, and they don’t think you are manipulating them.

Also bear in mind, they sometimes don’t get the metaphors.  Is this a bad thing? Hell no. What they do is ask you (because they want to learn from you [heh heh]) “what does that mean?” Not only does their interest amplify but also it gives you further opportunities to use more descriptive languaging and amplify some more.

Not only that, but consider this.

If they don’t understand all the words, they WILL understand the frame and theme, and then THEY FILL IN THE BLANKS FOR THEMSELVES!!!!!!   The student tells me that many times he has no idea what he said to cause their overly sexual behavior towards him because they may have only understood half the words – but then he figured out they substituted their own internal processes in the language gaps and THEY JUST RAN WITH IT!

Here’s the thing: girls are very interested in mysteriously exotic things they have not or would like to explore more, and though it may not seem so, you are exotic to those who speak a different language than yours, regardless of your native tongue. So if you find yourself in another country, just stay the course.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. There’s no better set of tools to master these concepts and fearless step right through those language barriers and achieve GLOBAL Vaginal Victory than Speed Seduction® 3.0, available when you click here.

P.P.S. For the “live, in person version” go right here to jump on the bandwagon and come to one of my live 3-day seminars.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

I received a tremendous response to my recent blog posts on women’s B.S. tests, specifically why women put men through them, and how men can “pass” them.

Now, let me give you three scenarios to illustrate these principles in action.

Scenario One: You call to ask her out. Her response is ambivalent, something like, “Well, I’d like to but, why don’t you call me later in the week and…”

Here’s your response: “Let me ask you a question, point blank. Is going out with me something you can take or leave or is it something that you’re smart enough that you really want to do that?” Then shut the hell up and listen for her answer.

Now, what are you doing here? You’re calling her on her ambivalence and letting her know you don’t have time to be put on hold. And you’re also suggesting she’s stupid if she doesn’t grab this opportunity.

Finally, you’re embedding a command that she really does want to go out with you. Will this work? Very often it does. It’s not what she’s expecting, and that always gets attention. Just be as matter of fact and non-hostile as you can.

Understatement works best with this one. What if she still hesitates? Well, say this one:

You: Look. You have my number, and I’m going to leave it up to you. And you know, if you don’t call it’s going to be a loss for me, but maybe what you won’t realize until after you hang up is, that it’ll be a loss for you as well. Ok? Bye.

Scenario Two: She calls and cancels at the last minute without offering to do it again at some specific time.

Look: I’ve heard every excuse in the book, my friend, from “My parakeet is sick” to “I’ve got to shampoo the rug”. Seriously.

Here’s how it works…

Her: I can’t make it. I’ve got a rare tropical disease that’s causing me to shrink by the hour.

You: (dead silence for as long as it takes for her to talk again. Just say NOTHING!!!)

Her: Hello? Are you there? What’s wrong?

You: What’s wrong is I can’t believe the bullshit I’m hearing.

Her: What?????

You: Look…you made a commitment to spend time with me and now you’re blowing me off. You’re disrespecting me and disrespecting my time and I’m NOT going to put up with it. My rule is, if someone makes a commitment to me, I expect them to keep it. If they can’t keep it, I need to know at least a day in advance so I can make other plans. Got it? If you can live with that rule, great…if not, sayonara!

Then, HANG UP!! Now, this may sound extreme, but man does it work well!!!

In fact, she’ll probably call back with five minutes and apologize and ask you out!!! I’m not kidding here; I’ve seen the hardest, jaded bitches go to giggly little girls, eager to please me when I’ve done this. It throws some kind of switch in their heads.

I guess with some people, you don’t really get their attention until…

You Give Them A Swift Kick In The Ass!!

Please note, I’m speaking of an attitude. I am NOT talking about or in any way suggesting or condoning physical violence with a woman. In fact, I am against the use or threat of the use of violence or force against ANY human being, unless there is an imminent threat of violence against yourself or a loved one. I can’t  make this too clear.  I’m talking about using your mind, NOT your fists.

Scenario Three: You go to pick her up at her place and she either keeps you waiting outside for more than ten minutes, or lets you in and then proceeds to talk on the phone for at least that long while totally ignoring you.

Wait for her to finish, and as soon as she does say something like this:

YOU: Can I ask you a question?

HER: Sure.

YOU: Are you being intentionally rude to test me, or are you just accidentally acting clueless?

HER: (mouth dropping open in shock, unable to say anything!)

YOU: Don’t ever keep me waiting like this again, ok? I’ll always treat you respectfully, but I expect the same. Do you understand me?

HER: Uh..uh…yes.

The point is this: when women throw this stuff your way, you want to do the unexpected. Don’t put up with it, like a “nice guy” and don’t lose your temper like a jerk. Walk a middle ground of strength, self-control AND self-respect, and these tests will become opportunities to power her straight into your bed.

And that certainly beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

‘Til next time…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. To get your hands on the amazing, life-changing, girl-getting Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course, just click here.

P.P.S. Or, to get the “live, in-person” version, sign up for a 3-day Live Speed Seduction® Seminar.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

So, you are in the course of Sarging and seducing a woman.  Everything seems to be going great – as far as you can tell, you’ve captured and led her interest, now you’re getting ready to buckle up for a rip-roarin, snatch-soarin’ ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Then, like out of nowhere, she starts flaking, going cold, losing interest.

“What happened?!?!?!” you ask yourself as you vision the cold winter sea water of a seduction-sliding-south engulfing you as things sink faster than the Titanic.

It’s Time To Take Stock, Not Slip Into Shock

Here is a “quicksand-stopping checklist” you can work through when, despite your best efforts, the seduction sizzle starts dissipating into soon-to-be-masturbatory fizzle. Learn it, and you’ll find a “jumping back in point” when you need one.

First, you can diagnose according to certain categories…

Add, Increase, Eliminate, Subtract

1. What needs to be added? Is there something you are missing entirely that needs to be put in?
2. What needs to be increased-maybe there is something you need to do more of-more repetitions, more intensity, more volume, etc.?
3. What needs to be eliminated-something needs to be removed entirely?
4. What needs to be diminished (subtracted)-ok to keep doing it, but less of it-less intense, less volume, less frequent?

Next, we need to look at levels.

1. Improve conceptual understanding. Is there a key concept or concepts you are not using or understanding?
2. Energy/vibe-do you need to correct something on the vibe/energy level?
3. Beliefs-is there something needing correction/improvement in your beliefs? Your cognitions about what moves women and what is required to bed them?
4. Tools/behavior-do you need to polish some individual tool or tools? Actions you ought to be taking but aren’t?
5. Analogs-do you need to correct body language, tonaity, volume, tempo?

Look: every girl-getting situation is different, but once you master the skills, you’ll be doing a lot more of it (girl-getting, that is).  The above is by no means an exhaustive list, but it gives some good “quick start” places to look when you’re trying to save a Sarge on the fly.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. For a life filled with vaginal victory and tight trim triumph, it’s mission-critical that you immerse yourself and master the skills.  One way is to join me at a live 3-day seminar (LA is this weekend; we have other dates and cities too – click here to learn more and book your attendance now)

P.P.S. If you can’t make it to a live seminar, or you’re just the kind of person who prefers to study in the comfort of your own home, there is an “in the box” solution – Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Click here to check it out and get your copy today!