Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve seen “online dating” evolve from being what guys didn’t admit to using to meet that latest “hot babe,” to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.

I know a number of guys who have had success Sarging online. A few told me how they applied my girl-getting techniques to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and score with the “prime hotties” on the “dating sites.” I’ve said before, good on them for making it work and I wish them continued success.

More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star’s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for meeting hot women:

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You know Ross, I’ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I’ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to “go for it” until it comes time to take things to a higher level.

Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to “things actually happening” is where many women online suddenly change. They’ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They’ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is “hi” “ok” “cool” and “bye” without any smiley faces or “lol” or “roflmao” like before. They’ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.

Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn’t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don’t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.

Frankly, I’d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I’ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn’t an actual “real life” friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no “she just winked at you” notifications, but I don’t miss it now. I’m done with work for the day and now I’m off to my regular club to see who’s hanging out tonight.

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I’ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was playing the online game smart, using it as a means to get her quickly to the next phase (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn’t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid taking bold in-person seduction moves himself.

Remember: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.

Plus, you don’t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing “just the right things” in the “naughty box.” All those “pics” she sends you that show you how cute and yummy she looks… how do you know they’re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they aren’t 10 years old, from before she went to hell in a handbasket?

In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy – I appreciate this.

But look: save the online chat stuff for women you’ve already been sleeping with for a while, as a way of keeping them tittilated when they’re home alone waiting for you to get back from that 3-day seminar you’re away at and show them even more hot, steaming adventure in person.

All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting – what, my friend, are you waiting FOR?

Peace, peace, and here’s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,

RJ

P.S. If you’re ready for something REAL, I’ve got you covered.

With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll be in charge as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

No more silly games. Just all the girl-getting power you need so even when her gal-pals laugh at you for walking up to her, she’ll brush them aside and embark on a juicy adventure with you.

Claim yours, and your freedom from your keyboard now!

In this video clip, taken from one of my actual live seminars where I work directly, in-person with students, I teach you how to pick up hot women by claiming your power in a unique way.

Click the Play button on the video below:

As you watch the video and realize how much you’d like my 20 years and 5,000 hours of teaching, coaching and seduction consulting on your team and in your corner, you’ll click here to learn how to spend three days with me live when I teach you in person.

It starts next Friday (January 22).  Sign up now and claim your $600 discount off the normal price of admission (this offer won’t last!)

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you experienced the feeling of knowing exactly what to do or say when you envision yourself powerfully commanding and mastering any life situation in your mind… but when you’re actually in the situation, you freeze up, “forget your lines,” and take no action at all because you suddenly have no idea what to do?

Not too long ago, I got a note from a student who can easily envision what happens when he walks up to women and then gets them all hot and bothered for him.

But when he is out in public surrounded by approachable hotties who have not yet had the chance to say YES to who he is and what he gives to the world, he feels afraid and can’t get himself moving and talking to women in the real world.

Here’s my answer:

I think the problem here is you are imagining a MOUNTAIN of work and meaning rolled into one small action (the Sarge).

In other words, I think every time you see a woman you want, you approach it on the basis of your ENTIRE GIRL-GETTING GAME being on the line. Thus, simply going up and talking to her becomes (for you) one huge, massive, impossible and measureless labor.

What if you just viewed her as ONE girl? ONE chance to learn one small piece of a skill?

I think what you are experiencing is NOT fear. It’s OVERWHELM.

When you were a baby and learning to walk, you didn’t stack all that meaning on ONE step, did you? You took it one step at a time.

Also, you are hanging to certainty. Rather than accept that you simply don’t know what her response will be, you cling to the certainty that she WILL reject you!

It’s funny: humans would rather project the CERTAINTY of failure and pain, rather than embrace the uncertainty of NOT knowing!

Rather than aiming at confidence, try aiming at neutrality. Neutrality doesn’t mean projecting that you KNOW you can do it and you KNOW she will drop to her knees and blow you.

Neutrality means sticking to facts:

1. I don’t know what is going to happen.
2. I don’t like that I don’t know.
3. Let’s go find out and see; maybe I will have fun and I CERTAINLY will learn SOMETHING.

Even if you learn that it was harder than you thought, that STILL is a learning that you can use to change. Or you might learn that your feet feel really good when you walk up. Or you might learn that ONE part of your body actually can relax and feel good while all the rest feels shaky!

You can ALWAYS, ALWAYS learn something.

Fact is, you don’t know WHAT you will learn.

But you CAN be certain about one thing: If you don’t get moving, you certainly WILL remain frustrated and alone! I GUARANTEE THAT!

So maybe you ought to trade that GUARANTEE for some uncertainty and see what you can learn. ONE STEP AT A TIME. Because you only learn ONE STEP AT A TIME ANYWAY! So take a step and learn whatever.

Remember: one step forward in your Sarge is one step forward toward getting laid. Stand still and you won’t get closer to getting laid; take a step and who knows – that might put you in front of the scandalously sexy babe who has been wondering when you would finally get around to making your move.

If you ask me, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, when you place your order between now and 12:00 Midnight Pacific on Sunday, January 2, 2010 and enter the coupon code HOLIDAY09 on the order form when you complete your order, I will take 15% off your order and give you three FREE BONUSES.

Use this opportunity as the “kick in the a##” that gets you from uncertainty to taking action – investing in whatever Speed Seduction® product best fits your needs to help you take that next step forward toward success with women.

But if you need a specific recommendation today…

P.P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then investing in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System could be one of the best things you’ve ever done.

With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women, even when you’re not 100% sure of the exact right answer to THAT situation.

Claim yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

As many of you know, I personally loathe the “holidays”.  I find them to be about as useful as a jockstrap on a jellyfish.

However, since I know many of you are celebrating (and it’s for smart guys like you that I am a teacher of girl-getting wisdom who helps you claim your skills, your results, your satisfaction, and your world), or at least looking for some good holiday bargains, I’ve put together an awesome opportunity for you to “get some” additional value.

From right this moment (December 23, 12:00 Noon Pacific) until midnight Pacific, Saturday, January 2, 2010),when you invest in any Speed Seduction® Product, enter the coupon code

HOLIDAY09

and you will automatically receive a 15% discount on your order. (See the P.P.S. below for specific details on certain programs.)

Not only that, but you will also get the following three FREE BONUSES:

1) FREE ADMISSION to a 90-minute Ustream video broadcast that I will be doing on Sunday, January 3, 2010, at 1:00 PM Pacific / 4:00 PM Eastern.

In this interactive video session, I will share some of my latest and greatest steaming hot seduction strategies, AND there will be opportunity for you to ask questions and get real answers, right then.  We’re only going to admit 100 people to this broadcast, and we’re not going to be promoting it on its own until next week.  So this gets you a pre-advertised VIP reservation for January 3.

Admission to this video event will be $55… so you are getting an immediate $55 FREE BONUS when you invest in Speed Seduction® products now.

2) EXCLUSIVE, PRE-LAUNCH COPIES OF TWO NEW SPEED SEDUCTION® E-BOOKS THAT HIT THE SHELVES IN JANUARY 2010!

In the first two weeks of January 2010 I will be releasing not one, but two e-books on two of the most timeless issues in every smart guy’s girl-getting game:

• How to get her to call you back, instead of ending up in no-man’s land, when you leave a message on her voicemail
• How to avoid ending up as her “friend” and instead experience dripping-wet Seduction success with her

These e-books will hit shelves on Tuesday, January 22, 2010.  You will have YOUR copies no later than Friday, January 8, 2010, when you invest in Speed Seduction® products between now and midnight Pacific, Saturday, January 2, 2010.  ($54 Value)

3) 2-FOR-1 ADMISSION TO THE JANUARY 22-24, 2010 SPEED SEDUCTION® 3.0 SEMINAR

Everyone who buys a Speed Seduction® product between now and January 2, 2010, will be able to bring a friend for free, or split the cost of your admission so you and a buddy can attend together for the price of one.  So, if you missed the “Get Me More, Now!” offer, you can still claim this special bonus.  ($995 Value)

TOTAL BONUS VALUE WHEN YOU INVEST
IN ANY SPEED SEDUCTION@ PRODUCT NOW:
$1,104.00

So, look: the women are waiting. Now, what are you waiting FOR?

Give yourself the gift of Speed Seduction® and let me give you FREE powerful Seduction tools in the process.

Peace, piece, and Happy Holidays,

RJ

P.S. Remember, when you place your order between now and 12:00 Midnight Pacific on Sunday, January 2, 2010 and enter the coupon code HOLIDAY09 on the order form when you complete your order, I will take 15% off your order. This is in ADDITION TO the three FREE BONUSES above.

P.P.S. Please note: For the Coaching Program and the “Monthly Best” of Ross Jeffries Girl-Getting Lesson Program, this applies to the first month ONLY. For the Coaching Program specifically, you get the $1 trial, THEN we take 15% off your FIRST $97 payment.

P.P.P.S. When you master the principles in my Nail Your Inner Game System, with no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walk like a giant where other people fear to step! It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a##, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted!

Claim yours today (and enter that coupon code HOLIDAY09 to get 15% off AND your THREE FREE BONUSES)!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Just a quick reminder about the “GET ME MORE, NOW” bonus offer for the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles on January 22 – 24, 2010.

Sign up for the three-day Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar today (or before December 23) and I will throw in not one … not two … but THREE special “Get Me More, Now” bonuses).

Here’s the best part – you don’t actually have to pay us by December 23.  Just send us an e-mail to orders@seduction.com by the 23rd letting us know you are attending…and then as long as you pay your registration fee in full by January 10, 2010, you will receive the bonuses.

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #1:
Even More Ongoing Girl-Getting Coaching For FREE!

Everyone who registers for the January 2010 seminar receives one (1) FREE month in my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program.

This means even more personalized, world-class instruction, troubleshooting, mentoring and teaching from me!

Your FREE month begins immediately after the end of the January 2010 Seminar.

If you are already a Coaching Program member as of January 24, we will extend your membership a month before your next due date so you still get your free month.

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $97.00)

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #2:
Two FREE E-Books – The Gift That Gets
You Started Even Before WE Get Started!

Right now, I am working on two new e-books that will become available in my catalog for sale between now and January 15.

As a January 2010 seminar attendee, you will have your copies in your hands as a FREE BONUS before anyone else has a chance to buy them and download them!

One is an e-book on how to get her to call you back (one of the hugest burning issues my students face).

The other is my collection of seduction strategies that prevent you from falling into the “friend” trap (and also how to transform your female “friend” into your ravenous, wet, luscious bedmate.)

When you claim your seat at the January 2010 Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar now, you will get both e-books – for FREE – as soon as they are ready … BEFORE the seminar!

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $54.00)

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #3:
TWO Tickets To The Seminar For The Price Of ONE!

Many of my students who register ask if they can bring a friend for half price, or if there’s a way that they and their buddy can get a group discount if they sign up at the same time.

I think it’s a great idea, actually.

Now, there are group discounts, and then there are …

… “GET ME MORE, NOW” Group Discounts.

So here’s the discount I am offering you right now:

Sign up for the three-day Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar today (or before December 23) and you can bring a buddy for FREE.

This means and your buddy can both sign up at the same time for the price of one.

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $995.00)

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Total Bonus Value: $1,146.00.YOUR “GET ME MORE, NOW” TOTAL INVESTMENT
for your personal January 2010 Seminar registration
AND all three of the bonuses:

This is too good to pass up. Don’t miss out – after December 23, this special is over.

Two ways to sign up now:

1) Click here to claim your registration online now (we will contact you after you sign up to deliver the bonuses):

http://www.seduction.com/LAseminarJan2010

2) E-mail us at orders@seduction.com or call (323) 252-1531 now and we will process your registration personally.

I look forward to working with you, live and in-person!

Peace and piece,

RJ

In this video clip, taken from one of my actual live seminars where I work directly, in-person with students, I teach you how to use “recipes” to get hot women in bed.

Watch the video now by clicking the video below:

As you watch the video and realize how much you’d like my 20 years and 5,000 hours of teaching, coaching and seduction consulting on your team and in your corner, you’ll click here to learn how to spend three days with me live when I teach you in person.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then don’t wait another second.

Claim your success, satisfaction, and pleasure with my Speed Seduction 3.0® System TODAY, and master your girl-getting game.

Claim your copy now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Almost every day I get e-mails and phone calls from students who have figured out how to overcome their fear with women. Oftentimes they don’t even know what caused it. Then they figure it out – and master it.

Please keep the emails coming. This is why I teach smart guys like you how to master your girl-getting game. Today, I’m going to let one of them do the talking. Here goes:

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Dear Ross, as a student of yours, I want to tell you how much Speed Seduction® has changed not just what I do, but my entire way of thinking about women.

Here’s the scoop:

Back when I was in college I had a “summer love” girlfriend. It was all romance and making out until I went back to school and she stayed back home. She cried when I went back to school and told me she planned to come visit me soon. For the next few weeks we’re emailing and calling every day, and then suddenly she goes cold on me. I found out, through a mutual friend, that she had dumped me and not bothered to tell me!

Next time I was home I saw her and (politely) confronted her. She told me she was sorry, not for what she did, but that I found out. She even outright said she was more upset that our friend had “ratted her out” to me than she was bothered that the whole thing hurt me in some way.

Back then I was what you call an “average frustrated chump” in ALL areas of my life. Even then, you’d think I’d realize this chick was messed up and needed help and that the best thing to do was drop it and move on. But I couldn’t “snap out” of my desire for / devotion to her. For months. I agonized over what I had done wrong. (Sounds crazy? SHE dumped ME without telling me, and I’m worried what I did wrong?????)

Right after she dumped me I had two women I saw every day who I could have had for the asking. I got along with them great and my flirting with them was reciprocated. One even asked “so when are you going to forget this b***h and make a move on me?” But I killed my chances by droning on about my “ex” until these two (and other) women got sick of me.

I was pathetic, obsessed over a chick who wanted nothing to do with me, 200 miles away, when I was at college with 20,000 women at my immediate disposal.

To an extent that I didn’t realize, this incident was a gusher of ice water that flowed like an eternal cold-shower on my ability to pick up chicks for the next 10 years. Several times I got lucky and met someone, but I made excuses and sabotaged things so I wouldn’t put myself at emotional risk again.

But then, after studying your teaching on conquering fear around women, I figured out I was driven by a need to “make right” the wrong that had been done to me by her. Being willfully cut off from even being able to participate in the “closure” made me to think about it all the time.

I translated that need for….closure? revenge? something else? into desire for her. It drained my emotional capacity. I’d be at parties surrounded by mind-blowing hot chicks and my mind would be skipping like a broken record on the “ex” who never deserved me at all. It was still happening years later, even after I was finally “over her,” but I was programmed that way so bad I didn’t even remember the cause.

After I realized what happened I was able to finally let her go, using what you teach. Now, I’m the kind of man who can be in a room full of people and can fearlessly approach the HOTTEST BABE THERE like it’s everyday routine. I liked your story about the student who snuggled with the married chick on the airplane. Stuff like that happens for me all the time now.

I’m still what you would call “single and looking” but I’m “finding” many more women, having great times with the nice ones and spotting the users and abusers immediately.

Thanks Ross! I think I’m gonna come to your next seminar!

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This is AWESOME – and I congratulate you on stepping up and claiming the success, results, and future that belong to you by getting past your barriers. What happened to you isn’t unique. The way we are programmed can stay with us long after the programmer (in your case, that girl who did you wrong) is out of the picture, and we don’t even remember why we got that way in the first place.

Now that you’ve gotten that chick who did you wrong out of your inner brain, keep showing up, and keep having great times with the women who do you RIGHT.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One quick clarification. Stuff like hooking up with hot chicks on airplane rides doesn’t “happen to” this student all the time now. Rather, he’s mastered the girl-getting mindset and seduction skills needed to effortlessly and routinely MAKE it happen.

And so can you.

With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women – even when she stomps on your heart and tries to make it YOUR fault somehow.

Click here to claim yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Yesterday, I gave you a time-sensitive heads-up that I would be announcing something special about the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles on January 22 – 24, 2010.

Well … this is what you’ve been waiting for!

It’s very simple, actually.

Sign up for the three-day Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar today (or before December 23) and I will throw in not one … not two … heck, not even three…but FOUR special “Get Me More, Now” bonuses).

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #1:
Get Me TWICE For The Price Of ONCE

I am doing my next monthly Afternoon With Ross Jeffries in Los Angeles on Sunday, December 20, 2009. These are sessions where I work for four hours with a select group of students, live-in-person, to master their “girl getting game” and succeed with the women they truly desire!

When you sign up for the January 2010 3-Day seminar now, you will receive a FREE registration to the December 20 Afternoon With Ross Jeffries.

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $87.00)

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #2:
Even More Ongoing Girl-Getting Coaching For FREE!

Everyone who registers for the January 2010 seminar receives one (1) FREE month in my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program.

This means even more personalized, world-class instruction, troubleshooting, mentoring and teaching from me!

Your FREE month begins immediately after the end of the January 2010 Seminar.

If you are already a Coaching Program member as of January 24, we will extend your membership a month before your next due date so you still get your free month.

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $97.00)

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #3:
Two FREE E-Books – The Gift That Gets
You Started Even Before WE Get Started!

Right now, I am working on two new e-books that will become available in my catalog for sale between now and January 15.

As a January 2010 seminar attendee, you will have your copies in your hands as a FREE BONUS before anyone else has a chance to buy them and download them!

One is an e-book on how to get her to call you back (one of the hugest burning issues my students face).

The other is my collection of seduction strategies that prevent you from falling into the “friend” trap (and also how to transform your female “friend” into your ravenous, wet, luscious bedmate.)

When you claim your seat at the January 2010 Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar now, you will get both e-books – for FREE – as soon as they are ready … BEFORE the seminar!

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $54.00)

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“GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #4:
TWO Tickets To The Seminar For The Price Of ONE!

Many of my students who register ask if they can bring a friend for half price, or if there’s a way that they and their buddy can get a group discount if they sign up at the same time.

I think it’s a great idea, actually.

Now, there are group discounts, and then there are …

… “GET ME MORE, NOW” Group Discounts.

So here’s the discount I am offering you right now:

Sign up for the three-day Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar today (or before December 23) and you can bring a buddy for FREE.

This means and your buddy can both sign up at the same time for the price of one.

(”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $995.00)

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Total Bonus Value: $1,233.00.

YOUR “GET ME MORE, NOW” TOTAL INVESTMENT
for your personal January 2010 Seminar registration
AND all four of the bonuses:

This is too good to pass up. Don’t miss out – after December 23, this special is over.

Two ways to sign up now:

1) Click here to claim your registration online now (we will contact you after you sign up to deliver the bonuses):

http://www.seduction.com/LAseminarJan2010

2) E-mail us at orders@seduction.com or call (323) 252-1531 now and we will process your registration personally.

I look forward to working with you, live and in-person!

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Ross Jeffries here, and I need to give you a critical heads-up.

As you’ve heard me say here on this blog, the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar is on for January 22 – 24, 2010.

I just got out of a meeting with my marketing manager. We’re working out the details now, but tomorrow we’re going to be announcing some extra special bonuses that all seminar attendees will receive.

If you’re ready to sign up right now, please do so. Whatever bonuses we offer, you will receive them! Same goes for those of you who already registered.

What I need you to do is look for an update that will be posted here, probably mid-to-late-morning Pacific tomorrow (Thursday, December 10), right here on this blog.  Chat with you then!

Peace and piece,

RJ

In this video clip, taken from one of my actual live seminars where I work directly, in-person with students, I teach you how to attract and arouse women by playing games with them:

After you watch the video, click here to learn more >>>