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So, You Want To Get Her Horny?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 30th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So, you want to get her horny?

You’re smart enough to know that blatant sex talk is probably not going to get you there.

You want to move things to the next step, to pursue the next stage of intimacy), eliciting the states of irresistible arousal with what she really enjoys doing in her life.

Let’s say you know already she likes music, Renaissance art, taking road trips, and volunteering at the local animal rescue.

How do you use this playing field to get her horny?

I think a good model or map is helpful so you can learn WHERE to point the tools.

One model I suggest is that women have a left brain, a right brain, and deeper levels of both.

My aim is to get her attention to make a right turn, as close to 90 degrees as I can get it to go. Then I want her to make another 90 degree turn and head DOWN into the right brain, and come back up with the feelings/information/attitudes/responses that I would like to have linked to me.

Now, down there, in the deeper levels and layers of the right brain, imagine compartments, adjacent to and touching each other, sharing common walls.

The compartment where she keeps her feelings/responses/processes about sex, love, lust, letting go, etc are often right next to the compartments where she keeps her FRP’s about indulgence, adventure, escape, fantasy, fairy tales, etc.

And often, they overlap and share space!

So, I can go directly for the sex/lust/connection/surrender compartments or I can get into the ones that are next door/share space, start to shake things up, so the sex/love/lust compartments wake up to, send there signals back up to the surface of the right brain, where it comes out as visible and available responses that I can use, in the form of energy/feeling/words/self-anchors, etc.

In doing this, certain things are required on my part: state control, awareness, calibration, knowing what to spot and how to direct it.

Anyway, that is my model.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Putting Raging Lust, Desire, And Horniness In Its Place

Posted by Ross Jeffries on November 16th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Let’s say you’re out and about and walk-up to a hottie and really hit it off.  Or, you’re at a party and your host’s best friend is an HB10++++ and she smiles just right while hanging on your every word.

For s$%@s and giggles, maybe you’re online and chat with a woman, seeing her on “cam” verifies she actually IS hot, and she’s just so flirty and cute and 10 minutes from you and agreeing to meet you, in the succulent flesh, firm booty and huge tits and all, for coffee the next day.

All of these scenarios make you feel good.  Hey, nothing suck-seeds like suck-sess, and few things crank up the dial on a sunny day like a beautiful woman’s smile when it’s meant for you.

Problem, though.

You start to feel a new state coming on…then it erupts within you like a volcano.  Next thing, you associate her sexy eyes and twinkling smile and the way she says “babe” in her awww-shucks way…

… and are consumed by RAGING LUST, DESIRE, AND HORNINESS that obliterates any and all other feelings or senses.

Clearly, this is NOT a good state to come from when approaching women.  You end up getting invested in the result of bedding HER (rather than “interested in the woman” and “invested in sharpening your skills”) but, nevertheless, there it is.  BAM.  Your girl-getting game and experience goes out the window and it’s a very, very short ride to AFC-Ville.

How Do You Put Carnal Desire In Its Place So You Get Her Back To YOUR Place?

You realize it.  You need to get yourself into a calm, centered, powerful, playful, exploratory place, or the only good those desires will do you will be to give Jimmy a fighting chance in the hand-to-hand wrestling match you’ll have in about an hour while thinking about her.

Yet at the same time, you want to USE and CHANNEL that energy that arises from this “desire states” to HELP you get the results you want.

Here’s a quick exercise you can do, at that moment, to get these desires working FOR you, instead of just working you.  (NOTE: this requires a certain level of self-awareness and if that’s an area where you need changework, you want to check out Nail Your Inner Game).


  1. Ground into your feet. Bend your knees slightly and feel your feet pressing into your shoes and the ground pressing back up through your shoes/feet
  2. Tune into the lustful feelings and see if you can find the edge or border where they fade out into almost disappearing. Then hold your attention on the very border/edge of the feelings, just before they disappear. That will help.

Think about it.  Your mind full of raging lust, desire, and horniness…. or HER full of raging lust, desire, and horniness as she presses her succulent body, firm booty and huge tits and all, up against you?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding how to fit all of your thoughts, actions, responses and ideas with women into the right frame – the frame of NEVER supplicating, begging or “asking”, but instead, offering challenges, structuring opportunities and eliciting/evoking processes is the single most important key to getting at least three to four times more women.  Learn more about this right here.

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The Secret To Becoming A “Kissing Bandit”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 22nd, 2010
 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.

ca 89305996 180 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing BanditClosing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…

Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?

What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.

Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.

Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.

I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.

What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

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Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.

Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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The Secret To Becoming A “Kissing Bandit”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 22nd, 2010
 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.

ca 89305996 180 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing BanditClosing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…

Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?

What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.

Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.

Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.

I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.

What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

ca 32338742 325 The Secret To Becoming A Kissing Bandit

Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.

Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Looking for the excellent girl-getting teaching that gets you success with a string of steaming hotties to swap saliva with? Look no further.

You’ll find lots of kiss-worthy seduction teaching in Speed Seduction® 3.0. Next thing you know, people will see you walk by and say “There goes that kissing bandit, off to meet another hottie I bet!”

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

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Announcing Brand New 10 Pick-Up Tips/How To Meet Women Video Playlist!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 15th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve just created a new Youtube playlist with 10 brand new videos teaching you How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

Would you jump over here and watch these videos? Comment and rate them too,and pass the links around!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Thanks again for your support.  I’ll be posting each of these videos individually on the blog as well.  Who wants to see PDF transcripts for each one?

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