Nothing “Sudden” About It: Always Be “Closing” With Women!
Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
One of the great things about learning Speed Seduction® (and also one of the most challenging) is that suddenly, you find yourself in situations with women you’ve never or rarely experienced before.
Suddenly, hot girls want you.
Suddenly, girls you are hanging out with start showing you the signs they want you to “move in for the close”.
Now, the challenging part is, if you are suddenly thrown into a situation that you aren’t used to handling, if you don’t have some responses prepared and ready, you might be stuck holding your “progress” in your right hand, wondering what went wrong!
So often, beginners ask about “closing” the girl, physically. When do I make that big move for the “kiss”? What are the signs she is ready? Etc etc.
First, foremost, uppermost, important-most: it is a BIG mistake to think of “closing” as something you do later on, as part of a sequence of events.
In sales, you have what’s known as the ABC Principle.
ABC = Always Be Closing
Same thing with women: closing includes ANYTHING that paves the way for further physical intimacy. That means: YOU ARE CLOSING FROM THE MINUTE YOU FIRST APPROACH!
I’m aware that some of my “competition” teaches that these things take place in discrete “stages”, and while at times it may be useful to think of it that way, the more accurate model is that, as a woman’s emotions open to you, she can be ready…
…AT ANY TIME!
Furthermore, closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events.
To be clear: CLOSING IS A CONTINUUM OF MAKING HER PROGRESSIVELY MORE COMFORTABLE WITH CONTACT, PHYSICAL INTIMACY AND TOUCH!
Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly.
Now, in 48 hours I’m going to send you a follow-up where I go deeper into the issue of “kissing.”
Peace and piece,
RJ
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