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Feed The Need To Succeed: More Than Book Learning

Posted by Ross Jeffries on December 6th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A major impediment to success in any endeavor – career advancement, building a successful business, becoming a star athlete, discovering a breakthrough in science or medicine, getting the results you want with the hot, succulent, attractive-in-every-way women you’ve always wanted but up until now have not mastered – is in how you look at it.

Students ask me, how can they absorb all the information they need to succeed?  What’s the right way to “study?”

That’s the problem – right there.

We’re not cramming to pass the final exam here.

That’s the wrong metaphor. 

You can’t absorb what you would best aim at having, which is not “information” but SKILL.

Look at it like this:

There’s really no “information” that will, in and of itself, solve your challenges. There IS “potential information” that becomes real when you apply it as SKILL in the real world, through your ongoing PRACTICE and EXPERIMENT with real women in the real world.

You are aiming at the wrong thing. Again, the metaphor sucks. And the one feeds the other.

Repeat after me: F@@K information. I claim my skills.

F@@K absorbing. EMBRACE practicing.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Is Your Fear Of Falling In Love Stopping Your Sarge?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 20th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Let’s talk about a fear of something that many might consider a tad ironic.

What happens when you do such a great job of mastering your girl-getting game, that you find yourself with a woman who you think may be “The One?”

On the one hand, isn’t this what you’ve always wanted?  Isn’t this why you took a bold step forward and committed to mastering the skills – to achieve ultimate success with the women (or woman) you truly desire?

On the other hand… do you want to risk missing out on someone even better by settling down with this one particular woman?

Let’s hear from a student who’s actually afraid to Sarge because he just might meet that special lady:

> I’m very aware of some conflicting “forces” inside of me that
> have kept me stuck about learning Speed Seduction®. I have been
> studying the courses for some months now, but I really haven’t
> given it true attention. Here are my issues (I know some may
> sound stupid
>
> I’m afraid of falling in love for the first girl who’s beautiful
> and likes me. Because that way I’ll never meet enough girls to find
> the one I really want. And, because I wanna have choice with women, I
> wanna become really good with Speed Seduction®. And if I get stuck on
> one girl I can’t do that. So, because of that, I’m afraid of sarging
> girls because I’m afraid of getting attached. As a consequence I end
> not sarging at all.

Instead of “conflicting” forces, maybe it is more useful and accurate to think of them as “conflated”, meaning they are jumbled up and mixed together and not clearly separated out.

What we have here is a conflation of:

1. A legitimate desire to keep focused on your outcome, which is lots of experience with lots of women…..

…with…

2. A neurotic level of desire to control and predict an outcome PRIOR to acting.

The assumption in all of this is that you are better off trying to work it all out in your head, rather than go out into the world, get your hands(and heart and dick) kinda messy, experience some confusion, and LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

Really, this isn’t just about women, but an approach to LIFE that says, “the best way to handle uncertainty is to try to game out every scenario in your head before you take a step.”

Intellectually, that is a formula for confusion and ignorance.

So I would encourage you to work out the difference between 1 and 2. 1 is legit, but 2 isn’t helping. And information wise, it has you stalemated.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Persistence And Relaxation: Do More, Feel Better, Get Ahead

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 19th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

From time to time, whether it’s in my Coaching Program, one of my private discussion groups, or here on my blog, I’ll ask my students that simple, yet timeless, all-encompassing question:

How’s it going with you and the ladies?

You all tell me your stories.  And it shows me a lot about how what I teach is helping more smart guys like you overcome your challenges with women, master the skills, and get more moist pink abundance, more vaginal victory, more rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle, more, more, more, more, more!

And yet, there’s another theme: it doesn’t work every single time with every single woman, and sometimes this stuff does require a little effort.  You know what, that’s correct.

It gives you something much, much more important.

To make my point, let me share with you a few snippets of feedback from one of my coaching clients who recognizes the relationship between persistence and relaxation:

> The breakthrough (with her) was when I gave myself permission to just practice,
> not give a f@@k, and not focus on outcomes, as it really relieved
> the pressure, and the resources I had inside of me came out. I had,
> up to this point, been so focused on outcomes, and that had screwed
> me up and would often make me feel like a loser and unattractive. I
> wasn’t focused on the PROCESS, which is precisely where I needed to
> be focusing.

RJ: Exactly so: fear and anxiety and tensing up FUCK US UP. Stay relaxed in the immediate present.

> Also, probably the biggest lesson for me was, no matter WHAT
> happens, that’s no indication of what’s GOING to happen, unless you
> DECIDE that it will. And thinking back, I can only remember one
> time when I closed the very first woman I talk to in an evening.
>
> Being PERSISTANT when things didn’t go according to plan was KEY for
> this being a really awesome night for me.

Being persistent AND relaxed.  Let me fill in the “stuff between the lines” for you. When you know you’re doing the right things and making the right moves, it puts your mind at ease because you know you’re headed down the right road.  At the end of every road is a destination.

Every time you take a step forward, even though the answer to “Are we there yet?” is “not yet” you can rest assured you’ve gotten just a little bit (maybe MORE than a little bit) closer.

So instead of beating yourself up for being a loser with the ladies, instead you say “That was great practice.  Now I’ll do even better with the next one.”

Hey, I’ll take it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When You Discover Your Limits, You Gain!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 18th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Perhaps, in the past you’ve been so confused, and have screwed-up so bad with women, it boggles your own imagination.

To that I say: Welcome to the human condition.

So, then you make the decision to take massive action to improve your girl-getting game and start claiming the results you want with the women you truly desire.

As you continue to make gains in this area, you start discovering many of your false or limiting beliefs that you didn’t even know were there.

Please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs is 100% part of this process…..

…….And those discoveries ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed.

As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is one of the core and key distinctions between Speed Seduction® and all of the rip-offs, imitations and down-right bizarre mutations out there: Speed Seduction® requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction/suck-sess requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.

Why do you think I give guys tools for meditation?

So you can create ***spaciousness**** in your consciousness. Room to see your old beliefs and patterns WITHOUT BUYING BACK INTO THEM. Extract whatever useful and accurate info might be there, then move to something more fun, empowering, accurate and overall better.

And that, my friend, beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Ten Weeks…

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 29th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Ten weeks.

In the grand scheme of things, not a lot of time.  Most people I know have gone at least ten weeks between a job interview and getting the job.  Some of the worst TV shows ever have lasted at least ten weeks before they mercifully pulled the plug. Many musical acts go from club acts to Top 40 legends selling out 20,000+ venues… in 10 weeks.

Ever been told that something would happen “within sixty days”?  Well, ten weeks is just sixty days with an extra week and change thrown in.

If you observe Halloween (a holiday less scary than Desperate Supplicators’ Day on February 14), that’s less than ten weeks away from right now.

So, what could YOU accomplish in ten weeks?  How could life be different for you, in ten weeks?

When students ask me “how long does it take for this stuff to work?” I ask them back: when you apply my girl-getting teaching, think what it could be like in ten weeks, if you start right now.

Not only having the confidence, but actually having it be commonplace and routine, to walk right up to any woman, anytime, anywhere.

Knowing that if she throws you a curveball, you’ll not only catch it, but you’ll pitch it back (straight into her glove).  And you’ll score a home run with her.

Instead of being a guy who waits, you’ll be a man who powerfully claims his choice of the most beautiful, appealing, exciting, compatible women.

Hell, imagine within ten weeks, going from a dry spell to getting laid repeatedly.  One of my students tells me again and again how in less than ten weeks (more like 20 days) he went from hoping that some hot chick might like him someday, to hoping he remembered to pick up the other bedclothes from the laundry because he had a “squirter” in his bed.

It takes effort.  It takes sticktoitiveness.  So does learning to ride a bicycle.  But once you acquire and master the skills, you’ll be two-wheeling for life.

What will YOUR life be like in ten weeks from now? Hell, what will it be like on December 31 (just over 16 weeks away) when you size up how the year has gone for you?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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