Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard of a magnificient palace – or even a shack – that stood erect on a flexible foundation?

Didn’t think so.

Mastering your girl-getting game is not one iota different.

Achieving ultimate success with the women you truly desire is like living in a magnificent Palace of Poon, its vast, sumptuous chambers replete with vaginal victory.

To support such a palace, we need a firm foundation.

This foundation is formed by…

…The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success

PILLAR #1: Mental Training

First and foremost, we need to be able to do some mental training.  This requires witness consciousness – the ability to notice our patterns of thinking, feeling, and interpreting the world as they’re arising gently, before they arise with so much momentum and force that they drag us back down the learning curve into our old ways of doing things.

I can assure you, when you go to any area of life that has a lot of repetition and a lot of emotional charge to it, the old stuff will come back. Having this skillset where you see these old patterns arising before they have enough momentum to block you, drive your behavior, and distort your perception is profoundly powerful. That’s the first part of the mental training.

PILLAR #2: Rehearsing New Behaviors

This includes tapping into your intuition and being able to do rituals like the magickal self ritual, where you take on the four vibes that attract women using affirmations and your language in the right way.  We call this creative consciousness.

These first two Pillars constitute a powerful part of the mental training. So, the mental training can be considered the first part of Speed Seduction®.

Now, meet me back here tomorrow when we reveal the rest of the Pillars.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you know how to reclaim your sexual aggression and dominance with the same comfort and skill as your devotion and adoration, you’re well on your way to having the mental training down.  This is what you will discover in our Sexual Aggression Mastery Course.

Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.   OK, chew on this: inside Nail Your Inner Game, you’ll find The Ultimate Sarge Review Process – the simple 20 minute process you’ll use at the end of every Sarge that (among other things) gets you back in the field doing things right, with easy, effortless confidence.  Click here to discover everything inside Nail Your Inner Game now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Today is the day you will claim control of your life and start meeting, flirting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with sexy, beautiful women, fast and easy, immersing yourself in and mastering the lessons and teachings inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At various times here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored we’ve discussed (among other hot topics) sarging without a wingman, sarging when you’re solo and everyone else is in mixed groups, and sarging when some dude keeps cock-blocking you.

Now, let’s say you’re in a smaller, quieter place, more upscale.  The place is very small & everyone is within earshot.  Lots of 3- or 4-sets of ladies, mostly professionals unwinding after a day at the office.

This place is small but a great hunting ground; so you don’t want to risk kiboshing it by being viewed as ‘on the make’.   Some guys might view this as a problem.

I would first ask: how is that a problem?

It can only be a problem if you ASSUME(without evidence) that talking to women is something about which you should be embarrassed, ashamed, sneaky, etc.

Who put the idea in to your empty head that women don’t want guys to come up directly and talk to them?

You view yourself as “hunting” but you don’t want to be viewed as on the make!

No wonder you feel like you have to hide what you are doing.

How about you come up with a better f@@king metaphor than being a ‘hunter’ and women being your ‘prey’?

How would everything suddenly re-organize, shift and change… now…as you start feeling the shift from this advice?

Look guys: the metaphors you use to describe to yourself the actions you are going to take have profound effects from the cognitive layer all the way down to the neurological level of synapses, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc.

SO PICK A GODDAMN BETTER METAPHOR, KNUCKLEHEAD!

Here’s one for you: this place is a party, you are the host, there to make sure all feel happy and welcomed. And what a gift it is for them (not arrogantly so), that you give special attention to THEM.

Now, does that beat a poke in the eye?

Listen: the women (all 3 of them over there) are waiting.  What, in the name of Natasha’s nightgown, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

This is the first of two mini-lessons on hooking her interest that I’ll be sharing.  The second will arrive in a couple days.  (I know, I know, I’m a tease.)

What are some of the key, initial factors that come into play when approaching women that can enable you to hook or get attention initially?

It begins with a very important concept.  The first five minutes are designed to get her invested in the transaction. Yes, you can create connections, get her sexually turned on, etc. Remember, in the first five minutes, if you get her invested and really interested in talking to you more, you’ve gotten the job done for that portion.

Here’s what can hook attention: She might hook into the vibe you present as your approach.

Let me break that down for you.

First of all, she may hook in psychically. She may be really sensitive to NLP.

She could hook into the theme that you introduce. She may just like the theme that you introduce.

She may hook into the format you use. For example, she may really like jokes, games, quizzes and curiosity.

She may hook in to the vibe, theme, format or analog.

She may really love your voice. Many women initially tell me they just love how masculine my voice was.

She may hook in to the fact that you don’t care that she’s not hooking in. If she’s not hooking and you don’t care and are fine with it, that may really get her attention.

As part of that, she may hook into how comfortable you are with her first response. Let’s say she’s a little bit nasty or skeptical and you just laugh and are not in any way troubled by it. That may really hook her attention.

Any kind of pattern interruption or response on your part that’s positive and unexpected can really hook her in.

She may finally only hook in to your touch. You may have to touch her in order to start getting her hooked in.

She may hook in to your fun learning frame. You’re there to learn and have fun.

She may hook into the fact that you’re screening her or the implied compliment.  She may hook in to the implied, playful screening and the fact that you’re screening her in a playful way.

The trick is to have fun, steady your ground, and get stable in your feet with a nice flow of energy in your body no matter what happens and plays out. Those initial 5 (to 10) minutes are about sparring in a friendly way and seeing where she’s open.

In Part 2 of this lesson, we’ll explore how to hook her interest with your closing.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  One of the things that I talked about in my recent London seminar is the path of sexualized curiosity as a way of being very powerful to hook women’s interest and seduce intelligent women.  To watch this (and 50+ more hours more of my latest and greatest) in the privacy of your own home, click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time.

Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge.  Are cocky and funny good attitudes to exude toward women when you’re Sarging? Or, will a friendly and warm approach work better?  Can you mix the two?

Well, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: postulating that ONE approach ALWAYS works is just silly.

Being cocky and funny the whole time is like trying to drive your car around in one gear. You have to be able to shift gears as the conditions warrant, or you’ll strip your gears.  When that happens, you won’t be able to move forward.

So with that being said, why just have one approach?

A good approach toward women can start from any one of four basic positions, and move rapidly in between, back and forth, amongst the others.

You can start from ANY of these:

1. The put on: saying something funny, designed to make her laugh
2. Comment, question, observation
3. The blurt-out, where you just say whatever is crossing your mind or whatever you are experiencing seeing her in that moment
4. Genuine intuition

The best approaches combine 2 of these or start with one and move rapidly to the other.

As for being “cocky and funny”; many guys are quite capable of it, but you need to know when to drop it and rapidly display other aspects of yourself, unless you want to come off as a joke machine or an insult comic.

It’s one thing to approach life with a smile. It’s another to approach people with a sneer. Sneering shows some serious insecurities, doesn’t it?

The larger point is this: calibrate to the person(s) in front of you and notice what response(s) you get.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Having the skills and confidence to approach and stimulate any woman’s subconscious sexual triggers using your words is one of the best skills in the world to have because it will give you complete seduction mastery even over the choosiest women.  So you won’t have to just rely on making her laugh.  For more great teaching on this (and many other) topics, click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Every time I’m out and about, living my life, and I’m in a public place and I overhear the phrase “I got her digits” (as in, a guy boasting about this to his pals as if this is a great victory) I think to myself…

“WOW…a phone number.  What’s he gonna do next, add it to his iPhone?”

A couple weeks ago I was at a local coffee shop where I sometimes hang out and I got treated to hearing someone go on and on and on about all the numbers he gets from women, all the time, everywhere.

If you ever watched “Cheers” you may remember some of the plot lines about Sam Malone’s little black book, filled with phone numbers of hot women, with her rank on Sam’s personal rating scale (similar to the HB scale that Speed Seducers® use) next to each name.

Those who REALLY remember will recall, some of the episodes showed Sam’s inability to actually get one of those women to meet up with him, no matter how many numbers he dialed.

No, I’m not referring to the episode where the young kid stole the black book, called the women pretending to be Sam and arranged meetups, then didn’t show up.  It actually happened more than once where Mayday Malone spent the night alone, just him and his little red Corvette.

Why the “hit or miss”?

Because it was a book of phone numbers with notes and commentary on PAST experiences Sam had with women.

So before you decide to go build your own “little black book” and use the number of entries as an indicator of your success with women, consider the following.

What you aim at, you tend to get.  What you focus on, you amplify.

So…you are aiming at getting phone numbers? You’ll get phone numbers.

If you program your alarm clock to ring at 11:00 AM, what time do you think it’s going to ring? 10 AM? 11:30 AM?

If you’re driving your car and you set cruise control to go 65 MPH, how fast do you think the car will go?  25 MPH?  100 MPH?

What is it about your mind set that is having you fixated on phone numbers?

A phone number is just a punctuation point. Sometimes it leads to a full paragraph, sometimes it’s a semi-colon, often it’s a question mark or period.

Instead: what energy/attitude are you coming from and displaying when you meet women?  How much time are you spending talking with women? Building interest? Intrigue?

Sure, you want to have a little black book, a steady stream of scintillatingly sensational women who want to spend time with you.  But remember, it’s not the book itself – it’s the EXPERIENCES, that are your ultimate success with women.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  A running joke about Sam Malone’s black book was that many of the women within were among the loosest, easiest, and/or most air-headed women in Boston.  YOU need to decide YOUR own definition of a “top quality” woman – and go for women like her, and even better!  Click here to learn how.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Has anyone ever offered to “hook you up” with a friend of theirs? Have you ever asked someone to do this for you?

A student of mine’s cousin (let’s call her Bianca) wanted to “hook him up” with a “cute” co-worker of hers (we’ll call her… you guessed it… Debbie).  Bianca’s idea was this: “You and a couple of your friends come out and hang out with us one night, and you and Debbie can meet.”

Internally he knew that whole scene would zap his Sargy energy.  He’d be in a situational disadvantage with Debbie, since she’d feel under the microscope and would be putting up extra resistance.  In declining the offer, he told his cousin Bianca “I would not be comfortable in this scenario and this is just not how I meet women.  I won’t put Debbie in this situation either.”

Bianca snorted and said, “Gee, too bad, how the hell do you expect to find a girlfriend?  Your loss.” But the way Bianca wanted to “hook him up” with Debbie was uncomfortable for him.

So if my student knew who Debbie was and thought she was hot and might be worth a shot, what would be a better way than having Bianca explicitly “hook him up” with her?  What could YOU do?

I would actually say that you have to add some value to their lives if you expect them to add value to yours (eg, intro you to chicks).

For example, let’s say you are friendly with the woman who sits next to you at work, and she is pretty damn hot.

Treat her like a friend, because you like her as a person, genuinely. She’s a good person and you are friendly and are cool with and to each other.

You likely won’t move it past that if you “don’t shit where you eat.”  Yet you know she has cool, HOT female friends (you’ve seen her Facebook page) and sooner or later she might introduce you around to her social circle as a genuinely cool guy, if you know her well enough to pal around at the Friday after-work happy hour.

So, what value are YOU providing to this female friend?

Don’t expect her to “hook you up” but rather aim at having her introduce you/include you in her social circle.

And treat their social circle like a National Park. You don’t go into Yellowstone and shoot the deer, dump beer cans in the river, piss on the trees, etc. etc.

Treat her friends well, don’t piss in the pool or you won’t be invited back.

Do it right, and her friends will talk about how great you are in bed and you’ll be in hot demand. Rather than be greedy when that happens, actually REFRAIN from doing all the deeds you will indeedy do be doing.

Get it?

You can be strong, hot, challenging, fun, outrageous and STILL respect the vaginal environment. Play responsibly. Replace and replenish as you go.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Once you meet her friends, it isn’t just suggestive language that will get them joining you on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle  – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation! Learn how this is done in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When this student (who attended one of our recent seminars) first heard of Speed Seduction®, he pretty much thought it was “total shit.”  Watch this short video and find out what happened when he took a step in a new direction and immersed himself in the teachings:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Will I see YOU at an upcoming 3-day seminar?  We can still squeeze you in to Chicago, which begins tomorrow (Friday May 20).  Then we’re in London and Copenhagen next month, with more dates, cities, and continents in the fall.  Will you take a bold step forward by clicking here?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of my readers who receives our Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets newsletter is asking what, for many of you, is an important question.

He knows that I don’t recommend going to “meat markets” or “pick up joints” because they’re usually too noisy so you can’t work your Sargy magic, there’s too many people around, and besides, women will have their guards up because they know guys are there to hit on them.

I also don’t suggest meeting women online.  On dating sites, again, her guard will be up, plus what have I said about introducing any form of “dating” frames with women before you sleep with them?  Even on f@@king Facebook.  Those chat rooms and “naughty boxes”, you don’t know if, in her mind, she’s chatting with YOU, or some idealized vision of what she thinks you might be.

So, where are you going to effortlessly approach and meet women this weekend?

One of the best ways to meet women is to encounter them during the normal activities you engage in, connecting with women while they go through their normal activities.   For example…

• You think there might be some wet, willing women at the car wash?
• What about the succulent hottie standing next to you in line at the checkout?
• Maybe she’s your “friend” now, but did you know you can use the friend zone to get her in bed?
• Going out of town and flying solo?  Or, you’re staying close to home, but your wingman isn’t around to back you up this weekend?  Don’t worry, you’re covered either way.

And, yes, I’ll address the elephant in the room.  You know the old cliche about what you’ll find at the produce section in the supermarket?  Well, it’s not a cliche.  My students in southern California (where I’m from) know that you’ll usually find some fresh fare at Ralphs.

That should give you some ideas.

And I better not hear about how you got some chick’s number this weekend so you could call her up and ask her out on a date, unless she gave it to you AFTER catching her breath from the whirlwind flight on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Get out there and make it happen.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My recommendation for today is that you get out there and DO it.  But if you need some instant, right-now access to some great videos that teach various aspects of Speed Seduction®, just click here to grab it.