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When Something Persists In Tripping Up Your Persistence

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 24th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In all areas of life, a key ingredient to success, whatever your definition of that word, is persistence.

Now let’s say you’re persistent, but something keeps going persistently wrong?  Or, looking at it another way, if something is persistently tripping you up or blocking you from claiming your results?

Let’s hear from a student who seems to be able to Sarge only in bars (ironic, I know, given that’s one of the hardest places to Sarge and one of the least recommended places as far as I am concerned):

> Im not afraid to approach women, I’m having trouble getting from right after
> hello and going into pattern at will, Also trouble with state control. I bring
> me old self with me it persistently stays. It sucks, I have had success but only
> in bars mostly that where I’m more anchored in good feeling and in a bar it
> the right place to sarge but outside going along with everyday tasks its
> difficult. Breaking state Im having trouble understanding.If I can get to
> patterns I got em but getting Im having trouble.

So what’s the “big idea” here?The big idea is this: you probably don’t need to add anything in. You probably just have to subtract out whatever internal processes are getting in the way.

You’ve got good feelings and no problem in a bar which is where MOST guys have trouble! So what is NOT going on in your head, in a bar, that DOES go on in your head, elsewhere? Or, what goes on in your head, outside of bar, that is ABSENT when you are in a bar?

What you need to do is subtract out what is getting in your way, when you are NOT in a bar.

Once you identify that, you’re one step closer to no-holds-bar-red success with the women you truly desire.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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When Past Bad Feelings Keep You In 24-Hour Lockdown, And How To Break Free!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 6th, 2010
 When Past Bad Feelings Keep You In 24 Hour Lockdown, And How To Break Free!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

ca 67938416 180 When Past Bad Feelings Keep You In 24 Hour Lockdown, And How To Break Free!I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation
: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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