Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The same energy that drives negative thoughts and feelings can be redirected to motor-vate you toward success with the women you truly desire:

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This video clip is ripped right out of Nail Your Inner Game – the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck.  Best news is, anyone can use it.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It takes training to recognize progress as one moves from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Speed Seducer® who has mastered his skills and is achieving success with the woman he truly desires.

Learn more in this short clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With Nail Your Inner Game, you get the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Just got this great e-mail from a student of mine who has immersed himself in our Buddy To Bedmate course and, most recently, stepped up to the plate by claiming his copy of Nail Your Inner Game.

Now, he will tell us, in his own words, how these courses have turbo-charged his girl getting game:

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Hey Ross,

Thanks for free Buddy To Bedmate stuff….I’ve been absorbing as much of it as I can reading through all of the pdfs and files…and let me tell ya…this is fantastic stuff!  I’ve been trying out various strategies on some of the ones I know in the friend zone…and although we are not doing the “no-pants” dance…I am getting some very interesting responses.

The trance induction mp3 was very helpful to me.  I have listened to it 3 times…and plan to listen to it whenever I feel stuck and frustrated (I expect this when trying to connect with women…part of the learning process, eh? – no, I’m not Canadian : ) I sense a difference already in my attitude…and the crazy thought trains that used to run through my head like “the clock is ticking”  or “time is running out on me” or “this will never work” or “there are no women I can really talk to…connect with…”  …. well, you get the idea.

I appreciated especially your take on the “inner game”.  As you put it…the “double your masturbating” guy tried to talk on the inner game and had some useful stuff…but it was rather vague and undefined.  I read this year the Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey and also the Inner Game of Work by the same author.  At the time I read these….I thought “wouldn’t it be great if there was an Inner Game to Seduction book?”  When I signed up for your Buddy To Bedmate system….I was happy to discover you had really “nailed” this topic!

I bought your Inner Game DVD/CD pack recently…and just watched it last night.  Fantastic stuff!  I especially appreciate your concept of transmutation…I did it today after having a tough time at work…I was all knotted up inside and found the detanglement process very, very helpful.

Now to apply this knowledge in all the right places!  : )

I have found your stuff much more practical than the other PUAs out there.  You should write a book someday -  The Art and Science of Persuasion!

With appreciation,

Ethan H.
Dallas, TX

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RJ here.  Ethan – good on you for claiming your mastery of the skills that will get you more of the women you truly desire, more of the time, and keep you from getting hit with the “F-bombs” that the Romance Racketeers just love to lob at smart men everywhere.

By the way – I’ve written a couple of books – and I do have a course called MindFrame Persuasion. 

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

More than once I’ve heard from students who have been learning the skills, gaining knowledge of the techniques, but yet, they’re still not moving forward with women like they want to be.

They get pumped up about going out and Sarging, yet somehow nightfall comes and each flip of the TV remote brings up another hourlong excuse to say “Let me just catch this one last episode, and then it’s up and at ‘em!”

Before you know it, you may be “up and at ‘em” but everyone else has gone home.

“Shucks…maybe next weekend.”

If your a$$ feels like a giant magnetic field inexorably held onto your couch while you find every non-excuse possible to avoid going out and getting some a$$, read this:

1) First, bear in mind that learning skills can be a matter of breaking the task down into smaller pieces.

So why not just break the task down into seeing if you can approach ten women and the only goal is to make them laugh? You don’t even have to introduce yourself. Just make them laugh and walk away.

Try this, “Excuse me… but I was just wondering what you are doing to keep the guys away… cuz it’s not working on me. My name is Charles.”

Then walk away. That simple.

2) When you talk to yourself about it, acknowledge and them take ownership.

Like this, “I feel stuck and I claim my ownership and management of this stuckness to the point where I find my ways to get moving and enjoy getting moving.”

3) Give yourself a larger penalty for not acting than acting.

Think of an organization you hate. Like Greenpeace or PETA or the NRA or the Republican or Democratic Party.  Whatever DOESN’T float your boat.  I personally hate televangelists, so I’d make out a $1,000 check to Geronimo Goo-Gargle Ministries. Give the check, dated 10 days from today to a trusted friend. Tell him if you can’t return to him within 10 days, and honestly tell him that you’ve spoken to 10 women, he’s to mail it to the cause you hate.

This way your mind will say, “Ok, there is no totally 100% pain free solution, but the pain I’ll get from not acting is far worse than acting, so I’ll act!”

This takes advantage of the fact that our mind uses comparison. Compared to a guaranteed way to be 100% comfortable and 100% certain you’ll succeed easily with every approach, the pain of approaching women might seem like a lot (until you claim your ownership and management). But compared to sending $1000 to an asshole like Rev. Goo-Gargle, the pain is NOTHING.

A better way to watch TV on Saturday night…AFTER sharing
“Adventures On The Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle” of course!

These are just some ways to get yourself moving.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, here is one more. Try going out of town to another city where no one knows you and do your practicing there for a weekend.  Let me know how this helps.

P.P.S. If you are still stuck, check out my Nail Your Inner Game system, designed for situations exactly like this.

I care what happens. Once you get moving, you’ll breakthrough fast.

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key signal that you have achieved a level of self-assurance and confidence that lets you fully show the world who you are and what you have to offer is boldly claiming your results with women without first getting absolute certainty that you’ll succeed on EVERY approach.

One source of uncertainty: does she have a boyfriend?

Second source: what if she acts single and receives what I have to give now, then LATER she suddenly sicks her boyfriend on me like a raging pit bull claiming I was bugging her?

One night, recently, a student of mine got a text from a woman he’d hooked up with recently, and at first it seemed like she was letting him know she wanted an encore, that night if he was available.  BUT, after 3 or 4 back and forths, she all of a sudden comes out with this: “I want to talk to you but I can’t.  My ex is riding me about me talking to you.”

He texted back: “I thought he was your EX.  Once you get clear on your status, please let me know.” Then he said to himself, “Exit, stage left!” and went back to what he was doing at the time.

But, a minute later it raised a larger question in my student’s mind…

“What if that had actually been her so-called ‘ex’ writing that, and now he’s gonna come after me?”

Hey: boyfriend destroyer or no boyfriend destroyer, the next woman you Sarge might have a boyfriend, and just because kicking your ass because you approached his woman may seem childish and insecure to YOU, doesn’t mean he won’t kick your ass anyway.

Even if she did nothing but ENCOURAGE you to make a move at the time, regardless of the story she’s telling him now.

The only way to have certainty this will never happen is to take a vow of celibacy and solitude RIGHT NOW.

OR, you could take how another student handled this same situation as a guide:

Wednesday night, I called a woman I had “number closed” on Monday, who I met Monday when I was at a business meeting where she works. I asked for her. She says “speaking”. I introduced myself and said “we met on Monday at your office?” She says “yeah?”. It was 9:30 pm and I tell her I hope its not to late to call.

Her response was a cold, “I am with my boyfriend right now!” (In a tone to indicate, like, I should have known so). I say “Ok then, I’ll call back some other time.” and we hang up.

Within 30 seconds, my phone rings.

ME: Hello?

BF: Hello. Who is this?

ME: This is Rick, who is this?

BF: This is Angie’s boyfriend. I am calling to tell you that I don’t want you to call her anymore.

ME: Is this what Angie wants?

(I don’t know where I got the balls to turn this on them, but I am glad I did. At this point he puts me on hold and asks her if this is what she wants. I hear in the distance her voice saying that she doesn’t want me to call her again. He then comes back on the phone)

BF: Angie says that she doesn’t want you to call her again.

ME: Then why didn’t she just tell me that? Why did she give me her number?

BF: And what the hell are you thinking picking up somebody at work? You put her on the spot asking in front of everyone!

ME: We were ALONE when she gave me her number!

BF: (pause) You were alone?

ME: Of course! There was no one around. (raising my voice to match his) Why didn’t she tell me that she had a boyfriend? She never said that. She could have said No when I asked for the number.

BF: (backing off) Well, she’s shy.

ME: Even so, all she had to say was that she had a boyfriend. What are you thinking? Ask her! Ask her if she ever told me she had a boyfriend! Ask her now!

(Pause. I am guessing that he at this point doesn’t know where this is going. I hear him ask her, “Did you tell him that you have a boyfriend? To my happy surprise, she ADMITTED she didn’t. I think she was just as surprised by my hutzspa as I was.)

BF: Ok. She didn’t tell you.

ME: You see? She didn’t have to give me the number, she could have said, no, she could have told me that she had a boyfriend and she didn’t!

BF: Look, I am just telling you that if you plan to call her again…

ME: (cutting him off) Don’t you worry, I have no intentions of ever calling her again. This is stupid. Look you, I am not the type of guy that goes around starting trouble OK? I meant YOU no disrespect! And what she did here is disrespectful! She should’ve just said that she had a boyfriend, and she didn’t! (At this point, I am in control, but I am obviously pissed off in my tonality)

BF: (apologetically) Well, it’s OK.

ME: No it’s not! What she did is disrespectful to YOU, AND me! This is not acceptable at all.

At this point, he seems to be trying to calm me down, and by the time we get off the phone, I am still in control, and hang up after I say “bye”. In a weird sense, I got some rapport with him, and I really felt that near the end, he was actually on my side.

The study of seduction is more that just memorizing the next pick up line. It is a process that changes who you are inside and out. Three years ago, I would have freaked out, tried to figure out how I was to blame, and apologized like crazy. Today, I made no apologies for my desires as a man, and I called a woman on her bullshit. I know that I have still a ways to go. But by the universe as my witness, I will become a true Master Seducer.

Bottom line: this student has taken a HUGE step toward becoming a true Master Seducer. He had the balls to stand up to her shit and to give them BOTH a lesson.  Chances are, her little game backfired on a BIG way and this boyfriend of hers will see the light and leave that trouble making cock teaser in the dust.

The best part?  My student found out her little act before wasting any time or money.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You know, Angie’s boyfriend might not be a total meathead after all.  If he came to me and asked how Speed Seduction® might blast him past the stuck points that have had him, up until now, settling for these cock teases and letting them yank his chain instead of getting real results with top quality women who will treat him right, I would suggest he click here right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you break through the blocks and barriers that have held you back – with women and in other areas of your life as well – you’ll be amazed how the up until now “unthinkable” will suddenly become the “reality.”

A student of mine who purchased my Nail Your Inner Game course reported:

> I worked at first mainly on old stories, sometimes transmutting
> patterns that affected me during years. I immediatly felt the huge
> amount of energy that was released by the process. And almost
> immediatly I witnessed a change in the attitude of women toward me
> (without me doing anything). For example I had that waitress, that I
> knew for some time and was always a bit cold with me, walk to me in a
> club and say “hi, how are you” while rubbing her body against mine…
> I was VERY SURPRISED.

For those of you who have yet to MAKE THE DECISION to GET THIS PROGRAM, some explanation may be in order.

One of the things I designed NYIG to do is to interrupt the process whereby guys quite unknowingly continuously “reinfect” themselves with old limitations, old ways of thinking, old patterns of intepreting events, etc.

A big part of this is the process of constantly dwelling on mistakes with women; chewing on them over and over and over again trying to extract some information or learning.

The challenge is, this process actually REHEARSES the very stuff you are dwelling on, thus virtually guaranteeing that the same patterns of thinking, acting, feeling and responding will emerge when you step out into the world of women and try to do something new.

The brain works on repetition and rehearsal. So if you keep repeating the rehearsal(which is what you are ACTUALLY doing when you dwell on mistakes) you keep getting the same shitty behaviors, thinking, responses, feelings and interpretation of events.

Note that I keep mentioning “interpretation of events”.

Here is what I mean:

When you are trying to apply a new technology in an area of life that has been very challenging, often the results are not going to be 100% failures or 100% successes either.

You may try something, and some of it seems to work, some of it doesn’t.

For example, you open up the girl, she seems interested, you get her number, but she never calls back.

Or you can see she’s fascinated with you, but you can’t move forward/don’t know how to use that response or where to go next.

Now, the trick here is that if you don’t train your mind to extract the learning and to interpret events in a useful way, it’s easy to go back to all the old ways of thinking that say that you are a failure, can’t make things work etc.

So NYIG shows you how to:

1. Stop this process of constantly dwelling on mistakes.
2. Stop the process of constantly telling yourself the story of your limitations and instead tell yourself the story of your POSSIBILITY.
3. Extract maximum accurate learning and useful interpretation from every situation.

Doing this changes your vibe powerfully as you are no longer pulling yourself in two directions.

Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Think about this. If it really is true and this tech shows you how to go from stuck and ruminating to effective action in the field, and to do it VERY quickly-in hours or days-what will it allow you to do and what will your progress and pleasure look like in a few months from today, looking back on the decision NOW to get this program?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the biggest blocks to mastering the skills and claiming your results with the women you truly desire is just that – having blocks.

Maybe you’re overweight and thinking you need to lose a few before women will find you attractive, so you’ve stopped Sarging till you tip the scale a bit less.  (Question: did you know that many hot women specifically like larger men?  Why are you denying them the chance to bring pleasure into your life?)

Could be that you aren’t having women over to your place because you’re worried they’ll think you live in a dump.  (One of my students had this worry, then he discovered that women love the view from the balcony of his 1-bedroom apartment.)

Or, could it be worry that women might not give you the time of day because you don’t have much coin in your pocket at the moment?

Let’s hear from someone who has the money concern:

> Hi Ross,

> First off thanks for the legendary seduction pack, it is a must read for EVERY guy, no if buts or maybe’s!!
>
> I’ve done my homework in reading your books and hearing the live seminar sessions, from there its easy to see and understand that you don’t need a ‘massive wad of cash’ to get laid and even on an extremely tight budget, this does not stop me from meeting the women i want…. It restricts my options when i try to escalate because i end up with an eye on the numbers and the most dominant thoughts on my mind just bring themselves to the front which kills my states from within every time and annihilates my chances with her… but I have to be real here, we live in a capitalist world, and a lot of things revolve around money… My cash flow crisis is a temporary mid term setback, but a man still has needs that he shouldn’t have to pay to get….
>
> Anyway moving on swiftly to matter at hand….The long and short of it is i have been successful at bringing the kind of women i want into my life applying the 3 S’s but escalation is proving a major stumbling block on empty pockets, or at least i just haven’t learnt how to skip over that one yet… I have applied all the advice in the seduction pack into my daily routine, and meeting new women is a fun process for both me and the girls i have tried it on……not to brag but I have not yet had a woman slap me for starting a conversation….no matter how crude the chat up line….
>
> What advice can you give me for handling this , ” I’m broke, no woman will want to come near me” mentality or similar scenarios you may have encountered?  RJ if you’ll forgive the pun…..I need to know how to turn these women out with turning my pockets inside out and looking like a charity case to these modern independent women that will gladly treat me, if only i know the right way to put it…..
>
> help
>
> down but not out

RJ here. I can’t tell what you mean by “escalation”. And if a woman is hot for you – if you’ve captured and led her imagination and emotions in the right way – escalation can be, “why don’t we go somewhere a little more quiet where we can relax and focus in?”

You don’t have to spend money on a date – that’s all crap in your head. And if some women DO want a guy with $$$ to go more than a few rounds with them in bed – oh well.  There are plenty who won’t care so much.

The women are waiting.  So what in the name of Ben Franklin are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What else is holding you back?  Whatever it is, I have a foolproof system that will help you blast past any and all stuck points with women.  Click here to claim yours right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted?  Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold?

Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they can perceive or predict rejection before it even happens.

Now does past rejection give us the ability to see the future?  Not really.

What happens is you want to move forward, but you also want to be totally certain before you take a step. Since these two things are not logically possible you have two conflicting desires bumping up against one another.

The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and the perception of “perceiving rejection”.

The solution is to release the need to be certain and then to feel the raw physical sensations of uncertainty without the internal dialog or imagery. Just track the raw sensations in your body, noting every ten seconds out loud if they are “Same” or “Changing” (veterans of some of my Speed Seduction® seminars are familiar with this technique).

Once you have the raw physical feeling separated from the imagery and dialog, it no longer feeds the limiting ideas in the imagery and dialog – there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you limited, so the imagery and dialog just tend to drop without you having to attempt to drop them.

And that is your “get out of rejection jail” card…

This:

1. Frees you to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc.
2. Frees up that raw energy to power the NEW story.
3. Quiets the internal “noise/friction” in your system so you can perceive what is going on with other people: the accuracy and speed of your intuition and calibration will skyrocket WITHOUT EFFORT.
4. Quiets the noise for your EXTERNAL communication so that what you say to others will not have to push out through your noise/friction. This means your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity” so they don’t creep people out/blow them out of the water/break rapport etc.
5. Changes your vibe to one that is grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

That’s not bad for one simple process, is it?

For those of you who are familiar with my Magick/PI stuff, can you imagine what this cleaned up state/cleaned up energy could do for your sigils and other forms of ritual work?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I can promise you this: when you untangle yourself like this, it makes you MUCH more appealing, much more efficient a learning machine, creates a charisma INDEPENDENT of external validation or your social skill set, creates an INFORMED, INTELLIGENT motivation and enthusiasm that doesn’t rollercoaster up and down based on how things turn out on any particular day or with any particular woman.

Like this so far?  Click here for much, much more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my recent post, I shared with you a way to leverage your way out of the “cold shower loop” by changing what you focus on. My point was: look at what’s happening in other areas of your life that might be stopping you or tripping you up.

Now, another form of leverage comes from creating something that isn’t in the system at all: an empowering, useful set of beliefs and processes for extracting maximum learning from every situation, so you cease viewing things in terms of “failure”, but really, for real, learn from everything.

Here’s a clue: can you learn to have legitimate desires for women WITH a sense of possibility and WITHOUT any of the pain / failure / limiting / sad feelings from the past, or as little as possible?

Yes, you can.

To summarize, here are three ways you can get more leverage through maximum learning:

1. Standing outside the system or process and seeing how you have been creating it in a process, rather than defining yourself as someone who “has” a “complex”. Seeing how this is NOT about “you” failing or having anything, but rather being trapped until now in a process that would guarantee that ANYONE would feel the same way and get the same results if THEY did this process.

2. Get healthy physically, have social interaction, and restore a sense of play and exploration to life, INDEPENDENT OF YOUR LEGITIMATE DESIRES FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN. The lack of success you have had in these areas, until now, may well be throwing ice water on your girl-getting game.

3. Install a new system for learning how to learn and learning from your learnings; this also would include learning to discern and separate out your legitimate desires for women from the entanglement and confusion with your old, painful, failing feelings that also have been driving you.

So, will you stand up, man up, and take a bold step forward, or do you wish to continue to wallow in shit?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The fulcrum lever that gets you the leverage you need to get things handled and “up” your game with women is contained in my Nail Your Inner Game course.  Stop wallowing… and start following this link to learn more.