Dear Speed Seduction® Students,
The other day, someone on my member’s only Yahoo group posted something quite interesting.
He had met a woman on-line and they had gone out on a “date”(Something I usually warn against: remember with Speed Seduction®, dating is for women you are already sleeping with! So much for “dating tips” and “dating advice”!)
Anyway, shortly into their evening, she looked at him and said, “I think we are only good for friends. I don’t think there is any chemistry.”
He just ignored that comment, and went right on with his sarging her.
Not long after that, she brought up the “friends” thing again.
Rather than be upset by it, he was following one of my key rules: “I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It’s almost always a response to what she is thinking, feeling or believing in THAT moment, and almost always subject to change”.
So he said to her, “You are right. There’s obviously no chemistry here. So let’s just be friends. Better yet, let’s be each other’s “wingman” and go see what else is out there!”
So off they go to a bar and start looking over the crowd, imagining introducing each other to different people.
Now, wouldn’t you know it, but by changing the context, and playing a game that excited her imagination, guess what happened?
She looks at him with lust in her eye, pulls him into her and LOCKS A BIG ONE ON HIM!
What is the lesson here?
Rather than fighting a woman’s first response, let her have it. In fact, agree with it, and use it to power both of you into a better direction by changing the setting, the context, and playfully engaging her imagination.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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